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Originally posted by inspiration4
Why are people saying she's selfish?
Why does she owe them her existence in any way? She was a willing participant in the group (at one time). She was not their slave for eternity. Why is is not selfish that they refused to accommodate her solo ambitions, and instead wanted to focus on their own?
At the end of the day, people have a responsibility to live their life as they chose, in a way that makes THEM happy. Making big life decisions to pacify others is the mantra of sheep.
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If she wanted to leave the group because it made her unhappy then WHY did she offer to have the group take a break and then resume after she finished a solo era?
She only cares about success, which isn't inherently a bad thing, but don't paint her as some poor victim that could only find happiness by leaving the group permanently and going solo.