My mom yelled at me for not pushing in chairs and not making my bed when we are getting ready to move. She says we need to get into a routine where the house always looks good. Then she always yells when the counters aren't wiped. I do so much and forget to do small things once in a while. I do bigger things like clean the bathrooms, and even painted the kitchen to help for example
I told her there's a bigger issue and that was her smoking in the house, the air won't be clean over night. 
She got so mad at me for saying that and went onto the deck and slammed the door to smoke a cigarette. Now she won't talk to me 

She was a bit drunk when I told her too 
 
I don't like the fact that she smokes anyway and I always tell her she needs to stop. Then she makes me buy her cigarettes and I feel wrong when I do. My grandmother/her mom had a stroke two weeks ago and it still hasn't even convinced her to quit. She's also a heavy smoker.