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Originally posted by NE.
Depression, isolation, and lack of purpose and loving relationships. There's so many gays in their 30s and 40s that are still running around hooking up and going to nightclubs, trying to keep up their physical appearance, and struggling to find a purpose while most straight people are starting families.
People want to be sedated from emotions and reality when they don't feel accepted for who they are.
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50's and 60's gay men as well (it's full of them on gay apps searching for sex), and I would say majority of gay men in general than the ones who stay in stable relationship or get married.
However it's not easy time not even for straight "family" men especially nowadays, they're getting divorced very easy, they find themselves alone in their 40's-50's ecc, with legal troubles with their ex-wives or girlfriends, house's loan (most of the time they not even live there because wife and children staying there) and with children to maintain in general, another rent to pay for themselves.
I know a lot of staright men in this situation and in all honestly I don't envy them like I don't envy some of my firens that are already getting married and having children in their 20's, family is becoming an utopy, maybe I'm selfish and sad but I still prefer a gay life at this point (but without drugs) that being trapped in a marriage with troubles only to fit society.
I'm obviously open to a stable-close relationship if I'm gonna find the right one but with a different state of mind and keep maintaning my indipedence.