9 times out of 10 people will bully kids who they know won't stand up for themselves. That's why it's important to build self confidence, especially during your HS years because the gerls will try it.
That was my case. Everytime someone would say something about me, I wouldnt say a thing. I'd just go and cry instead of standing up for myself. Most of the people who teased me were girls, taunting the way I dressed and such. The few guys who did was way worse...
I found another thing that you shouldnt do if you are suffering from bullying is cry in front of them. I did that, and it made things worse. It show's weakness and just makes it easier for them to tear you down...
I've had one bullying encounter in freshmen Art class because I was quiet freshman that was in all of the advanced classes, but the senior bitch didn't phase me. I was taller than him and he had the nose of a bird, so I'd make comments on how he was only trying to bother me cause his auditions for the role of Tweetie Bird never went through. Minus that, never, and I've never had an experience that bothered me. I know that illiterate tricks like him will be asking me if I want fries with my Big Mac in a few years. So, as usual, the ones picked on win.
Also, it's sad to see that some don't have a lot of confidence and self-esteem to make these sort of connections that they don't need to worry about what others think. It's sad to see someone get harassed, but slowly over time there have been improvements. Hopefully the bullying of gay people will come to a stop, cause it's so sad how badly they take it. It seems for obvious reasons to be a huuuge realization to have to make it through, the last thing they need is someone making fun of them cause they aren't attracted to the same gender as you.
Well then again I guess I was bullied once. There was this guy from my school who threw drink on me in the food court at the mall and called me a mutt. You gerls already know how I am so I'm sure you can guess what I did after that.
It's no so amazing being gay, popular and invited to every party.
Well it is, then you're standing there at midnight, like Robyn, dancing on your own, 'cause all the other horny teens have found a partner...the girls NOT doing Christina Millian justice, dipping it low, yet picking it up way too slow.
I'm not even going to go there. I'm just looking forward to my 18th, when I can go out properly and actually be appreciated for more than just being "Jonny, the life of the party" who gets deserted once everyone finds their **** for the night.
Wow, that seems bitter
You trynna sound all popular
I concur with most of the post though. I'm a party animal and I love to party but high school parties are so centered around straight culture, as the humorous gay guy I always become the "life of the party" or whatever but it seems like everyone takes me as a joke, then once everyone's found a **** buddy I'm left standing alone like whaaa. Can't wait to go to gay clubs that's all I gotta say
I've had one bullying encounter in freshmen Art class because I was quiet freshman that was in all of the advanced classes, but the senior bitch didn't phase me. I was taller than him and he had the nose of a bird, so I'd make comments on how he was only trying to bother me cause his auditions for the role of Tweetie Bird never went through. Minus that, never, and I've never had an experience that bothered me. I know that illiterate tricks like him will be asking me if I want fries with my Big Mac in a few years. So, as usual, the ones picked on win.
I was in advanced classes all throughout middle and high school, too, but for some reason I was still picked on regardless.
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Well then again I guess I was bullied once. There was this guy from my school who threw drink on me in the food court at the mall and called me a mutt. You gerls already know how I am so I'm sure you can guess what I did after that.
Is there a video, a picture, some sort of visual for this bonanza?
Well then again I guess I was bullied once. There was this guy from my school who threw drink on me in the food court at the mall and called me a mutt. You gerls already know how I am so I'm sure you can guess what I did after that.
This thread reminds me of this one time in high school where this straight guy got bodied by this gay guy he kept picking at during lunch. There were like 800 students there to witness it too. It was very inspiring and amazing for the gays, but obviously very embarrassing for the straight guy on the football team.
Omg. I love stories like that! When the bully gets his ass whipped in front of his friends by the kid he/she picks on. Those are epic ass moments.
That was my case. Everytime someone would say something about me, I wouldnt say a thing. I'd just go and cry instead of standing up for myself. Most of the people who teased me were girls, taunting the way I dressed and such. The few guys who did was way worse...
I found another thing that you shouldnt do if you are suffering from bullying is cry in front of them. I did that, and it made things worse. It show's weakness and just makes it easier for them to tear you down...
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That's another thing too. Never cry in front of them. Even if you have to fake it and act strong just for that very moment. I knew this new guy who was constantly bullied for a few months but he always stood up for himself. As soon as the situation ended though he would go somewhere where he could be alone and no one could see him and cry. I was really surprised because he never backed down when someone bullied him.
To me, once you get out of high school, bullying is no longer a factor. Almost all of the students in college give no ****s about an indvidual person enough to actually bully them.
But Mother Monster and Obama are going to send you all to jail!
But you're a cyber bullying.
Btw, don't get me wrong, but The Bullying, apparently, is a behavior just generated and commented in countries of the "First World". For example in countries from Latin America The Bullying behaviour is very uncommon. Nothing more than simple jokes.
Oh, also, in my Art class today, the kid who pushed me down the stairs later that day ended up spraying this cleaning stuff all over my shirt. He also purposely got paint on my silk tie. I just wear ties all the time. Someone scalp that bitch... Though he has a buzz cut. Good luck gripping that.
Well then again I guess I was bullied once. There was this guy from my school who threw drink on me in the food court at the mall and called me a mutt. You gerls already know how I am so I'm sure you can guess what I did after that.
I'm sure you went over there and talked it out like a civil human being before making peace and bringing harmony to the entire high school with the holy example you'd set
But Mother Monster and Obama are going to send you all to jail!
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Originally posted by Hi.Def
This thread reminds me of this one time in high school where this straight guy got bodied by this gay guy he kept picking at during lunch. There were like 800 students there to witness it too. It was very inspiring and amazing for the gays, but obviously very embarrassing for the straight guy on the football team.
That sounds epic Unfortunately, i've only seen the opposite of this happen. This ghetto girl used to bully this psuedo-badass girl (in class) everyday, until one day she decided to insult her in return. Wrong move. Ghetto girl pulled her out her chair and proceeded to slam her head into the whilte board all while the class went crazy and the teacher screamed her poor senile heart out. Bully won that fight
Well then again I guess I was bullied once. There was this guy from my school who threw drink on me in the food court at the mall and called me a mutt. You gerls already know how I am so I'm sure you can guess what I did after that.
You exposed that closeted fool by snatching their lacefront?