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Discussion: How's Your Love Life (SFW)
Member Since: 12/24/2010
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Originally posted by Departure
I'm still a virgin.
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No, but you're still fame*****
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Member Since: 5/1/2011
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Member Since: 10/19/2010
Posts: 3,941
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Originally posted by Departure
8 years apart! That seems to happen a lot lately. I know a ton. An 18 year old likes me right now so hopefully!
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Definitely. I find a lot of guys my age unappealing, so dating older is definitely a preference of mine. I won't date higher than 35 though :P
How big is the age gap between you and your guy?
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Originally posted by Glamthony
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Aw, I'm sorry to hear that!
You're obviously just reeling from the break up. Just take this time to yourself, and it's totally OK to go a bit crazy! Try not to overdue it though!
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Member Since: 6/25/2008
Posts: 20,616
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Originally posted by Yourfavefan
I am still in love with my ex
And he has a boyfriend
But they might break up soon
But idk if its a smart idea to go back together even though idk if he even wants to get back together :/
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I know it's easier to say this but move on..If someone decided you don't work together and quit on you, why would you try that again?
I mean, I loved my ex, first love, he was everything I looked in a guy and the break up was weird and too messy to explain in here [he broke up with me and still said he love me..That's just part of it]
Buttom line, we broke up and he was the one who decided to give up on me so I might do otherwise if I had the option but I'd rether think I'm a little bit more smart than to get back to a guy who ******* on our relationship and you should do too.
Go get someone better.
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Member Since: 3/7/2011
Posts: 19,696
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Originally posted by NickLacheyFan
I know it's easier to say this but move on..If someone decided you don't work together and quit on you, why would you try that again?
I mean, I loved my ex, first love, he was everything I looked in a guy and the break up was weird and too messy to explain in here [he broke up with me and still said he love me..That's just part of it]
Buttom line, we broke up and he was the one who decided to give up on me so I might do otherwise if I had the option but I'd rether think I'm a little bit more smart than to get back to a guy who ******* on our relationship and you should do too.
Go get someone better.
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It really is harder done then said... but I am trying.. I just am still attached.. its really hard tbh!
I am looking for new guys.. people say having fun with other guys could be the way to help me get over him, I just don't feel it. And if it turns into a relationship, wouldn't that make it a rebound? I don't want that either
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Member Since: 7/13/2010
Posts: 11,566
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I have been in a relationship with this guy for a little bit over a year, unfortunately where we live keeps apart for 6 months at a time so we only see each other in the winters/summers. In the past 380 days I have only seen him for 17 days
It gets pretty stressful, having to make that extra effort to keep the spark there and to be there for each other but Im hoping we work something out so we spend next year together starting this summer.
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Member Since: 6/25/2008
Posts: 20,616
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Originally posted by Yourfavefan
It really is harder done then said... but I am trying.. I just am still attached.. its really hard tbh!
I am looking for new guys.. people say having fun with other guys could be the way to help me get over him, I just don't feel it. And if it turns into a relationship, wouldn't that make it a rebound? I don't want that either
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My ex was kinda a rebound.
I mean, he was the first guy I dated after the ex before him...It wasn't a "having fun" date so dunno how you define rebound but I'm pretty sure it still means one.
Don't rule out anything and don't do something that you don't feel like doing but try to keep your thoughts on other things, go out with friends and try to find someone else.
I really don't think that gettin' back to someone who broke it off is a smart idea.
I did it once, the only thing it made me realize is how right the first break up was.
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Member Since: 3/7/2011
Posts: 19,696
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Originally posted by NickLacheyFan
My ex was kinda a rebound.
I mean, he was the first guy I dated after the ex before him...It wasn't a "having fun" date so dunno how you define rebound but I'm pretty sure it still means one.
Don't rule out anything and don't do something that you don't feel like doing but try to keep your thoughts on other things, go out with friends and try to find someone else.
I really don't think that gettin' back to someone who broke it off is a smart idea.
I did it once, the only thing it made me realize is how right the first break up was.
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I guess :/
I will keep trying to move on.. I just hope its just a regular relationship cause I feel like just using someone for a rebound would be horrible :/
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Member Since: 8/29/2011
Posts: 34,052
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I've never dated anyone There was this one girl I had a huge crush on, everyone wanted me to get together with her to the point where it almost became annoying. Then one of my (girl) friends went too far and asked her out for me behind my back. Of course she said no. That was the end of that and I haven't really liked anyone since.
I'm 15 though. I have time.
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Member Since: 7/13/2010
Posts: 11,566
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Originally posted by Yourfavefan
It really is harder done then said... but I am trying.. I just am still attached.. its really hard tbh!
I am looking for new guys.. people say having fun with other guys could be the way to help me get over him, I just don't feel it. And if it turns into a relationship, wouldn't that make it a rebound? I don't want that either
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Dont rush into anything if you dont feel over that person yet and still have very strong feelings for them. Just try to take everything one day at a time and do what you normally do everyday. Youll find yourself progressively getting over that person; or maybe in time youll both realize you want to be with each other.
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Member Since: 6/10/2011
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Inexistent, as it has been for over 17 years now.
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Member Since: 6/25/2008
Posts: 20,616
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Originally posted by Yourfavefan
I guess :/
I will keep trying to move on.. I just hope its just a regular relationship cause I feel like just using someone for a rebound would be horrible :/
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Well, first of all as someone who kinda finally feels he passed the same thing you're going through, you're free to PM me and just talk about stuff..Trust me when I say this - It's easier when you got someone who's going through the same thing or just someone who can understand you and give you an objective advice on stuff.
second of all, you are only using someone if you meet him in order to use him.
It's up to you not to do it, I mean, no one will make you go out with someone... If you date someone do it cuz' you want to not cuz' you want to give your mind another reason to forget your ex. I would never date someone just forget someone.
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ATRL Contributor
Member Since: 8/11/2007
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Originally posted by Regina George
Is uncomfortable when you don't love him back but when you love him is just Paradise
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Yeah I love him like crazy just wish I knew what he thought.
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Member Since: 6/13/2011
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Haven't been looking for one lately. Soon though. I don't feel lonely but it's just so weird that most of the people I'm close with has a partner.
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Member Since: 3/7/2011
Posts: 19,696
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Originally posted by L/\DY G/\G/\
Dont rush into anything if you dont feel over that person yet and still have very strong feelings for them. Just try to take everything one day at a time and do what you normally do everyday. Youll find yourself progressively getting over that person; or maybe in time youll both realize you want to be with each other.
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Originally posted by NickLacheyFan
Well, first of all as someone who kinda finally feels he passed the same thing you're going through, you're free to PM me and just talk about stuff..Trust me when I say this - It's easier when you got someone who's going through the same thing or just someone who can understand you and give you an objective advice on stuff.
second of all, you are only using someone if you meet him in order to use him.
It's up to you not to do it, I mean, no one will make you go out with someone... If you date someone do it cuz' you want to not cuz' you want to give your mind another reason to forget your ex. I would never date someone just forget someone.
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Yeah, I am doing my every day thing i guess, which isn't much.. just school :/
I just kinda feel like I should be in the point where I am over him already.. its like 3 months already.. and I have gotten over my depression and left the house and all. And I am doing everything normally, but I just still feel like I have attachments to him and I don't have any other gay friends. I hang with other people but I don't feel like thye can fully understand for some reason.. idk..
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Member Since: 3/16/2011
Posts: 6,580
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Originally posted by Yourfavefan
It really is harder done then said... but I am trying.. I just am still attached.. its really hard tbh!
I am looking for new guys.. people say having fun with other guys could be the way to help me get over him, I just don't feel it. And if it turns into a relationship, wouldn't that make it a rebound? I don't want that either
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I was really attached to this guy and the only thing that cured it was time, i met other guys but all the time i was thinking of him, now a lot of time has passed and im over him but it was because i got rid of all contact with him, no pics, no messages, no number, nothing. deleted him from my life
so for me that was the solution
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Member Since: 3/7/2011
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Originally posted by cheap
I was really attached to this guy and the only thing that cured it was time, i met other guys but all the time i was thinking of him, now a lot of time has passed and im over him but it was because i got rid of all contact with him, no pics, no messages, no number, nothing. deleted him from my life
so for me that was the solution
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Idk if I wanna do that though I don't want to lose contact with him all my life, though when I went on vacation it really did help me a lot.. idk.. it could be the solution.. but then he'd be cut from my life completely :/
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Member Since: 6/25/2008
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Originally posted by Yourfavefan
Idk if I wanna do that though I don't want to lose contact with him all my life, though when I went on vacation it really did help me a lot.. idk.. it could be the solution.. but then he'd be cut from my life completely :/
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You have to do that.
Just today I texted my ex after not talking to him for like 2 months cuz' I have a shirt of him and I thought to myself, it's time to give it back and fully move on.
You don't need anything that will remind you of him when you try to forget...Why keep hanging on memories who should stay memories and nothing more?
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Member Since: 3/16/2011
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Originally posted by Yourfavefan
Idk if I wanna do that though I don't want to lose contact with him all my life, though when I went on vacation it really did help me a lot.. idk.. it could be the solution.. but then he'd be cut from my life completely :/
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You can always talk to him again some months later or after the time it takes you to get over him, I guess it was easier for me because I want no contact with him again :/
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Member Since: 11/9/2011
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I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for almost a year now. Our one year anniversary is on the thirteen of this month. This has been my first time that I have been truly in love. I hope that our relantionship can continue after high school since we are going to different universities and I'm not sure if a long distance relantionship will work out. But for now we are enjoying our time together, and since we go to school together an have the same classes we are able to spend time together every day.
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