[swissman]

And what defines a feminine guy anyway?
If he has a beard, huge muscles, builds his own car, plays sports but talks with a lisp does that one thing negate all the stereotypically masculine things he does? Does one drop destroy it all?

If he talks in the deepest voice monotone voice but is a dancer, listens to pop music, wears pink, is he still too femme?

The scale is simply too immeasurable to emphatically state that feminine men don’t turn you on without admitting that the examples of gayness found in someone turns you off of them. AND THAT is internalized homophobia. Homophobia is learnt. You’re not born hating gays. You’re taught it. And even gays are taught it and it makes them feel insecure about themselves and hate themselves and hate seeing it in other people and even if they think they are adjusted, it can still manifest in less obvious ways like requiring your men to not seem gay, because that is a more acceptable man and so you feel better about your own gayness.

Like come on this is not hard to get.

[Nightingale]

Honestly this is kind of me. I don't stop finding someone attractive if I find out someone is gay but since I'm slightly "straight acting" I'm attracted to guys who are similar to me.

[sex]

Originally posted by Buddy

There's honestly nothing wrong with this

I'm not attracted to feminine stereotypical gay guys either but that doesn't mean I'm homophobic. Feminine gays tend to make the best friends and they're more entertaining to be around than the average person, but sexually or romantically I'm just not attracted to them.

Same

[swissman]

Originally posted by Soeplepel

He only finds cute guys attractive as long as they're not gay or act like one.
He only finds cute guys attractive as long as they're not gay or act like one.
He only finds cute guys attractive as long as they're not gay or act like one.
He only finds cute guys attractive as long as they're not gay or act like one.
He only finds cute guys attractive as long as they're not gay or act like one.

Tell me where DAFUQ he is contempted or shows any hate towards feminine guys?!

What is the difference between

He only find cute girls attractive as long as they have blond hair.

It's the ****ing same.

You asked me to show you "DAFUQ he is disgusted or contempted or shows any hate towards feminine guys?!" so I've bolded each time you said it yourself.

And the difference between blonde/brunette is that blondes are not generally the sole ideal for women. Brunettes are not teased, beat up, bullied, belittled or murdered for it are they? Come on.

[JessLM]

Originally posted by Soeplepel

He only finds cute guys attractive as long as they're not gay or act like one.
He only finds cute guys attractive as long as they're not gay or act like one.
He only finds cute guys attractive as long as they're not gay or act like one.
He only finds cute guys attractive as long as they're not gay or act like one.
He only finds cute guys attractive as long as they're not gay or act like one.

Tell me where DAFUQ he is disgusted or contempted or shows any hate towards feminine guys?!

What is the difference between

He only find cute girls attractive as long as they have blond hair.

It's the ****ing same.

He's contempted by gay guys period, because he wouldn't date one even if he was masculine which is the part you're clinging to.

[Shizuka]

Originally posted by Harry

Yeah. masculine+str8=YES. masculine+gay=BYE

[swissman]

All gays have some internalized homophobia in them.

[Shizuka]

Originally posted by JessLM

He's contempted by gay guys period, because he wouldn't date one even if he was masculine which is the part you're clinging to.

Exactly, like this is clearly not just a fem thing. He's a straight chaser.

[swissman]

Originally posted by Shizuka

Exactly, like this is clearly not just a fem thing. He's a straight chaser.

Which is even more internalized homophobia than just not liking femmes. If you can't even be with a gay guy and are only satisfied with straights...... it seems more than just fetishizing straight men if that's his total capacity.

[Soeplepel]

Originally posted by swissman

You asked me to show you "DAFUQ he is disgusted or contempted or shows any hate towards feminine guys?!" so I've bolded each time you said it yourself.

And the difference between blonde/brunette is that blondes are not generally the sole ideal for women. Brunettes are not teased, beat up, bullied, belittled or murdered for it are they? Come on.

That doesn't show jack ****, it's what he's attractive too.

Brunettes, blondes, fat girls, skinny girls, red haired girls... I bet you these type of girls are being bullied the most. Come on.

[Goombario]

I really never will understand all the no fem no assian no brown no chocolate thing in grindr I mean all this guys are only meat for a one night stand

[swissman]

Originally posted by Soeplepel

That doesn't show jack ****, it's what he's attractive too.

Brunettes, blondes, fat girls, skinny girls, red haired girls... I bet you these type of girls are being bullied the most. Come on.

You just named a whole bunch of people .. who is being bullied the most? You've stopped making sense long ago.

[Serpentine]

I am attracted to straight men too. I swear when I see a gay celeb I never find them attractive even if they are hot, for example I would never do something with Mat Broomer since he is gay.
I don't like fems around me, I would never be friends with them.

[Soeplepel]

Originally posted by swissman

Which is even more internalized homophobia than just not liking femmes. If you can't even be with a gay guy and are only satisfied with straights...... it seems more than just fetishizing straight men if that's his total capacity.

So because I like girls, I'm homophobe now because I'm satisfied with girls?

Stop being such a bully

[D_Man3379]

Originally posted by Buddy

I'm not attracted to feminine stereotypical gay guys either but that doesn't mean I'm homophobic. Feminine gays tend to make the best friends and they're more entertaining to be around than the average person, but sexually or romantically I'm just not attracted to them.

Agreed.

[Soeplepel]

Originally posted by swissman

You just named a whole bunch of people .. who is being bullied the most? You've stopped making sense long ago.

I could have named all of them. You never made any sense and I can tell by your lack of arguments

[swissman]

Still no one has said what it is about femme guys that is so unattractive that it’s not an example of internalized homophobia.

[NX127]

Originally posted by swissman

Can someone please explain what it is about feminine guys that doesn't attract you to them?
Please like name reasons.
I bet all of them have to do with the idea that femininity is less valuable than masculinity.

Because I'm a gay male, aka. attracted to males, aka. attracted to masculinity.

If I wanted femininity in my sexual partner, I would be dating girls.

[Serpentine]

Originally posted by Harry

Yeah. masculine+str8=YES. masculine+gay=BYE

PREACH.
This is me. I never find gay men attractive, and gay **** sickens me. I loathe it!
Masculine gays don't exist. Someone who is attracted to a D is never masculine.
Str8s for the win! They are the supreme.

[Soeplepel]

Originally posted by swissman

Still no one has said what it is about femme guys that is so unattractive that it’s not an example of internalized homophobia.

The fact you have to ask this yet you're accusing people of being int homophobe