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Discussion: Your Crush Thread 2.0
Member Since: 8/7/2015
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Originally posted by AxelFox
I distanced myself. It was a long process but my story is quite different, I hope it'll be easier for you.
But, talk to him first. Like make things clear. You don't have to confess anything. Casually ask him if he likes the girl and you'll know what to do.
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I will definitely try. Thank you 
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
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Originally posted by LeonaLewisThunder
I've had a crush on him for like the last 4 months.
We only kissed each other on the cheek.
The thing is, I always feel like he might like me especially when were talking alone but I always feel like i'm third wheeling everytime it's more than me and him  |
You've got to love yourself the way you want him to love you, henny. I've had to do with guys like you many times, and first I think you should gain confidence around him. You seem to still know little about him, just talk to him and eventually ask him to go on a date alone!
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Member Since: 8/7/2015
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Uh LLT I know exactly how you feel, it's so frustrating. I'm slowly getting rid of my crush it just takes time.
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Originally posted by KillingYourCareer
You've got to love yourself the way you want him to love you, henny. I've had to do with guys like you many times, and first I think you should gain confidence around him. You seem to still know little about him, just talk to him and eventually ask him to go on a date alone!
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Mess I don't know if to distant myself from him like AxelFox said or keep trying 
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I will keep you guys updated in the next days I love y'all You guys make me feel better
Sorry i'm spamming y'all with my problems lol
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
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Originally posted by LeonaLewisThunder
Mess I don't know if to distant myself from him like AxelFox said or keep trying |
If he ever showed any interest in you, and you really like him, then you should keep trying. Otherwise, just play Better in Time by your fave and move on.
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
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Honestly you should be glad it's a crush. You should distance yourself from him IMO cause it's so rude to leave with someone else to their house when he was invited to your house.
Also, that 'friend'  I'd be bitchy to my friend if he/she did that for like a week.
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
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Originally posted by LeonaLewisThunder
How did you move on?
I didn't invited them tho 
I only told her that i'm meeting him and an hour before he was supposed to come she called me to say she and her friend are coming as well |
This might be f*cked up, but you shouldn't have told her anything. This a lesson to not tell her anything next time. She also went over to his house, girl mess.
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Originally posted by Carlitos
This might be f*cked up, but you shouldn't have told her anything. This a lesson to not tell her anything next time. She also went over to his house, girl mess.
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definitely. Even tho it probably won't happen again I doubt he is into boys let alone into me 
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Omg what a mess apparently they're together now 
I'm not even sad or jealous this is pure embarrassing imo. They won't hold a week together they're both hoes
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Originally posted by LeonaLewisThunder
Omg what a mess apparently they're together now
I'm not even sad or jealous this is pure embarrassing imo. They won't hold a week together they're both hoes |
I'd cut strings with that girl too if I were you.
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Member Since: 8/7/2015
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Originally posted by AxelFox
I'd cut strings with that girl too if I were you.
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She's one of my best friends and I always knew she was a bit of a hoe and I can't really blame her for snatching my crush she doesn't even know i'm gay.
Let's see what happens, I'm sure this mess is not finished yet 
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Member Since: 1/2/2014
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Originally posted by LeonaLewisThunder
Omg what a mess apparently they're together now
I'm not even sad or jealous this is pure embarrassing imo. They won't hold a week together they're both hoes |
After one night? You dodged TWO bullets
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
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Bless your heart, LeonaLewisThunder 
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Kii @*you being THAT closeted tho, sis, you live in ISRAEL...
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Originally posted by KillingYourCareer
Kii @*you being THAT closeted tho, sis, you live in ISRAEL...
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Yeah but still I don't feel ready yet.
I do have some friends who i'm sure i'll tell in the next couple of months, Definitely not to THAT bitch tho
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Member Since: 11/17/2011
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So basically my crush is a long distance crush. We've been talking consistently since September but since he lives about a 10 hour drive away (3 or so hour flight) and I haven't had a steady job since then so I'm going to meet him sometime within the next two months or so to see where it goes. I did let him know that I like him and he let me know that he really enjoys talking with me so hopefully it turns out well.
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My crush story
My crush lives two hours from me on train, but he goes to uni somewhere else which is where my friends live and is only an hour from me, so this is how I met him.
Imma call him "J". J and I met in early December through Grindr, although we had originally spoken in November very briefly due to visiting a friend. I met up with him and had a good night with my friends and him, we got drunk, talked about things and stuff. I came back to London and kept talking to him on Snapchat, we spoke for two weeks straight, then just before Christmas it went a bit quiet. He then told me he's been spending a lot of time with someone since being back home for Christmas and he really likes them. So that hurt. Anyway, he was coming to London for NYE and we had planned to meet up prior to this revelation so I kinda knew that wasn't happening anymore, however on NYE he messaged me asking if he could come hang out with me and my friends and I said yes.
So, we all hang out that night and eventually in the club at like 6am we had a drunk conversation and i told him how I don't blame him nor am I mad at him for meeting someone else as it's understandable and we had only met up once so it's totally fine, but I did tell him that i liked him and whatever. He ended up saying he wanted to kiss me and we kissed. Yesterday, we spoke on Snapchat and at first it was great but then he said along the lines of "I know we kissed but we were drunk and I like spending time with you, I like you, but you living in London makes it difficult and this other guy who I've been spending time with, I really do like him a lot and our conversation helped me realise that. I do want to be friends with you honestly". So that HURT AGAIN.
We're still talking and I'm going to see him again but clearly just as friends, although that's going to be hard for me lol... But I got nothing else I can do about it as I do like him as a person in general, so I'll have to get over it.
That's my story about my crush who literally crushed me
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Member Since: 11/17/2011
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Originally posted by Lukey
My crush story
My crush lives two hours from me on train, but he goes to uni somewhere else which is where my friends live and is only an hour from me, so this is how I met him.
Imma call him "J". J and I met in early December through Grindr, although we had originally spoken in November very briefly due to visiting a friend. I met up with him and had a good night with my friends and him, we got drunk, talked about things and stuff. I came back to London and kept talking to him on Snapchat, we spoke for two weeks straight, then just before Christmas it went a bit quiet. He then told me he's been spending a lot of time with someone since being back home for Christmas and he really likes them. So that hurt. Anyway, he was coming to London for NYE and we had planned to meet up prior to this revelation so I kinda knew that wasn't happening anymore, however on NYE he messaged me asking if he could come hang out with me and my friends and I said yes.
So, we all hang out that night and eventually in the club at like 6am we had a drunk conversation and i told him how I don't blame him nor am I mad at him for meeting someone else as it's understandable and we had only met up once so it's totally fine, but I did tell him that i liked him and whatever. He ended up saying he wanted to kiss me and we kissed. Yesterday, we spoke on Snapchat and at first it was great but then he said along the lines of "I know we kissed but we were drunk and I like spending time with you, I like you, but you living in London makes it difficult and this other guy who I've been spending time with, I really do like him a lot and our conversation helped me realise that. I do want to be friends with you honestly". So that HURT AGAIN.
We're still talking and I'm going to see him again but clearly just as friends, although that's going to be hard for me lol... But I got nothing else I can do about it as I do like him as a person in general, so I'll have to get over it.
That's my story about my crush who literally crushed me
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OMfg Why do I feel like this is going to end up happening to me ****, that really SUCKS.
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Member Since: 8/7/2015
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Originally posted by Lukey
My crush story
My crush lives two hours from me on train, but he goes to uni somewhere else which is where my friends live and is only an hour from me, so this is how I met him.
Imma call him "J". J and I met in early December through Grindr, although we had originally spoken in November very briefly due to visiting a friend. I met up with him and had a good night with my friends and him, we got drunk, talked about things and stuff. I came back to London and kept talking to him on Snapchat, we spoke for two weeks straight, then just before Christmas it went a bit quiet. He then told me he's been spending a lot of time with someone since being back home for Christmas and he really likes them. So that hurt. Anyway, he was coming to London for NYE and we had planned to meet up prior to this revelation so I kinda knew that wasn't happening anymore, however on NYE he messaged me asking if he could come hang out with me and my friends and I said yes.
So, we all hang out that night and eventually in the club at like 6am we had a drunk conversation and i told him how I don't blame him nor am I mad at him for meeting someone else as it's understandable and we had only met up once so it's totally fine, but I did tell him that i liked him and whatever. He ended up saying he wanted to kiss me and we kissed. Yesterday, we spoke on Snapchat and at first it was great but then he said along the lines of "I know we kissed but we were drunk and I like spending time with you, I like you, but you living in London makes it difficult and this other guy who I've been spending time with, I really do like him a lot and our conversation helped me realise that. I do want to be friends with you honestly". So that HURT AGAIN.
We're still talking and I'm going to see him again but clearly just as friends, although that's going to be hard for me lol... But I got nothing else I can do about it as I do like him as a person in general, so I'll have to get over it.
That's my story about my crush who literally crushed me
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Omg Luke sis What a piece of ****
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