I have no social media, which makes things interesting (or "weird" to some) since neither of us can stalk each other from a distance. Well, technically I could find him, but I'm not interested.
So I literally have NO idea what he's up to, or if he even lives in the same city.
But I wish nothing but the best for him. He's a great guy.
God knows, and I really couldn't care less. All I know is he's had at least 5 more "relationships" since we called it off. He's incapable of being a caring human being so he uses people for sex and money.
Thank the lord I listened to people and got out of that quickly!
The last time I heard from my ex was in November. He messaged me and wanted to see me after months of not speaking as if he was on some for just one Brooklyn Nights adieu ****. He told me he came out to his parents and they told him next vacation he would not be welcome back. Two weeks later he revealed to me he tried to kill himself and was put into a mental hospital for a week.
I gave him advice, but he seemed distant. I messaged him a few times following, but he never replied. It's been 5 months and I've completely moved on from the idea of getting back with him. I'm in an amazing relationship now.
Yesterday, after 5 months of apathy, I lurked his Insta to find HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND NOW. Wtf?! He's not even bi though - trust me, I know. I was quite hurt by this for some reason. When we were together, it was extremely discreet. But she's everywhere on his insta, and she's everywhere on his. He calls her his little tangerine ?!!!?!?!?!
Am I in the wrong for being hurt by this given my current relationship? I feel like he will always have a nostalgic presence in my life. This felt like a slap in the face and I can't put into reasonable words why.