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Discussion: Your Crush Thread 2.0
Member Since: 8/7/2015
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Originally posted by LeonaLewisThunder
I never saw this thread before 
I currently have a crush on a boy in my class. I'm not sure he's gay\bi yet but I feel like he only acts gay when he's talking to me in private\sitting next to me in some classes(I'm not out and I don't think people really think im gay tbh so he doesn't know im pretty sure), but with everyone else he acts straight..
Anyways so I had this crush on him since the start of the year, we are not really close but were lately talking a bit more..
Around a month ago we started snapchatting and he always sends my shirtless selfies of him or like a picture of his legs and it makes me go insane 
Also in the last few days we started "physically fighting" as a joke and he's being super physical with it
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update:
I feel like he isn't interested in me tbh even tho he does give some signs but not like he used to..
Still ****ing crazy over him tho
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I have 2 crushes right now. 1 is so hot, has really nice chest and cute big but, hot face but has a girlfriend. I am confused cause he keeps liking my ig and facebook photos 
The other one is really cute too. He's so nice and all but he also has a girlfriend 
Life really is hard 
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Member Since: 8/7/2015
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okay he literally hugged me from behind today
my gaydar is back
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Member Since: 1/2/2014
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Why do hot guys always have to be straight? 
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Member Since: 7/9/2010
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Originally posted by Hitori
Why do hot guys always have to be straight? |
A question that will forever remain unanswered.
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Member Since: 5/27/2016
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So.
I've been engaged since April to the most wonderful person. I love him so, so much.
Now, I met this guy at a party and we hit it off. Big time. We have a ton of similarities, he's smart and funny and we've been texting since this party, 4 days ago.
I'm worried I might be developing feelings for this guy. I don't know what to do.
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Member Since: 1/4/2014
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Originally posted by Verge of Obscene
So.
I've been engaged since April to the most wonderful person. I love him so, so much.
Now, I met this guy at a party and we hit it off. Big time. We have a ton of similarities, he's smart and funny and we've been texting since this party, 4 days ago.
I'm worried I might be developing feelings for this guy. I don't know what to do.
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Oh ****.
How does your fiance compare to those similarities you see in this other guy?
Does he have all those same similarities as that guy? How long have you been with the first guy?
If he does, your attraction to the other guy could just be a natural thing with men. We're always looking and wanting to conquer as many people as possible. It's like a biological thing for men wanting to get with as many people as possible to spread their seed (excuse that gross term  ).
Sorry I went into a psychological / biological aspect, but it would make sense.
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Member Since: 7/9/2010
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Originally posted by Verge of Obscene
So.
I've been engaged since April to the most wonderful person. I love him so, so much.
Now, I met this guy at a party and we hit it off. Big time. We have a ton of similarities, he's smart and funny and we've been texting since this party, 4 days ago.
I'm worried I might be developing feelings for this guy. I don't know what to do.
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Don't do it sis. Let him in on the tea when need be. There were multiple stories in the last couple pages about hitting it off through text/Skype immediately and then after a week they forget you / drop your ass and find someone new.
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Quote:
Originally posted by Verge of Obscene
So.
I've been engaged since April to the most wonderful person. I love him so, so much.
Now, I met this guy at a party and we hit it off. Big time. We have a ton of similarities, he's smart and funny and we've been texting since this party, 4 days ago.
I'm worried I might be developing feelings for this guy. I don't know what to do.
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Member Since: 1/4/2014
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There was this adorable Asian engineering dude that I've been crushing on so badly. He legit looks like that Jake Long cartoon and it leaves me shook. He's such a fine and sexy dude. He comes into my work all the time and I always check him out (both with my eyes and the register). The other day, me and my friends were downstairs studying and a group of people came in with him as they were working on a final project. My friends knew I've been crushing on him for a while since I work with all my friends on the same shift.
My friends then proceeded to shout out about how AMAZING, BEAUTIFUL, and SWEET I am. It was super embarrassing because they were like "Nathan, what beautiful blue eyes you have!" 
The dude then looked at me and just went to working on his project. I then got super self-conscious in front of him, so I ran out of the room and left.
It's been more than two months since I was dating and more than 3 months since I've been kissed.
I'm honestly super lonely and keep crushing on people, but I don't know how to flirt and my gaydar is absolute ****.
I absolutely crave a relationship right now, but I don't know what to do.
Am I just too picky with men? Am I too ugly? I don't know anymore...
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Member Since: 8/7/2015
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Originally posted by Verge of Obscene
So.
I've been engaged since April to the most wonderful person. I love him so, so much.
Now, I met this guy at a party and we hit it off. Big time. We have a ton of similarities, he's smart and funny and we've been texting since this party, 4 days ago.
I'm worried I might be developing feelings for this guy. I don't know what to do.
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STOP IT
i have never in my life yelled at a girl like this
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Member Since: 8/7/2015
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Quote:
Originally posted by Verge of Obscene
So.
I've been engaged since April to the most wonderful person. I love him so, so much.
Now, I met this guy at a party and we hit it off. Big time. We have a ton of similarities, he's smart and funny and we've been texting since this party, 4 days ago.
I'm worried I might be developing feelings for this guy. I don't know what to do.
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This is truly my worst nightmare. Good luck, sis.
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Member Since: 5/27/2016
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Originally posted by LaNathan
Oh ****.
How does your fiance compare to those similarities you see in this other guy?
Does he have all those same similarities as that guy? How long have you been with the first guy?
If he does, your attraction to the other guy could just be a natural thing with men. We're always looking and wanting to conquer as many people as possible. It's like a biological thing for men wanting to get with as many people as possible to spread their seed (excuse that gross term ).
Sorry I went into a psychological / biological aspect, but it would make sense. |
Mmm, lemme PM you. I don't wanna bother people with an essay 
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Originally posted by Quiqui4eva
Don't do it sis. Let him in on the tea when need be. There were multiple stories in the last couple pages about hitting it off through text/Skype immediately and then after a week they forget you / drop your ass and find someone new. |
I know. I really think the best course of action is just to stop talking to him. But I cannot express how hard that would be.
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Originally posted by Hakunt
STOP IT
i have never in my life yelled at a girl like this
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It's awful, I know. I can't control it sometimes. Like Nathan said, it feels like a need.
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Originally posted by Hurem
This is truly my worst nightmare. Good luck, sis. |
Thanks honey.
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Originally posted by LaNathan
There was this adorable Asian engineering dude that I've been crushing on so badly. He legit looks like that Jake Long cartoon and it leaves me shook. He's such a fine and sexy dude. He comes into my work all the time and I always check him out (both with my eyes and the register). The other day, me and my friends were downstairs studying and a group of people came in with him as they were working on a final project. My friends knew I've been crushing on him for a while since I work with all my friends on the same shift.
My friends then proceeded to shout out about how AMAZING, BEAUTIFUL, and SWEET I am. It was super embarrassing because they were like "Nathan, what beautiful blue eyes you have!"
The dude then looked at me and just went to working on his project. I then got super self-conscious in front of him, so I ran out of the room and left.
It's been more than two months since I was dating and more than 3 months since I've been kissed.
I'm honestly super lonely and keep crushing on people, but I don't know how to flirt and my gaydar is absolute ****.
I absolutely crave a relationship right now, but I don't know what to do.
Am I just too picky with men? Am I too ugly? I don't know anymore...
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That's not picky baby. You clearly miss being in a relationship, or the very least, having a significant other. Do you have any suspicions that this guy is gay? Or interested in you?
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Originally posted by Verge of Obscene
That's not picky baby. You clearly miss being in a relationship, or the very least, having a significant other. Do you have any suspicions that this guy is gay? Or interested in you?
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Nah, other than how he dresses. He wears a **** ton of dorky sweaters, but that doesn't even help me think he's gay. I just love dorky dudes.
I have no clue about if he's interested or not. Even if he was, I don't even know what to do.
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Member Since: 5/27/2016
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Quote:
Originally posted by LaNathan
There was this adorable Asian engineering dude that I've been crushing on so badly. He legit looks like that Jake Long cartoon and it leaves me shook. He's such a fine and sexy dude. He comes into my work all the time and I always check him out (both with my eyes and the register). The other day, me and my friends were downstairs studying and a group of people came in with him as they were working on a final project. My friends knew I've been crushing on him for a while since I work with all my friends on the same shift.
My friends then proceeded to shout out about how AMAZING, BEAUTIFUL, and SWEET I am. It was super embarrassing because they were like "Nathan, what beautiful blue eyes you have!"
The dude then looked at me and just went to working on his project. I then got super self-conscious in front of him, so I ran out of the room and left.
It's been more than two months since I was dating and more than 3 months since I've been kissed.
I'm honestly super lonely and keep crushing on people, but I don't know how to flirt and my gaydar is absolute ****.
I absolutely crave a relationship right now, but I don't know what to do.
Am I just too picky with men? Am I too ugly? I don't know anymore...
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Send a pic let me see how hot he is 
Fortune favors the bold. You will never know if he is gay/bi or into you if you don't talk to him. Strike up friendly conversations, it may be difficult to get over the nerves but it's better than just pining from afar. Don't concentrate on on your nerves, or how hot he is. Talk to him like you would if you were trying to make a friend.
If things don't work out the way you hoped, you at least tried and you might have gained a new friend.
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Member Since: 5/27/2016
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I'm so upset and it feels like my heart has been ripped out of my stomach. Ive liked my crush for almost three months now and I really liked him. Today was my last day of school before winter break so I wrote all of my friends Christmas cards. So pretty much I wrote card pouring all my feelings about him into it. So when I get to study hall (our only class together) I go to get the card from my bag before I realize that he's standing with some guy holding a sign. He just got asked out with this corny ass sign and I've never been so upset. I walked over to the garbage and tore the card up but somehow that made me feel even more upset. I know no one probably cares but I just needed to get this all off my chest. Does anyone have any really good sad songs I could listen to?
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Member Since: 3/15/2013
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Originally posted by Hitori
Why do hot guys always have to be straight? |
I know right
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Member Since: 8/7/2015
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Originally posted by LeonaLewisThunder
okay he literally hugged me from behind today
my gaydar is back |
Update:
Okay so it's been awhile and we kind of lost connection for a few weeks but started talking again like for the last week
Now we keep flirting with each other ALL THE TIME like it's the only thing I do with him
Anyways, Today was the last day of school before Hanukka break (a full week) and I was about to go home and then I noticed him and we hugged really really tight and after we finished we were not hugging but still holding each other and were kinda close with our faces and he told me to kiss him on the cheek
And I did 
And then he told me that by passover break we will already kiss each other on the lips
I'm going to have so many breakdowns during this school break
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OMG Y'ALL HE ASKED ME IF WE CAN HANG OUT TOGETHER THIS SATURDAY
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