Yeah, he ended up being the biggest cheater I've ever dated.
The dumb thing is I still fall for those bad boys though, they're just much so addictive lol.
Yes, a few, the sex is AMAZING. We would hammer each other till we both went numb. But I digress, relationship wise, they're a mess. Usually paranoid as ****, self hating homophobes. Even when they aren't, they are immature and egocentric. Which just makes them hotter tbh, egos turn me on. They are basically sugar, you know it's bad for you but sugar still tastes like sugar.
No, and if you can read, you would see the quotations around "bad". I grew up in "the ghetto". I don't need to be educated on your poorly formed opinions. Fetishizing thugs/gangsters/whatever you label them stems from the same mentality as those who fetishize other minorities and ethnicities. It's a dumb trophy scenario you throw around to make your life more interesting and exciting, and here you all are talking about it, joking about how these guys aren't good for the long term, how they threatened to hit or kill you, how you came from a different background and don't know why you decided to hang with them, etc. You just don't understand that you are doing it.
Ask yourself this: Why do you label these men "gangsters" and "thugs" and not yourself? What separates you from them? What makes you so different that you wouldn't place the same label upon yourself? Is it because you didn't grow up in a low income community, or because you don't deal drugs? Is it because you are more "educated"? Exactly what makes them a gangster or thug besides the so called obvious?
I mean I went out with this guy I really liked for like a few times, then he asked me if I wanted to help him bake a cake with weed and all my feelings were gone in one second. Disgusting.
I am so far removed from my bad boy phase. I am not looking for that kind of rush in a relationship.
