[˚Greedy for Ari˚]

Originally posted by Dark XXX

Same Our times will come soon tho

Omg yass I've finally met my virgin sisters

[Ascension]

I wish I waited, honestly -- I was too young (16) and it sucked. An awkward, fumbling, painful, nerve racking (I wasn't on birth control and I was terrified of something happening with the condom ) and flat out not worth it mess; the only good part about it was it being over in under 10 minutes. I didn't do it again until I was 19; it was far more pleasant with a grown man that knew wtf he was doing.

[Euan]

Originally posted by that G.U.Y.

he became my (ex) bf after though so it's cool

[Harrier]

Yes very, you can lose your virginity early and then not have sex for years like me

[Scene]

Everyone saying it was underwhelming and a non-event are clearly closet virgins.

HOW can it be anything but overwhelming and eventful? The first time I did it when I was 17 I was so nervous I bought a bottle of wine to calm me down (so glad I had a fake ID). The guy, who it was a one night stand with (but I REALLY liked him.... and it turned into a 10 night stand over a 2 year period ), was an Ethiopian top with a massive ****. I stood no chance. I was also a bit stoned so the whole experience is a bit hazy but there was bleeding and strectched areas . I didn't want to mention that I was a virgin at the time since he was slightly older but MY GOD holding in the sheer pain was difficult. Seriously, the first time is massive. But society does overrate it in the popularity/social status sense.

[Nathan's Nicely]

yes

[Reinvention]

Not really a big deal - but it was uncomfortable, but honestly the best thing about it was getting it out of the way so you had a realistic understanding of what it's all about, and what prep to do etc.

[Reinvention]

Originally posted by mimilamb.

The bleeding <<<

[lolzjustinwat]

It wasn't really a big deal for me, but I also did it with someone who was horrible

[lightstheyblindme]

yes even tho my first time was good

[midnightdawn]

The term and concept is very religious and gross. It's just sex, you don't suddenly "lose" something, or become less pure.

[loveless]

It's highly overrated. You're not missing out on anything by staying a virgin. In fact, the only thing you'll gain is problems (STDs, unwanted pregnancies, unrealistic sexual preferences/expectations for your spouse, etc.) by having sex with anybody other than your significant other. Your virginity is one of the best gifts you can give to your spouse. If you plan on spending the rest of your life with your husband/wife, then you have a lifetime to learn how to please him/her sexually and vice versa.

[Badgalbriel]

Sex is overrated. What happens before sex is much better. My first time was great, actually.

[Aviana]

Originally posted by yamiyuuuu

Mine was nothing special. I just wanted to get ****ed, now I regret it. I don't even talk to the boy. But if I waited for my first love I would have lost it at 21, and I'm too hot for that.

Me too, I regret it so much, it makes me feel so bad just thinking about it...

I did it with a man around his 40s, I thought older guys might have more experience and could help me to reduce the pain.

But it was trash, I wish it never happened.

[ontherocks]

Well, I knew that I needed to be clean, which I was. However, I forgot about one little detail called lube. Oh memories

[Yves]

I would not know.

[accelgors]

yes. my first time was really lame.

your first time should be with someone you have a very trusting bond with, or else it's going to be awkward as hell.

i partially think this because of how amazing it was when i had my third time with my ex-boyfriend l o l

[Harrier]

Originally posted by Scene

Everyone saying it was underwhelming and a non-event are clearly closet virgins.

HOW can it be anything but overwhelming and eventful? The first time I did it when I was 17 I was so nervous I bought a bottle of wine to calm me down (so glad I had a fake ID). The guy, who it was a one night stand with (but I REALLY liked him.... and it turned into a 10 night stand over a 2 year period ), was an Ethiopian top with a massive ****. I stood no chance. I was also a bit stoned so the whole experience is a bit hazy but there was bleeding and strectched areas . I didn't want to mention that I was a virgin at the time since he was slightly older but MY GOD holding in the sheer pain was difficult. Seriously, the first time is massive. But society does overrate it in the popularity/social status sense.

adsjkfl not everyone gets topped by an Ethiopian with a massive one as their first time, it can just as easily be a non event

[accelgors]

Originally posted by Scene

Everyone saying it was underwhelming and a non-event are clearly closet virgins.

HOW can it be anything but overwhelming and eventful? The first time I did it when I was 17 I was so nervous I bought a bottle of wine to calm me down (so glad I had a fake ID). The guy, who it was a one night stand with (but I REALLY liked him.... and it turned into a 10 night stand over a 2 year period ), was an Ethiopian top with a massive ****. I stood no chance. I was also a bit stoned so the whole experience is a bit hazy but there was bleeding and strectched areas . I didn't want to mention that I was a virgin at the time since he was slightly older but MY GOD holding in the sheer pain was difficult. Seriously, the first time is massive. But society does overrate it in the popularity/social status sense.

well yes, mine was eventful and overwhelming, but in the bad way

[fireaero]

Yes. You should never feel pressured into having sex in order to feel accepted/validated.