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Poll: Are You Born Gay?
Member Since: 6/22/2011
Posts: 6,997
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Originally posted by Lil Misty
Let me elaborate tho. I believe that no ones born gay or straight. People like people
Preferences are another thing. I honestly was so attracted to girls until I was about 14, then I liked guys more. I'd still date/marry a girl if she's the right one
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exactly how i feel
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Member Since: 5/30/2012
Posts: 1,590
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I wasn't attracted to guys until I was 14 and it wasn't that I was in denial. It just happened so to answer the question, not always.
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Member Since: 5/18/2012
Posts: 20,576
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Originally posted by ZachM
yes and if you say no you're an idiot
i wanted to play with barbies and **** when i was like 2. explain that ****ers
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That has nothing to do with sexuality. That is just the gender roles society places on us. Boys can play with dolls and come out straight later in life, same with boys who played with trucks can come out as gay.
I played with cars, and trucks, and hated everything girly. I was the stereotypical boy growing up. The only "girly" thing I did was play with a baby doll, but that was only because I wanted a sibling as a kid. Years later, I'm bi, but by what you're going by I should be the straightest guy ever.
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Member Since: 3/27/2012
Posts: 27,951
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Give or take, depends on some people. I've been attracted to girls until I was about 14, but boys got my most attention. Eventually I just lost all interest in girls and don't think I could ever be with one.
I think there is more then one factor on a person sexuality, and I think we should explore others instead of finding on primary one.
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Member Since: 3/22/2012
Posts: 26,321
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Originally posted by zombaland
nnnm,d; the lies misty...
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Go ban yourself again, that's my opinion
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Member Since: 12/19/2010
Posts: 5,239
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About nezLaos
Sexual Orientation
Straight
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if you really are straight, you just wouldnt understand. no one would "choose" to be gay no matter what influences there are, because it's not the "normal thing" to be. no one would choose to be hated by many people, some of which don't even know them and just hate them for who they love. if you're gay, you're born with gay hormones or w/e it's biological
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Member Since: 8/21/2011
Posts: 2,353
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I could feel I wanted that **** since I was in my momma's womb.
Like Gaga said "my momma told me when I was youn', we're all born flaming homosexuals superstars"
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Member Since: 6/25/2012
Posts: 41,860
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Originally posted by psychodj
I don't really believe in the "born gay" theory. I just don't. I had an attraction for girls during elementary and some of middle, but around high school, I started noticing boys more than girls. I find dudes more attractive than girls nowadays My opinion is that it just happens. I highly doubt it's a choice. I mean...who would choose to be gay? We get ridiculed, bashed, killed, assaulted...a heavy price for liking the same sex, unlike our straight counterparts. Plus, if we just "chose" our sexuality, wouldn't that mean were all just bisexual and have the ability to switch back and forth between straight and gay? It's laughable really... No fully straight guy is going to switch to dudes and no fully gay man is going to switch to women just like that. I feel like it's just what your attracted to really....we can't help who were attracted to or who we fall in love with. Whether it's a man or a woman, then so be it, you like what you like. There are some cases where your environment and certain situations in life can influence you greatly, but I feel like that doesn't apply to everyone.
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intresting...i can attest to this too but when did you start going through puberty? I didnt till i was 15-16 same time i started liking a guy
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Member Since: 2/27/2012
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so what about people that are attracted to animals, is it right? were they born that way?
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Member Since: 6/18/2012
Posts: 18,768
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Originally posted by nezLaos
Are you born gay? I feel like it's how your raised and your enivronment/influences.
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It's because YOU'RE BORN GAY, you aimed into a certain ENVIRONMENT/INFLUENCES. And not you're blaming on that environment and people when you really put yourself there. Being raised by a single mother has nothing to do with it.
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Member Since: 6/18/2012
Posts: 18,768
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Originally posted by nezLaos
Well i didn't have my dad growing up. and i remember being afraid of asking girls out, so much pressure to have a girlfriend. I never really thought about homosexuality until my friend's acted like it all the time in middle school. at first i was disgusted but slowly i started playing around with them too.
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You're discovering your gay nature actually....
Everyone goes through this when they hit puberty.
Of course, there are also signs that we are gay when we are younger but not much because we didnt know what LOVE is.
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Member Since: 5/14/2012
Posts: 12,274
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Originally posted by Dollas n Diamonds
intresting...i can attest to this too but when did you start going through puberty? I didnt till i was 15-16 same time i started liking a guy
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I didn't start really paying them attention until I was like 14. In elementary and through middle school I only liked girls, i just didn't really care for relationships during that time. My freshman year of high school was when I started paying dudes more attention and noticing their features and all that, and as the days passed, my attraction for girls started to fade away. It's still there; I just prefer dudes more.
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Member Since: 6/18/2012
Posts: 18,768
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Originally posted by Princess Peach
No, get over it. People are born with blank slates and it depends on environmental factors/childhood experiences. It's not a choice like religious people claim, tho.
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Oh and that turns some gay people voice to be really girly. Cool logic, bro.
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Member Since: 12/28/2011
Posts: 19,165
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No one is born gay. End of. People who say otherwise don't have a clue what they're talking about.
I personally believe we all are/were bisexual but end up with a definitive preference somehow trough experience. Like, you can't be born with a preference on liking Britney over Christina without living through it, can you?
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Member Since: 8/21/2011
Posts: 2,353
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Originally posted by psychodj
I don't really believe in the "born gay" theory. I just don't. I had an attraction for girls during elementary and some of middle, but around high school, I started noticing boys more than girls. I find dudes more attractive than girls nowadays. My opinion is that it just happens. I highly doubt it's a choice. I mean...who would choose to be gay? We get ridiculed, bashed, killed, assaulted...a heavy price for liking the same sex, unlike our straight counterparts. Plus, if we just "chose" our sexuality, wouldn't that mean were all just bisexual and have the ability to switch back and forth between straight and gay? It's laughable really... No fully straight guy is going to switch to dudes and no fully gay man is going to switch to women just like that. I feel like it's just what your attracted to really....we can't help who were attracted to or who we fall in love with. Whether it's a man or a woman, then so be it, you like what you like. There are some cases where your environment and certain situations in life can influence you greatly, but I feel like that doesn't apply to everyone.
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As strange as it is, I never found girls attracting, I love them more as "pals". The first time I felt something for someone, I was in kindergarten, and it was for a boy. I knew since then that somehow I was in the wrong way.. but that I knew what I wanted (the ****).
Once, only once, I found myself questioning my sexuality, and that was because I started feeling weird things for my best friend (who's a girl) in 7th grade but it wasn't sexual, it was more like puppy love. And that reinforced my feeling about boys: I want to ride them.
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Member Since: 12/19/2010
Posts: 5,239
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Originally posted by nezLaos
so what about people that are attracted to animals, is it right? were they born that way?
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oh HELL no. did you really just say that? did you really just say that?
if you're going to compare homosexuality to bestiality, i am not even going to argue. you are not worth my breath.
i do not understand how someone could compare such things.
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Member Since: 6/18/2012
Posts: 18,768
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Originally posted by Poisonous
Being gay is biological... You can't change that. Married men divorce because they just can't hold themselves like that.
Its simple. You were dominated by female hormones instead of a male.
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Member Since: 8/16/2011
Posts: 3,588
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Originally posted by nezLaos
so what about people that are attracted to animals, is it right? were they born that way?
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Why don't you ask them instead of answering the question yourself like you're in their shoes? & You comparing love between to consenting people with beastiality
If I wasn't born gay, then you weren't born straight. sit.
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Member Since: 6/29/2011
Posts: 11,522
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I don't think so. But you're also not born straight. One's environment shapes us in every way. Our family, neighborhood, experiences as children. All of that and the way we interpret and reflect on that is what leads to many aspects of ourselves including sexual orientation
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Member Since: 6/18/2012
Posts: 18,768
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Originally posted by americanshameless
No one is born gay. End of. People who say otherwise don't have a clue what they're talking about.
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Are you gay?
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