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Discussion: Love themed: What are things you look for in a lover?
Member Since: 10/10/2009
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Another love topic 
LOVE at FIRST sight? i'd like to say no but my own experience contradicts that...
When i first saw my now ex in Mcdonald's cutting second period i was instantly hooked.  I was infactuated and knew that i needed to have her. I was definately in love with the idea of being in love woth her. A few months went by until i mustered up the courage to "contact" her through some mutual friends...
From the first phone conversation i knew it was love, and the next day we left school after second period and drove to the local park. We walked around alone, talking endlessly as if we had been best friends for years. We hung out the rest of the day and then i drove her home that evening, only for us to end up talking on the phone until the early morning hours. We were inseperable for the next four years, even in the "off" periods....
So......love at first sight??? I hate to say it, but i belive it exists. Humans are much more complex than we credit ourselves with being, and i believe there exists an instanstaneous love that defies logic entirely...
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Member Since: 6/16/2010
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Originally posted by inspiration4
So......love at first sight??? I hate to say it, but i belive it exists. Humans are much more complex than we credit ourselves with being, and i believe there exists an instanstaneous love that defies logic entirely... |
This made me smile, could not have said it better myself.
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Member Since: 12/16/2008
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I would say: romantic, cute, kind, passional & sweet :heart: there ain't other way I can describe him and well if I describe my ex: moron x10000000 
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ATRL Senior Member
Member Since: 11/14/2008
Posts: 24,988
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Quote:
Originally posted by inspiration4
So......love at first sight??? I hate to say it, but i belive it exists. Humans are much more complex than we credit ourselves with being, and i believe there exists an instanstaneous love that defies logic entirely... |
Great post and I completely agree. "Instantaneous love that defies logic entirely..." Just beautiful!!! 
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Member Since: 7/24/2006
Posts: 4,281
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This is for my ex. And, to be fair, I'll do 5 positives and 5 negatives.
Negative: self-destructive, sad, attention-seeking, argumentative, non-affectionate
Positive: energetic, caring, thoughtful, artistic, beautiful
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Member Since: 11/30/2009
Posts: 5,123
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Bitch, *****, ****, skank, ****.
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Member Since: 7/15/2005
Posts: 27,703
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Quote:
Originally posted by MrCookiepants
Bitch, *****, ****, skank, ****.
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DEAD! 
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ATRL Senior Member
Member Since: 11/14/2008
Posts: 24,988
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Quote:
Originally posted by MrCookiepants
Bitch, *****, ****, skank, ****.
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It ended badly I take it?
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Member Since: 2/9/2008
Posts: 32,819
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Originally posted by foxaylove
You better get to it then hon!  |
I'm not out babe.
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Member Since: 11/30/2009
Posts: 5,123
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Originally posted by foxaylove
It ended badly I take it? |
We're still together.
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ATRL Senior Member
Member Since: 11/14/2008
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Quote:
Originally posted by MrCookiepants
We're still together.
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Well that's quite a interesting relationship you two have then. 
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Member Since: 5/11/2010
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rough, fast, hard, big, strong.
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Member Since: 11/24/2006
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blond, hot, funny, ****, kinda wannabe
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ATRL Senior Member
Member Since: 6/23/2008
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My ex was/is...
sweet, generous, funny, slightly-manipulative, spontaneous
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Member Since: 8/12/2007
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My Bf is
muscled, silly, smart, rude, and sometimes annoying.
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Member Since: 6/4/2010
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Ex: violent, controlling, insecure, jealous, close minded.
Current mate: loving, beautiful, reliable, adventurous, great ****.
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ATRL Senior Member
Member Since: 11/14/2008
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Next topic: Would you marry someone who has a low income?
People always list what they want from a potential spouse and financial stability is always listed. Would you date someone who makes a low income? Does love for you have limits?
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Member Since: 12/13/2009
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If it meant spending the rest of your life with someone you loved, then yes I would marry someone with low income.
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Member Since: 6/4/2010
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It depends.
If you're planning on working at Mcdonalds for the rest of your life, and have no desire to further your career or education then **** no.
Now if you're actually TRYING to make something out of yourself to gain financial stability by furthering your education/career, and just happen to be working a low income job at the time, then yes.
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Member Since: 7/17/2009
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Tbh....No! I think it is good to be with someone who has a good financial stability.
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