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Originally posted by I Am Music
I had a black guy tell me he doesn't date other black guys only whites and latino groups.
I was like oh I see how you roll nothing more to discuss.
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Honestly I haven't had someone tell me that, but this is kind of what I see. There are black guys here and to find them you kind of have to go to the more urban gay scene, which is really not for me.
Then when I see black guys out in the typical gay clubs and bars,, the kind that are more like me (not really into the urban thing, college educated, etc.) you sort of get an idea that they are chasing after the white guys. Which is cool if that's what you like but my problem is that this coincides with higher education, higher income, and etc., so it's like a white culture integration type of thing, more than something that you really like. Then at the same time I'm kind of cornered into only being able to date outside of my race too. Race is not a factor for me, but it really sucks that it is a factor for most.