[inspiration4]

Tbh, unless a guy is a fem or queen, it's much harder to tell if he's gay from a distance (no conversation, just observing).

The one thing that seems to never fail however is eye-contact. If you're lucky and a guy finds you attractive, you'll catch him looking at you, and when/if you make eye-contact they'll usually stare longer than they "should", even if they don't want to be noticed. Also, after eye-contact is broken, they'll look again your way fairly quick.

Basically, follow his eyes. Even if he's not looking at you, see if he's constantly eyeing men more than women, and if so, you've got a GHEY.

The great thing about this method is that people tend to look at what interest them, but on a subconscious level, so you can spot the (sometimes closeted) masculine one's who are trying to live a lie...and set them free.

[jxck]

You guys would catch me in two seconds.

[If U Seek Amy]

Usually eye contact. If I make eye contact and it holds for a few seconds its pretty much true. A straight guy has no reason to keep eye contact with a guy for a decent span of time as he walks by

[MusicTalker]

No one can tell I'm gay (I'm not out yet). Sometimes I even try to drop clues.

Like wth. I'm gonna have to do it the formal way I guess lulz.

[LilyAllen]

Originally posted by MusicTalker

No one can tell I'm gay (I'm not out yet). Sometimes I even try to drop clues.

Like wth. I'm gonna have to do it the formal way I guess lulz.

same. nobody even thinks that im bi. Well, there was this one guy who thought I was gay, but everyone who he told thought he was joking or crazy. tbh I give props to that guy for having an extremely good gaydar

[Sláy]

Originally posted by Unconditionally

Usually eye contact. If I make eye contact and it holds for a few seconds its pretty much true. A straight guy has no reason to keep eye contact with a guy for a decent span of time as he walks by

This. Everything else is moot, but eyes never ever lie.

[TMTURKEY]

I dont think being an ATRL user should solidify your sexuality as Gay. It's just a website you simple *****s. Besides the obvious.. (hand gestures, style of dress, and the way they walk) but these days you never know , cuz alot of these "straight" men are on the DL

[Witchpop]

When my penis is in his mouth

[youmustbeupgraded]

if he wears flip flops

[Mezter]

Originally posted by BionicLotus

he's on ATRL

[cherrygoddess]

If he likes a lot of your FB posts or trys to conversate with you a lot might be a hint

[Gangsta4alife]

Well everyone is different you can't really tell till they let you know or you see them with the same gender. The only thing that might give a hint is if they refuse to be gender specific when talking about a significant other or crush. Oh yeah and also eye contact is a good indication

[highwind44029]

Originally posted by BeyonceHatesMe

I'm terribly guilty at doing this But the kids at my school are too ignorant to realize it.

No, they're not.

Originally posted by Guernica

If he has almost no male friends whatsoever and exclusively hangs out with women
If he never seems to have a serious girlfriend
If a female singer or actress is his role model

Let me dispel the first line. There's literally TWO girls that I would label a "friend." I find it easier to get along with guys for the most part.


There's a YouTube video that excellently gives a tip on how to tell whether a guy is gay. Unfortunately I'm at work so I can't really look for it.

Try this one:

[The Knowledge]

everyone is different... even if they're slightly feminine. Don't put people into boxes like that.

Just ask them

[theo.]

Originally posted by MusicTalker

I feel guilty when girls flirt with me. I need to blast Kylie Minogue or something.

You should enjoy the attention MT, just don't lead them on.

[Gangsta4alife]

Originally posted by highwind44029

No, they're not.


Let me dispel the first line. There's literally TWO girls that I would label a "friend." I find it easier to get along with guys for the most part.


There's a YouTube video that excellently gives a tip on how to tell whether a guy is gay. Unfortunately I'm at work so I can't really look for it.

Try this one:

wait is it this video cause there was a blank box??



But I also forgot to add body language is a huge indicator for me

[Skywalker]

Most people thought I was bisexual when I came out as gay, like, the signs were so obvious.

Especially the (gay) men I'd dress down with my eyes in class. They must have been clueless because I showed all of the signs.

[karron0624]

OMG at some of you people.

I like Gaga, and I'm on this site, but I like women. I actually found this site because a youtube person said that it was a good pop music site. I have to dress nice everyday in school. If you don't people give you that "did you really just come here in jeans" look. (Law school)

Literally, I just ask a person if they are gay or not. No one I know had an issue with me asking. It is not that hard. Other than that, I have no way of telling. The one time I though someone was gay, I was wrong.

[rihannabiggestfan]

Originally posted by Dark Horse

that's not always a good way to go at it

.. i wait until they say yaaas gaga

[BubbleBath]

I don't think there's ever a real way to tell. Approaching them after you befriend them is the best way to really find out.