Not at all... I try to be ad nice as possible. I mean I get my mood swings here and there but I've gotten a whole lot better about that. Unless someone deserves it.
To be honest, it's hard to be mean to someone [who isn't mean to you]. I never understand how one can just be mean for the hell of it. Like, what is the justification?
This. I'll never understand how people can be so rude and cruel to seemingly innocent people.
Unless I come across people who are 1) downright stupid, 2) prejudiced, and 3) shameless and vocal about their stupidity and prejudice- all these things combined, the unholy trifecta. Then I can go off and attempt intellectual beatdowns.
I try to be nice to everyone, sometimes I'm even too nice and I feel people end up taking advantage of me. That's when I do a 180. I really do like to be a helpful person, but I'm not gonna let you walk all over me.
Of course, around my close friends and family, I have a pretty mean-spirited sense of humor. I'm always making jokes at my friends' expense, but at the same time, they know I'm the most loyal friend they have.
I'm really nice. I used to want to adapt to a "tougher" persona but now I saw how ****ed up humans are so I try to be as positive to people as I can. You never know what someone is going through.
Side-note: what's up with people who are just mean for no reason? Like, what justifies such a thing?