Having done all those besides heroin, for me alcohol competes with those drugs in the "looseness" it gives you. Estacy makes you more trusting of others and you're more likely to give into temptation because it feels so good, Valium=alcohol, and coke doesn't really impair as much as the reputation it gets. I think because alcohol is legal, people think it is safer but that's not true. It's actually in the top of the worst drugs out there.
I believe these drugs make it easier for you to fall into temptation, but using them you should know that and not put yourself in situations you know you won't be able to control yourself in. That's why I believe in accountability.
If choosing to do these drugs, you should be responsible for knowing your limit before putting yourself in potentially risky situations.
Actually, this is what I'm saying (the bolded text).
It's all about dosage. No I haven't done illegal drugs. But with alcohol I tend to control my intake.
Wtf? You realize rape victims often orgasm because they're being physically penetrated and can't help it even if they don't like it. It's not rape then right?
Most of the time - before a woman gets drunk, she knows that she wants to have sex after getting drunk.
Sometimes that's even the reason of their drinking.
So no, it's not rape.
Erm. Even if this were true (which, hint, it's not) what of the women who don't drink in order to get laid? Is that still not rape?
Are you saying it's safe to assume that any woman who gets drunk is asking to be taken advantage of?
no.. if your an adult and decide to mingle in social settings where people are on the prowl for possible prospects then you shoulnt have drank by yourself. Also youd have to be passed out for it to be rape. Most of you all here get drunk to the point of possibly wanting the d* yall be careful girls and always be smart when you decide to drink alone.
No. Drunk people hook up all the time. I dont know how you could have sex with someone who's throwing up and **** though.
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Originally posted by iforgiveyou
The logic behind "men can't be raped" is because a man has to be stimulated to achieve an erection. If he were physically appalled by someone, it would be impossible. In theory. It's a dumb ass saying, because rape goes beyond that, but that is why people make that assumption.
lol Thats not true, Do you know what morning wood is?
No. Drunk people hook up all the time. I dont know how you could have sex with someone who's throwing up and **** though.
lol Thats not true, Do you know what morning wood is?
I know what morning wood is. I was explaining the logic of others. I also included in theory. Do people on ATRL not know how to read? I mean seriously, learn some basic reading comprehension people. Jesus Christ.
If my boyfriend has sex with me while I sleep w/o consent and I like having sex with him but try to stop him multiple times cause I don't want to have sex, then it's not rape?
The term "drunk people" is so vague that it does not only refer to people so wasted they are barely conscious, it also refers to people who are fully awake and able to make decisions and carry on conversations.
Are you saying it's safe to assume that any woman who gets drunk is asking to be taken advantage of?
No, dear. But it IS INDEED safe to assume that A LOT OF PEOPLE, male AND female, who are out drinking at a bar, are wanting to hook up with someone. It is what people do in today's society.
If you're so drunk you don't know what you're doing and in a place which is specifically designed for hook ups (like clubs), I think you should put up with possible consequences.
It depends tbh. People can still make decisions when drunk and a lot of the time when people have drunk sex both parties are drunk. Obviously if a woman or man is so drunk they can barely walk then it would be rape but if someone is feeling frisky after a few glasses of wine and can give their full consent it isn't rape.
I know what morning wood is. I was explaining the logic of others. I also included in theory. Do people on ATRL not know how to read? I mean seriously, learn some basic reading comprehension people. Jesus Christ.
plus, how can you have sex with a drunk person? it's like they are sleeping and don't do nothing, plus they smell awful, it's just gross
There are some people who can be drunk and not messy or smell. Not everyone gets white girl wasted you know. In my alcoholic days I could be drunk as ****, go out with friends, and no one would ever know I was drunk because I thought of how I would be percieved before doing things -- hence one of the reasons why I'm more inclined to believe there is a lot of judgment still available when drunk. Also, I'm sure more than half of ATRL would have sex if Austin Mahone/Zayn Malik or whoever you guys drool over came up wanting to **** acting a bit intoxicated but able to communicate functionally.
especially if you're both drunk.
I'd say so, unless the two are in a relatipnship of course.