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Originally posted by Halien4Life
Doesn't matter whether quadruple, or even more than that. I was referring to having an older BF in general. I don't see how it isn't healthy, the kid is 18 and has the right to date whomever he wishes, nobody can tell him otherwise.
Who are we to say it's "unhealthy", & "inappropriate" ? You just never know, as long as both parts are happy satisfied in the relationship, and there's respect, then I don't see the problem.
Some just prefer older men, and sugar daddy relationships work in many cases. It depends on the individuals themselves, rather than their age. That's just how I see it.
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4 months ago the kid was in high school. He's not even out of the closet. He's probably been in college for 3-4 weeks. He's not even out of the closet yet, and considering his family didn't know either, and that he tried to lie and say the man was his
grandfather, he is not comfortable with his sexuality.
If you cannot see why it is inappropriate for a 65 year old man to take advantage of a youth in that position, I don't know what to tell you. Would you have thought it appropriate when they were 15 and 62? The kid isn't' out of puberty yet, even if he can vote.
Sure, get some old D, fool around, experiment, have fun. But a full-fledged relationship is just absolutely irresponsible, at least on the 65 year old's part. He should know better.