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Discussion: Your Crush Thread 2.0
Member Since: 4/10/2012
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Originally posted by BILLIONAIRE✘BOY
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She's nice to me though. I'm low key planning on becoming friends with her just so I can get closer to him.
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
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Oh, it's back 
I didn't have an exact story, I was just writing paragraphs about how perfect my crush is. Nothing significant happened since then tbh.
Now I'm on the spring break and I think I should try to get rid of my crush (emotionally). That sounds so stupid, but still. I'm pretty sure he's straight, so I don't think I should make myself suffer imagining what could happen between us. Obviously, nobody can't stop loving person just like that, I'll still care for him and stuff...
On the bright side, one thing still amazes me. How can we always make these awesome eye-contacts? Like, on the last day before break we didn't even have any classes together, but I accidentally saw him walking out of school. There were 30 meters between us, but we still somehow managed to make an eye-contact. We had a class trip to Sweden last weekend (and I couldn't go  ), and my crush asked me like two times before that if I'm going (probably because he didn't remember, but I still was on a Cloud9) and when he asked first time he asked a reason as well  I feel like a missed an opportunity to at least get drunk with him, lol, that would be awesome.
PS: don't take me seriously  When I see his face after the break again, I will most likely abandon all my plans about forgetting him 
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Member Since: 3/15/2013
Posts: 16,409
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Originally posted by Cupid
I want to find a new crush, like even though I live in a city with loads of gay guys, I still find it extremely hard to meet guys. I even used to be manager of a gay bar, yet I can't find any guys I like
Maybe i'm being too picky but I just refuse to settle if I don't like someone, it has to feel right. |
There's nothing wrong with that though , I guess you just have to out yourself out there and make it known.
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Member Since: 3/15/2013
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Originally posted by minxie
She's nice to me though. I'm low key planning on becoming friends with her just so I can get closer to him.
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Not you brewing up some serial killer tea chile 
I want the details if you do tho 
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
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Member Since: 3/15/2013
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Originally posted by Buddyc614
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Hey sis
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Member Since: 3/2/2014
Posts: 8,595
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Originally posted by Cupid
I want to find a new crush, like even though I live in a city with loads of gay guys, I still find it extremely hard to meet guys. I even used to be manager of a gay bar, yet I can't find any guys I like
Maybe i'm being too picky but I just refuse to settle if I don't like someone, it has to feel right. |
Im a little picky also. I have the idea of the perfect guy in mind but its like nobody ever fits the standards 
I hate it tbh...
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Member Since: 3/15/2013
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Originally posted by Homogenic
Oh, it's back
I didn't have an exact story, I was just writing paragraphs about how perfect my crush is. Nothing significant happened since then tbh.
Now I'm on the spring break and I think I should try to get rid of my crush (emotionally). That sounds so stupid, but still. I'm pretty sure he's straight, so I don't think I should make myself suffer imagining what could happen between us. Obviously, nobody can't stop loving person just like that, I'll still care for him and stuff...
On the bright side, one thing still amazes me. How can we always make these awesome eye-contacts? Like, on the last day before break we didn't even have any classes together, but I accidentally saw him walking out of school. There were 30 meters between us, but we still somehow managed to make an eye-contact. We had a class trip to Sweden last weekend (and I couldn't go ), and my crush asked me like two times before that if I'm going (probably because he didn't remember, but I still was on a Cloud9) and when he asked first time he asked a reason as well I feel like a missed an opportunity to at least get drunk with him, lol, that would be awesome.
PS: don't take me seriously When I see his face after the break again, I will most likely abandon all my plans about forgetting him |
Aww homogenic sis
Sounds like you have the right idea though an I'm speaking from experience when I say crushing on straight will be fun at first but will end in heart break. It can really **** you up mentally but if you cut it short you'll more than likely be okay. My thing now with my previous crush is that I just want him to be happy even if I'm not the one making him happy.
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Member Since: 3/15/2013
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Originally posted by Cupid
Yeah I know what you mean, plus my ex was kind of the perfect standard for me. I think I need to stop comparing people to him  |
Yeah that's the worst
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
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Originally posted by BILLIONAIRE✘BOY
Aww homogenic sis
Sounds like you have the right idea though an I'm speaking from experience when I say crushing on straight will be fun at first but will end in heart break. It can really **** you up mentally but if you cut it short you'll more than likely be okay. My thing now with my previous crush is that I just want him to be happy even if I'm not the one making him happy. |
Yes, the worst thing is that you start figuring out different signs that he likes you back & that drives you crazy. The only thing I should change is my attitude towards him. Like, I will still enjoy his a$$ when we have same classes, but that's it.
We were skipping classes last Wednesday (me, him, the other guy and the other girl) and he was together with that other girl (seemed like they are dating) & I was completely OK with that. She's not one of them hos that usually surround him and I know she has(/d) crush on him back in the day. Like, I would be genuinely happy if they were together tbh.
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Member Since: 2/6/2014
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Originally posted by Homogenic
Oh, it's back
I didn't have an exact story, I was just writing paragraphs about how perfect my crush is. Nothing significant happened since then tbh.
Now I'm on the spring break and I think I should try to get rid of my crush (emotionally). That sounds so stupid, but still. I'm pretty sure he's straight, so I don't think I should make myself suffer imagining what could happen between us. Obviously, nobody can't stop loving person just like that, I'll still care for him and stuff...
On the bright side, one thing still amazes me. How can we always make these awesome eye-contacts? Like, on the last day before break we didn't even have any classes together, but I accidentally saw him walking out of school. There were 30 meters between us, but we still somehow managed to make an eye-contact. We had a class trip to Sweden last weekend (and I couldn't go ), and my crush asked me like two times before that if I'm going (probably because he didn't remember, but I still was on a Cloud9) and when he asked first time he asked a reason as well I feel like a missed an opportunity to at least get drunk with him, lol, that would be awesome.
PS: don't take me seriously When I see his face after the break again, I will most likely abandon all my plans about forgetting him |
oh sis.. i know how it feels.. like my crush who is now my best friend, at first it was so ****ing amazing at how he treated me and showered me with those ****ing beautiful attention.. T_T then i came too strong and i think he was confused about his sexuality.. at how he fed me with his hand, how we lost staring each other eyes and how our bond so close like we need to meet at least 2X a month to heal each soul..
but i remembered how he pushed me away when i was so clingy and **** like that.. then i felt hurt and leave him like a week only, when we met we both feel there's a gap between us.. arghhh... it's so crazy and he's so selfish like he can date a girl but don't wanna lose me... if he sleeps over my house, i always hug him or he will always try to get close physically.. it's so beautiful and confusing at the same time,, he will get jealous if i go out with another mutual guy friends,, he didn't complain if i hug him or hold his hands while sleeping... yess i love him so much at first i lose myself in the process of loving this guy... we still hang out and still feel the love but he no longer try hard to show his feeling.
on the other hand my other crush who will visit me this June is such a relief... he's the one who ask for physical contact, touchy and stuff... and we're in love..
but still my love for the 1st crush is so different in so many level, maybe it's because how our memories were created perfectly etc etc... i believe one day he will need me the most even if he get married.. i'll be happy tho.. i can feel how scared he is to lose me and yes i love him
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Member Since: 8/2/2012
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Sitting next to my crush right now. Lord help me.
He smells so good
I'm going to ask for a ride home. 
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Member Since: 8/17/2013
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ooh its back!
I'm the one whose boyfriend left him for a girl suddenly and abruptly
I'm crushing on this young looking asian guy ( I'm into twinks, no shame tbh) in my Japanese class rn. He's really hot and definitely gay  he's a bit out of my league though
I'm back on civil terms with my ex, which is great. We had an honest chat last week and he admitted to me that he was indeed gay ( )
I don't think we'll ever be best friends again but at least we can hang out with others at the same time.
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
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I've only ever had a crush one one guy. He treated me like **** but I still liked him. I hope it doesn't become a pattern.
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
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Im such a mess.
I dont even have crushes.
I just get into relationships then because im too easy they do there business and leave.
Imma needa stop.
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Member Since: 2/6/2014
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this is nowhere to touch the iconic sis BeyHive's thread, probably everyone had already shared all the things they had...
Just went out with my crush which turn out to be my best friend.. he's straight as he only chat with those basic bitches to use them.. for money or stuff but not emotionally, he can depend on me on that side every damn time he feels he's lost in the middle of going nowhere... 
to save me from hurt, i made a statement in my mind that this is a platonic relationship with him, and the fact that i'm the only one who he stared differently, those eyes.. i can see it. With regular guys, he acted normal and if i'm around, his behavior and energy will change, i guess it's because he knows i love him so much..
today was beautiful, i slept over and hugged him, and he never rejects it or feels awkward, he knows i won't go too far, just knowing he's happy will make me happy too.. a beautiful relationship tbh, i'll keep update this story. I'm going to have ME time now, but i always desperate to see him at least once a week, i have that day where i feel so weak and need a clarity from him... but as today, it felt so good, we spent all day together and no conflict, tense and other negatives..
i'm happy with myself that able to make improvement, stop being needy, enjoy being alone and keep more busy.. to distract him out of my mind, even it's so hard, he'll sometimes pop up in my mind and all of a sudden i'm feeling blue...
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Member Since: 4/20/2012
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Originally posted by Victon
this is nowhere to touch the iconic sis BeyHive's thread, probably everyone had already shared all the things they had...
Just went out with my crush which turn out to be my best friend.. he's straight as he only chat with those basic bitches to use them.. for money or stuff but not emotionally, he can depend on me on that side every damn time he feels he's lost in the middle of going nowhere...
to save me from hurt, i made a statement in my mind that this is a platonic relationship with him, and the fact that i'm the only one who he stared differently, those eyes.. i can see it. With regular guys, he acted normal and if i'm around, his behavior and energy will change, i guess it's because he knows i love him so much..
today was beautiful, i slept over and hugged him, and he never rejects it or feels awkward, he knows i won't go too far, just knowing he's happy will make me happy too.. a beautiful relationship tbh, i'll keep update this story. I'm going to have ME time now, but i always desperate to see him at least once a week, i have that day where i feel so weak and need a clarity from him... but as today, it felt so good, we spent all day together and no conflict, tense and other negatives..
i'm happy with myself that able to make improvement, stop being needy, enjoy being alone and keep more busy.. to distract him out of my mind, even it's so hard, he'll sometimes pop up in my mind and all of a sudden i'm feeling blue... |
But sis what about the other guy who will visit you in June?  Don't mess that up.
And nawt you snatching all the guys while I'm hugging my pillow.
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Member Since: 8/8/2012
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Yaass girls I got great news today about my crush. I'll spill when I get home from school
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Member Since: 7/9/2010
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Originally posted by HausOfJustin
Yaass girls I got great news today about my crush. I'll spill when I get home from school |
Ooooh !! 
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
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I have a crush on my roommate, don't know anyone remembers. My old roommate left the uni, so I was given a new one. He's PERFECT, and it has been torture living with him the past few weeks. 
My friends keep telling me I should tell him I'm gay because he changes in front of me, sleeps in boxers, etc. and he'll be pissed if he finds out elsewhere. What do y'all think? Is it wrong not to tell him? (I'm closeted btw). It's not like aids where you can to inform your sex partners so idk 
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