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Originally posted by Adonis
Denial isn't cute. It is about wanting what you can't have. You can tell because as soon as someone says oh that guy is gay all you queens lose interest or they become not as hot anymore. Its all in your own head.
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It may be true for some but not all. I'm not denying that some gays only find straights attractive because they want what they can't have. But you can't just write off every single gay man who likes masculine men as self-hating/self-sabotaging.
Never in my life have I found a man any more or less attractive after I found out his sexual orientation. Orientation has nothing to do with attractiveness. A gay man can be just as hot or ugly as a straight man, and a straight man can be just as flamboyant and feminine as a gay man. It's the masculinity, personality, and confidence that matters. There's tons of gays that have those traits too. I've dated two in my lifetime, and I've met plenty others. It's just that generally, straight men tend to fit that mould more than gay men.