Parents who BEAT their kids are wrong, but a child who disrespects their parents deserves a good hit
I feel extremely sorry for your child if you ever plan to have one.
A person 2/3x bigger, way stronger than a kid should not be hit after doing something wrong. You damage a kid emotionally and that's not a good thing for the future. You can sit aroud the table with your kid and explain to them it's not right what they did, and punish them by sending them to their bed room or something like that. Hitting is child abuse and it's not allowed.
Yes my mum used to hit me all the time when I was young. Usually with a wooden spoon, or with whatever she could find nearby. She did it a lot less once I was a teenager, but to this day I'm still terrified of her (and all authority figures in general). I don't talk with my parents much anymore.
i do think that theres a fine line between abuse and discipline - and as long as your beating does cross that boundary then it should be marginally fine .
cause ive seen some kids and parents hurl venomous words at each other and that in itself is cringe worthy
I dont understand people that are like "PunIshing YoUr Kid By HiTting tHem iS s0 wrong!" like, arent yall the same people who comment on viral videos of kids doing crazy **** like "they better get their ass beat downT!!! "
When I say my mama beat my ass, I mean she literally swatted my ass, back or thighs with her hands. She wasn't throwing me around like a fawking rag doll or bitch slapping me in the face
I dont understand people that are like "PunIshing YoUr Kid By HiTting tHem iS s0 wrong!" like, arent yall the same people who comment on viral videos of kids doing crazy **** like "they better get their ass beat downT!!! "
I feel extremely sorry for your child if you ever plan to have one.
A person 2/3x bigger, way stronger than a kid should not be hit after doing something wrong. You damage a kid emotionally and that's not a good thing for the future. You can sit aroud the table with your kid and explain to them it's not right what they did, and punish them by sending them to their bed room or something like that. Hitting is child abuse and it's not allowed.
If it's your own child, I don't see the problem. I'm not emotionally unstable or anything (maybe because my parents weren't as harsh with the hits).
I understand explaining to them what they did wrong but they're a brat and do it again, I'd take action. At least once. Then explain to them whatever you think is wrong for them to do, and tell them you'll threaten them with a belt if they do it. You're child will be an angel after that.
Yes they whooped me. And no I don't suffer from that psychological ********. Parents who can't control their kids are the worse and I have no respect for them.