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Discussion: Have you ever been in love?
Member Since: 9/5/2009
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Originally posted by KarlosVzla
I think i'm in loved. I'm not sure that's why i was asking u guys how did it felt and what are some of the signs you know?
I can't stop thinking about that person, i'm always talking to that person, i feel sad when i'm not. It feels right, we have so many things in common. I love that person with my entire heart i do. I was just afraid to admit it cuz i don't want to be played but now i know the feeling is reciprocate.
I know you probably gonna read this so i want you to know that you have become my priority, you are my everything now. Ugh, i just love you too much it's scary.
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That's so cute <3
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Member Since: 7/10/2010
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i think alot of people do confuse love with lust.. it pretty hard to understand the difference between the two sumtimes.. but i think true love is more of a soul connection its like both were made to b together even if u r not having sex u will always want to b wit that person to the end.
And also with alot of people we let our sex drive control a large % of who we we are going to date, which physcial attraction is a big part, we leave out the other main part which is will this person mental and emotional connect with me
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Member Since: 4/16/2007
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Originally posted by KarlosVzla
I think i'm in loved. I'm not sure that's why i was asking u guys how did it felt and what are some of the signs you know?
I can't stop thinking about that person, i'm always talking to that person, i feel sad when i'm not. It feels right, we have so many things in common. I love that person with my entire heart i do. I was just afraid to admit it cuz i don't want to be played but now i know the feeling is reciprocate.
I know you probably gonna read this so i want you to know that you have become my priority, you are my everything now. Ugh, i just love you too much it's scary.
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i think if that person feels the same to you, what are you waiting for? do not be afraid to love cause maybe it will be the best thing in the world, some time ago i felt the same, that you feel right now ,but i didn't sure what it was, so that person was sure what felt about me and i do not. and when i've been sure ,that was SO late so don't make the same mistake that i did, if the opportunity is here, DO IT!
so i've been thinking that maybe it was an obsession or maybe it is that i want to think.
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Member Since: 11/30/2008
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Yes, and Still. And feels so great :heart:
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Member Since: 11/12/2009
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This thread is cute
I've been in love once , and it's amazing
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Member Since: 4/23/2007
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Member Since: 10/10/2009
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Originally posted by fatty
^ WOW !!! Congrats
you wrote all that yourself???
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Yes,
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Originally posted by chemist
Wow, you were truly in love
and yes I've been in love. Unfortunately it didn't end up well
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Fixed 3.5 - 4 yrs was actually referring to the length...... and your not alone. The crazy thing is that even though the end of my relationship was amicable, mutual, and neccessary, it still felt like DEATH.
Quote:
Originally posted by KarlosVzla
I think i'm in loved. I'm not sure that's why i was asking u guys how did it felt and what are some of the signs you know?
I can't stop thinking about that person, i'm always talking to that person, i feel sad when i'm not. It feels right, we have so many things in common. I love that person with my entire heart i do. I was just afraid to admit it cuz i don't want to be played but now i know the feeling is reciprocate.
I know you probably gonna read this so i want you to know that you have become my priority, you are my everything now. Ugh, i just love you too much it's scary.
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Congrats ... the early stages of a relationship are truly priceless!!
But definately be careful.. The thing about Love is that Noone is ever there to give you a WARNING sign about the potential pitfalls.
........Due to the nature of love your more likely than not to be surrounded by your significant other every chance that your able to. And in this process you make a subconcious decision to committ a certain percentage of yourself entirely to another human being. It may sound odd, but this is the most fundamental aspect of love. You have to be present outside of yourself, and within the context of the relationship.
........ Therefore, the biggest risk of love is becoming too present, thereby losing yourself in the process. The unfortunate thing is that victims of this usually never realize their doomed fate until it's too late. The relationship is over, your all alone, and your entire identity and purpose in life is gone, gone because your identitiy and goals were structured 100% atop the foundation of the relationship.
....... So again, be careful. Pay attention to the small things. While love requires major time committments and sacrafice, remember to never lose sight of your passions, hobbys, talents, goals, and friends that defined you as a person before the relationship.... And if you notice you're losing yourself, step back and reaccess the relationship, and make any neccessary adjustments.
It's long, but I felt compelled to spread the hard learned knowledge......epecially since i used to wish there had been a Vegas inspired neon WARNING sign to inform me of the potential sideeffects of entering a relationship so intense, that young..
Now all you have to do is throw yourself to the wind...Be passionate. Share an icecream cone. Stop having sex, start making love. Have long drawn out conversations about the future while parked outside a fast food restaurant as the summer sun sets. And don't forget to take mental snapshots of every moment
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Member Since: 11/13/2009
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No, I really wish I was in love though. I feel like everyday we all wish for unnecessary things, but all anyone really wants is someone to share the rest of their life with. I know I still have plenty of time, but it feels like nothing's happening it just doesn't seem real. It's like the one thing that I want in my life.
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Member Since: 2/23/2010
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Originally posted by Beatfreak
No, I really wish I was in love though. I feel like everyday we all wish for unnecessary things, but all anyone really wants is someone to share the rest of their life with. I know I still have plenty of time, but it feels like nothing's happening it just doesn't seem real. It's like the one thing that I want in my life.
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Please enjoy your life right now. Don't wait for love to be happy because when it hits you, you won't be able to ignore it. And if you are lucky you'll be happy, maybe for a short time or even for a long time.. but when it's over you will feel so sad, so miserable... Feeling happy will be much harder than it is for you right now, and forgetting is the hardest part, it may take you a lot of time to do it.
So please, be grateful for not being caged in a painful broken-hearted feeling.
I miss my old me, when I certainly didn't believe in love.
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Member Since: 7/24/2006
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Not really... I thought I was at one point. I kept thinking about this girl, wanting so badly for her to be mine. And one day I was with her and I leaned in to kiss her and we talked and started going out. I had gotten what I wanted for so long.
But then I realized I was living a dream as opposed to living real life. I was caught up in my fantasies of this girl that I forgot about those other things. Like her desires, her ambitions, her taste, basically what she wanted her life to be. And it just didn't line up with what I wanted, but I guess she gave into what I wanted because she was afraid to say no, and when I discovered that, I realized it was pretty much all an illusion.
I don't really think you can ever truly assess if you are in love until you've been away from it far enough to have a clear view.
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Member Since: 2/22/2008
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Originally posted by inspiration4
Congrats ... the early stages of a relationship are truly priceless!!
But definately be careful.. The thing about Love is that Noone is ever there to give you a WARNING sign about the potential pitfalls.
........Due to the nature of love your more likely than not to be surrounded by your significant other every chance that your able to. And in this process you make a subconcious decision to committ a certain percentage of yourself entirely to another human being. It may sound odd, but this is the most fundamental aspect of love. You have to be present outside of yourself, and within the context of the relationship.
........ Therefore, the biggest risk of love is becoming too present, thereby losing yourself in the process. The unfortunate thing is that victims of this usually never realize their doomed fate until it's too late. The relationship is over, your all alone, and your entire identity and purpose in life is gone, gone because your identitiy and goals were structured 100% atop the foundation of the relationship.
....... So again, be careful. Pay attention to the small things. While love requires major time committments and sacrafice, remember to never lose sight of your passions, hobbys, talents, goals, and friends that defined you as a person before the relationship.... And if you notice you're losing yourself, step back and reaccess the relationship, and make any neccessary adjustments.
It's long, but I felt compelled to spread the hard learned knowledge......epecially since i used to wish there had been a Vegas inspired neon WARNING sign to inform me of the potential sideeffects of entering a relationship so intense, that young..
Now all you have to do is throw yourself to the wind...Be passionate. Share an icecream cone. Stop having sex, start making love. Have long drawn out conversations about the future while parked outside a fast food restaurant as the summer sun sets. And don't forget to take mental snapshots of every moment
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Wow, thanks for all the advices. I appreciate it ♥
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Member Since: 8/12/2007
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I'm in love at the moment. My bf and I have been together for almost 3 years, we live together and everything. It's great.
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Member Since: 5/17/2006
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Originally posted by WheresJay
Same here, i mean i believe that there is love, but people dont know how to express it and I also feel love can fade away. I do not know not 1 genuinely happy married couple.
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Your bitter out look on life scares
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Member Since: 9/15/2006
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Yes.
I'm in love at this very moment.
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Member Since: 9/7/2006
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Member Since: 9/15/2008
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no, i was confused, it wasn't love
imma wait until i meet someone who i really like.
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Member Since: 8/11/2007
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to be honest, why be in love? all people do is just play or use you (or if they want a **** buddy)
theirs no such thing as love in these days sorry, its not the 60s or 70s anymore.
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Member Since: 6/16/2010
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I'm crazy in love with my boyfriend, have been for years.
He lives in the USA and I no longer live there, I moved back home to Ireland.
We have serious ups and downs when we don't see each-other in a few months, but I love him more than anything. I live with him when I'm off school and thank god I graduate next year. I fell in love with him when I was 13 and we waited until we were old enough to make it work. Thing's that are meant to be have a way of working themselves out.
He wants to get married next year so I can live with him...
I wish you could choose who you fall in love with, it would make life a lot easier, but you can't. Love is crazy, infuriating, painful, amazing and unforgettable.
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Member Since: 9/5/2009
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Originally posted by itstotallybea
He wants to get married next year so I can live with him...
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OMGGGGGG
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