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News: Daughter of Two Moms Comes Out Against Gay Marriage: Update
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I'm strongly against gay parenting aka gay people who have kids, but not gay marriage or being gay itself. My believes are that a child needs both sexes as parenting figures, two men can never replace having a mom or two women can never replace having a dad.
The child might be brought up well, but they always feel they have a missing part in their life, a hole, because they never had one of their parents sexes in their life.
Its the same as being brought up by a single parent, the child always said how they had suffer not having the other parent with them and finding it difficult not having a father or a mother figure in their life.
Thats why there are two sexes in the first place, thats why they can make babies and not gay parents. Because both sexes have important value in the child and the person growing up.
How would a girl feel not having a mother, something thats so important for a woman itself, to look up to your mother, her teaching her daughter everything about being a girl and someday that girl will also be a mother. A second father can never replace that.
Just look at Madonna how she has sufferen not having a mother, and how it was a challenge for her becoming a mother because she didnt have one growing up.
It isnt about that they can give the child a loving life, because no matter what, that child will always feel something is missing. Because nothing can replace each other.
I dont think gay people should be allowed to have children unless there is an opposite sex acting as the childs third parent.
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Originally posted by artpop
Hope she dies
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Originally posted by OnlyXtina
I'm against gay parenting aka gay people who have kids, but not gay marriage or being gay itself. My believes are that a child needs both sexes as parenting figures, two men can never replace having a mom or two women can never replace having a dad.
The child might be brought up well, but they always feel they have a missing part in their life, a hole, because they never had one of their parents sexes in their life.
Its the same as being brought up by a single parent, the child always said how they had suffer not having the other parent with them and finding it difficult not having a father or a mother figure in their life.
Thats why there are two sexes in the first place, thats why they can make babies and not gay parents. Because both sexes have important value in the child and the person growing up.
How would a girl feel not having a mother, something thats so important for a woman itself, to look up to your mother, her teaching her daughter everything about being a girl and someday that girl will also be a mother. A second father can never replace that.
Just look at Madonna how she has sufferen not having a mother, and how it was a challenge for her becoming a mother because she didnt have one growing up.
It isnt about that they can give the child a loving life, because no matter what, that child will always feel something is missing. Because nothing can replace each other.
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Children who have two gay parents (or even one parent - gasp!) don't feel "holes". It's simply not true.
BUT - even if some did, the fact of the matter is that they wouldn't feel those holes if everywhere they looked the socially acceptable standard was two straight parents, one mother and one father. But go on believing that gay parents are less than ... that's your prerogative.
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Ungrateful bitch, bless ha!
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Member Since: 1/2/2014
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Originally posted by artpop
Hope she dies
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+1
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Member Since: 5/3/2012
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So opposing gay marriage is gonna make up for her lack of a father?
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Member Since: 8/28/2012
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I understand her pain, but there is a HUGE disconnect between having a bad father and saying gay marriage should be illegal. She just wants to feel important and ironic.
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Member Since: 1/1/2013
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I think what she's trying to say is that a child who grows up with two gay parents, even from birth, will always lack something because they're missing a paternal/maternal influence?
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Member Since: 3/5/2014
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Originally posted by Penk
I think what she's trying to say is that a child who grows up with two gay parents, even from birth, will always lack something because they're missing a paternal/maternal influence?
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How would she know that? She only has a hole because she had a father who turned around and dumped her after her mom got with someone else, not because she was raised by two women since birth without a father. Kids who are raised by same-sex parents since birth do not have "holes" or feel like they're missing anything because their same-sex parents are what's the norm to them.
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Originally posted by OnlyXtina
I'm strongly against gay parenting aka gay people who have kids, but not gay marriage or being gay itself. My believes are that a child needs both sexes as parenting figures, two men can never replace having a mom or two women can never replace having a dad.
The child might be brought up well, but they always feel they have a missing part in their life, a hole, because they never had one of their parents sexes in their life.
Its the same as being brought up by a single parent, the child always said how they had suffer not having the other parent with them and finding it difficult not having a father or a mother figure in their life.
Thats why there are two sexes in the first place, thats why they can make babies and not gay parents. Because both sexes have important value in the child and the person growing up.
How would a girl feel not having a mother, something thats so important for a woman itself, to look up to your mother, her teaching her daughter everything about being a girl and someday that girl will also be a mother. A second father can never replace that.
Just look at Madonna how she has sufferen not having a mother, and how it was a challenge for her becoming a mother because she didnt have one growing up.
It isnt about that they can give the child a loving life, because no matter what, that child will always feel something is missing. Because nothing can replace each other.
I dont think gay people should be allowed to have children unless there is an opposite sex acting as the childs third parent.
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The twisting of logic, though. Everyone suffers when they have children. Having and taking care of children is not easy. Gay or straight, parenting is in our DNA, meaning that anyone who takes the steps to become a parent, can be a parent if they try hard enough.
And why do you people keep trying to talk for kids with same-sex parents when so, so, so many have gone on record to state that they are perfectly happy and don't "feel a hole or need for opposite-sex parents"? You're completely invalidating children of real-life same-sex couples just to fit your homophobic logic.
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Thats why there are two sexes in the first place, thats why they can make babies and not gay parents.
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Gay people can still reproduce. What world are you living in?
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Originally posted by Bang Up
I understand the idea behind being resentful about one of your parents not being in your life, but in this instance it's the father's fault and not the mother's. There is absolutely no logic behind her blaming her two amazing, loving, caring mothers for her father's piss-poor parenting and selfishness. The self-hatred is real.
Studies have shown the opposite, actually. Children who grow up with same-sex parents do not suffer in any way, shape, or form, nor do they have any sort of "imbalance". You feel this way because you're looking at it from the POV of someone who probably has opposite-sex parents, meaning that is normal to you. If you grow up with same-sex parents, your normal is not the same as someone with opposite-sex parents. If you grow up with same-sex parents, you don't feel the need to have opposite-sex parents because you have two loving same-sex parents who give you everything you need emotionally, mentally, and physically. You don't suffer from any sort of imbalance because no imbalance is present.
Your logic would actually make more sense for parents who split up or single parents. The imbalance would then be present because you only have one parent as opposed to two... but of course no one says anything about that.
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You're making a lot of sense here. Now think up a situation where a boy who knows nothing of what it feels like to have a mom goes to school everyday and sees kids talk about their mom and dad, or sees other moms come in everyday. No matter how perfect his dads are, this kid will yearn for an older woman's influence.... no matter how slightly, it's human nature.
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My father didn't want me
So I'm opposed to gay marriage
Shut up idiot
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Originally posted by OnlyXtina
I'm strongly against gay parenting aka gay people who have kids, but not gay marriage or being gay itself. My believes are that a child needs both sexes as parenting figures, two men can never replace having a mom or two women can never replace having a dad.
The child might be brought up well, but they always feel they have a missing part in their life, a hole, because they never had one of their parents sexes in their life.
Its the same as being brought up by a single parent, the child always said how they had suffer not having the other parent with them and finding it difficult not having a father or a mother figure in their life.
Thats why there are two sexes in the first place, thats why they can make babies and not gay parents. Because both sexes have important value in the child and the person growing up.
How would a girl feel not having a mother, something thats so important for a woman itself, to look up to your mother, her teaching her daughter everything about being a girl and someday that girl will also be a mother. A second father can never replace that.
Just look at Madonna how she has sufferen not having a mother, and how it was a challenge for her becoming a mother because she didnt have one growing up.
It isnt about that they can give the child a loving life, because no matter what, that child will always feel something is missing. Because nothing can replace each other.
I dont think gay people should be allowed to have children unless there is an opposite sex acting as the childs third parent.
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I was raised only by mother and i don't feel that way at all. I never missed my father and i never felt the need for a father figure
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crappy father =/= mom suppressing her
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
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Originally posted by Penk
I think what she's trying to say is that a child who grows up with two gay parents, even from birth, will always lack something because they're missing a paternal/maternal influence?
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Then she's against gays having kids not gay marriage
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Originally posted by Surfboardt
You're making a lot of sense here. Now think up a situation where a boy who knows nothing of what it feels like to have a mom goes to school everyday and sees kids talk about their mom and dad, or sees other moms come in everyday. No matter how perfect his dads are, this kid will yearn for an older woman's influence.... no matter how slightly, it's human nature.
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Now you're just pulling up hypothetical situations to fit your argument. Odds are that most kids of same-sex parents probably have a female figure in their lives, whether it be their two moms or a grandmother, a godmother, an aunt, etc. Same-sex parenting doesn't always mean the kids are completely devoid of opposite-sex influences as a lot of same-sex parents have friends and family members of the opposite sex.
But ask yourself this: growing up, did you yearn for the affection of someone else's parents? When you saw people at school with their parents, did you wish to have their parents, or were you totally happy with what you had? If it's the latter, that's exactly how kids of same-sex parents feel. Sure, maybe they'll question why their family is different, but they don't yearn for the love and affection of someone else when they have two loving parents.
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Member Since: 1/1/2013
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Originally posted by Bang Up
How would she know that? She only has a hole because she had a father who turned around and dumped her after her mom got with someone else, not because she was raised by two women since birth without a father. Kids who are raised by same-sex parents since birth do not have "holes" or feel like they're missing anything because their same-sex parents are what's the norm to them.
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Yeah I think she's trying to generalize too much from her own experience. I guess I could see where it's coming from.. But it doesn't make much sense.
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kind of insulting to all the single mothers/fathers out there smh. You DON'T need both parents/
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Member Since: 8/31/2013
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Originally posted by OnlyXtina
I'm strongly against gay parenting aka gay people who have kids, but not gay marriage or being gay itself. My believes are that a child needs both sexes as parenting figures, two men can never replace having a mom or two women can never replace having a dad.
The child might be brought up well, but they always feel they have a missing part in their life, a hole, because they never had one of their parents sexes in their life.
Its the same as being brought up by a single parent, the child always said how they had suffer not having the other parent with them and finding it difficult not having a father or a mother figure in their life.
Thats why there are two sexes in the first place, thats why they can make babies and not gay parents. Because both sexes have important value in the child and the person growing up.
How would a girl feel not having a mother, something thats so important for a woman itself, to look up to your mother, her teaching her daughter everything about being a girl and someday that girl will also be a mother. A second father can never replace that.
Just look at Madonna how she has sufferen not having a mother, and how it was a challenge for her becoming a mother because she didnt have one growing up.
It isnt about that they can give the child a loving life, because no matter what, that child will always feel something is missing. Because nothing can replace each other.
I dont think gay people should be allowed to have children unless there is an opposite sex acting as the childs third parent.
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Dumb... you mention single parenting... that's a situation that couldn't be helped. By your logic, all men and women should be banned from dying or divorcing so ever human being can grow up with a mommy and a daddy...
In life, there will always be a hole to be filled. If you choose to let that **** you up, then ultimately it is on you.
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Wow some of you guys are disgusting.
And you claim that right wingers are the hateful bigots
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This is literally every gay parents nightmare.. I feel for her moms..
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