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Discussion: Archived: Random Thoughts (#1)
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Meh I used to date women as well and I'm a certified ***, but like I told you don't make yourself illusions think that he's 0% gay but still he's your friend and you could come out to him. Don't be such a chicken, it's time to come out!!
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Originally posted by Kh-Loud
i hope this answer your question!
Drew looks at me, I fake a smile so he won't see
That I want and I'm needing everything that we should be
I'll bet she's beautiful, that girl he talks about
And she's got everything that I have to live without
Drew talks to me, I laugh cause it's so just funny
That I can't even see anyone when he's with me
He says he's so in love, he's finally got it right,
I wonder if he knows he's all I think about at night
He's the reason for the teardrops on my guitar Pillow/Iphone
The only thing that keeps me wishing on a wishing star
He's the song in the car I keep singing, don't know why I do
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anyway, what are the options? what do YOU think you should do? 
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You're welcome sis! And I understand, I didn't want to lose my friendship with the guy I was in the same situation with. But I ended up giving up on it. But that's good sis, that you're willing to work out your problems. And really sis? Wow, that would be even worse.  I don't know what to say. Like I said, maybe you should just tell him your situation. It'll be hard, but it'll help you alot. If he's a true friend, he'll feel for you and try to help you. And I know what you mean, when you're crushing on someone that's that close to you, it makes it so much harder because you have the friendship and everything to worry about.  You aren't dumb at all. It's not your fault that you fell for him. It's so easy to get caught up in that, when you're close friends with someone, you sometimes mistake their feelings as being love too. I've been there before. 
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this award show
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Originally posted by Chemist
Meh I used to date women as well and I'm a certified ***, but like I told you don't make yourself illusions think that he's 0% gay but still he's your friend and you could come out to him. Don't be such a chicken, it's time to come out!!
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Originally posted by bobiix
anyway, what are the options? what do YOU think you should do?
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Originally posted by ManDown
You're welcome sis! And I understand, I didn't want to lose my friendship with the guy I was in the same situation with. But I ended up giving up on it. But that's good sis, that you're willing to work out your problems. And really sis? Wow, that would be even worse. I don't know what to say. Like I said, maybe you should just tell him your situation. It'll be hard, but it'll help you alot. If he's a true friend, he'll feel for you and try to help you. And I know what you mean, when you're crushing on someone that's that close to you, it makes it so much harder because you have the friendship and everything to worry about. You aren't dumb at all. It's not your fault that you fell for him. It's so easy to get caught up in that, when you're close friends with someone, you sometimes mistake their feelings as being love too. I've been there before. |
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Originally posted by Kerihill
Go for it! If this is the only chance you have to open up then let him embrace your sexuality with open arms! You never know!  And you've been friends with him long enough to maybe stay budies when you move off and away to college!
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i cant believe all you guys gave me the same advice which is to come straight out to him. i probably should, but i am one scared stubborn *****. i was thinking about doing that today, but my chance was ruined. today coulda been the best opportunity to tell him, but i kinda ****ed that up.
thank alot for the advice guys. i actually feel lil better after discussed this with yall!
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It's because it's really good advice, sis! If he's a really close friend, then he deserves to know. I'd definitely want to know if any of my friends felt that way about me. It'd make me feel alot better, and you never know what he'll say.  Don't be scared, it'll be easy, and once you say it you'll feel SO much better. Trust me. And it's okay, you just weren't ready to do it today. 
You're welcome sis, you know we're always here for you.
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i dont think youre ever gonna do it. i mean yah, it is the best thing to do indeed, but i doubt you have balls. hell, i couldnt either. i dont really think anyone could.
i thought rihanna was gonna perform? im dayum confused now.
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Life is not a fairytale, we just have to make it our mission, to make it one. <3
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Learn how to make sushi, and act/dress like a girl then I got you. I've been single for what seems like too long, you'll do for now. 
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Originally posted by bobiix
i dont think youre ever gonna do it. i mean yah, it is the best thing to do indeed, but i doubt you have balls. hell, i couldnt either. i dont really think anyone could.
i thought rihanna was gonna perform? im dayum confused now.
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Stop being so negative. We can ANYTHING we want and have anything achieved in life as long as we put our mind to it! Positive thinking! Positive influences! Yes I can!
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I just got called a Rihtard for the first time in my life. It feels damn good. 
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Learn how to make sushi, and act/dress like a girl then I got you. I've been single for what seems like too long, you'll do for now. |
gurl first thing first, i am a *****, so i dont have to dress as one because i am one.
secondly, i am BLACK, so i dont make sushi, i make Fried Chicken? can u still accept me for who i am?
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Originally posted by Kerihill
Stop being so negative. We can ANYTHING we want and have anything achieved in life as long as we put our mind to it! Positive thinking! Positive influences! Yes I can!
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oh, no, its not about being negative. it wasnt like dayum gur! you aint **** n u aint gon dew **** about it okurrrr it was more like you got some kind of support right now, you feel strong and in this moment you feel like youre gonna do it. will you feel the same way when youre in front of him is a whole another story.
but, yeah, if thats gonna make you feel better, YASS GURL DO IT DO IT. all over your face and stufffff so lick it nawww lick it gewd.. 
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*goes into Photoshop to replace the fingers with something else*
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Originally posted by ManDown
It's because it's really good advice, sis! If he's a really close friend, then he deserves to know. I'd definitely want to know if any of my friends felt that way about me. It'd make me feel alot better, and you never know what he'll say. Don't be scared, it'll be easy, and once you say it you'll feel SO much better. Trust me. And it's okay, you just weren't ready to do it today.
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Originally posted by bobiix
i dont think youre ever gonna do it. i mean yah, it is the best thing to do indeed, but i doubt you have balls. hell, i couldnt either. i dont really think anyone could.
i thought rihanna was gonna perform? im dayum confused now. |
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Originally posted by Kerihill
Stop being so negative. We can ANYTHING we want and have anything achieved in life as long as we put our mind to it! Positive thinking! Positive influences! Yes I can!
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Boblix is actually right. i dont have the balls, and i really need to grow some!
living in the dark is fretful and annoying, but im kinda used living in it! i mean i will be free one day, but the time isn't coming to come any time soon! 
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All the Gaga stans having meltdowns on Tumblr cuz Katy Perry won a PCA over her.
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Originally posted by Kh-Loud
gurl first thing first, i am a *****, so i dont have to dress as one because i am one.
secondly, i am BLACK, so i dont make sushi, i make Fried Chicken? can u still accept me for who i am?
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Are you really black? Who was #1 on 106, And Park today? Black people eat sushi anyways. Chicken's good enough for me.
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