There is no real "straight-acting" though when you think about it. There's always some way you can tell if a man is gay. Either the way they talk, their hand movements, and the music they listen to.
But imagine a gym full of straight men blasting Britney Spears
Not a shocker at all. I'm significantly more "masculine" in real life than I am on here. Doesn't make my point any less valid.
I don't particularly care if a guy is "masculine" or "feminine." I'll be more likely to hang out with him if he's more masculine, because that's the kind of guy I am. But it disgusts me that other people in the gay community try to vilify feminine gays. Whether you're scrawny of bulky, it just makes you look catty and unappealing. A mess.
I see your point. I don't mind the "fem" gays as friends and people to hang with but personally, they aren't my type for a relationship. There's a point where it's too much for me.
Depending in the way you want to take it, you don't have to act=pretend just act=be what you are, that's what i meant, you are putting my words out of context sis , but i understand what you mean, i hate gay guys who think they are better because they are masculine and they look so fake and forced!
Agreed with the last line,
but you gotta realize that when you say the word "straight-acting" you're basically writing off any gay guy who has a naturally masculine personality and saying they're faking it, which is BS.
Ur right. I have a gay friend and he said that before. He said its like a challenge to have sex with a straight guy. Its like wanting so something U cant have but U want it anyway.
Gay men, the ones that I know, myself included, are egomaniacs.
Therefore, who wouldn't want to be the gay guy that turned a straight guy gay.
Also, I'm what you guys might call a "fem" gay; however, I have toned it down naturally in the past 2 years, and even my friends say that it's much less obvious now than it used to be. They said it used to be like: "I'm here; I'm queer," and in your face.
I think a man confident enough in himself to listen to the music HE likes and not what society tells him he should is pretty ****ing masculine.
You're missing the definitions of masulinity/femininity tho sis, being proud of who you are don't have much to do with either, but oh well we don't have to get into that one cause I agree with most of your points in here
You're missing the definitions of masulinity/femininity tho sis, being proud of who you are don't have much to do with either, but oh well we don't have to get into that one cause I agree with most of your points in here
My point is that the stereotypical definitions of masculinity/femininity are stupid, particularly the way the gay community has twisted them.
Idk, if its because we want what we cant have, or because we're attracted to manly man or "straight acting"... Maybe both?
Like the man im in Love with now is "straight" and Married.. Ughh.
Gurrrrrrl now the FIRST place you went wrong was falling in love with a married man. Didn't you think about the toll it would take on either your heart or their marriage? Ahh, but I suppose true love isn't something rational.
, but i understand what you mean, i hate gay guys who think they are better because they are masculine and they look so fake and forced!
Sis...you need to move on. I'm sure there's a masculine gay out there for you 
Ahh, but I suppose true love isn't something rational.
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