I never saw this thread before
I currently have a crush on a boy in my class. I'm not sure he's gay\bi yet but I feel like he only acts gay when he's talking to me in private\sitting next to me in some classes(I'm not out and I don't think people really think im gay tbh so he doesn't know im pretty sure), but with everyone else he acts straight..
Anyways so I had this crush on him since the start of the year, we are not really close but were lately talking a bit more..
Around a month ago we started snapchatting and he always sends my shirtless selfies of him or like a picture of his legs and it makes me go insane
Also in the last few days we started "physically fighting" as a joke and he's being super physical with it
Anyways I don't know what to do
I never saw this thread before
I currently have a crush on a boy in my class. I'm not sure he's gay\bi yet but I feel like he only acts gay when he's talking to me in private\sitting next to me in some classes(I'm not out and I don't think people really think im gay tbh so he doesn't know im pretty sure), but with everyone else he acts straight..
Anyways so I had this crush on him since the start of the year, we are not really close but were lately talking a bit more..
Around a month ago we started snapchatting and he always sends my shirtless selfies of him or like a picture of his legs and it makes me go insane
Also in the last few days we started "physically fighting" as a joke and he's being super physical with it
Anyways I don't know what to do
Anyway, here's my current situation:
There is this girl that I had a massive crush on for quite a while. We have the same humour and she's super intelligent and just an amazing person (and it doesn't hurt that she is super cute). Anyway, I got drunk one night and drunk texted her saying that I liked her () but she told me she was seeing somebody (???????? when was she going to tell me ???????) and she basically said that she knew that I liked her and that she had thought about it and that maybe eventually something might happen.
But, I ain't about waiting. It took me a little while but I think I'm over her. We're still good friends. Among other things, this whole experience has kind of made me more open to being single and just having fun with other people. I also don't feel bad for doing things with other people. HOWEVER, if she told me that she liked me, I don't think I'd hesitate to reciprocate.
Anyway, here's my current situation:
There is this girl that I had a massive crush on for quite a while. We have the same humour and she's super intelligent and just an amazing person (and it doesn't hurt that she is super cute). Anyway, I got drunk one night and drunk texted her saying that I liked her () but she told me she was seeing somebody (???????? when was she going to tell me ???????) and she basically said that she knew that I liked her and that she had thought about it and that maybe eventually something might happen.
But, I ain't about waiting. It took me a little while but I think I'm over her. We're still good friends. Among other things, this whole experience has kind of made me more open to being single and just having fun with other people. I also don't feel bad for doing things with other people. HOWEVER, if she told me that she liked me, I don't think I'd hesitate to reciprocate.
Do I still have feelings for her? ATRL, halp.
I feel like it'll take a while until your feelings for her go, however it's good that you're seeing other people.
You thinking you might not hesitate if she told you she liked you is perfectly normal, I believe.
But yeah, keep being single, socializing with other people and try not to think about her or any "what ifs".
Anyway, here's my current situation:
There is this girl that I had a massive crush on for quite a while. We have the same humour and she's super intelligent and just an amazing person (and it doesn't hurt that she is super cute). Anyway, I got drunk one night and drunk texted her saying that I liked her () but she told me she was seeing somebody (???????? when was she going to tell me ???????) and she basically said that she knew that I liked her and that she had thought about it and that maybe eventually something might happen.
But, I ain't about waiting. It took me a little while but I think I'm over her. We're still good friends. Among other things, this whole experience has kind of made me more open to being single and just having fun with other people. I also don't feel bad for doing things with other people. HOWEVER, if she told me that she liked me, I don't think I'd hesitate to reciprocate.
Do I still have feelings for her? ATRL, halp.
OMG sis, are you str8?
You still have tho, which is normal, but yeah Focus.mp3 on you!
Here's a quick summary of my very complex situation. Note that the crush is literally sitting opposite me atm.
So about 6 months ago I met this guy whom I immediately had a weird thing towards. He's cute, sorta weird, smart and nice. I discovered through fb later on that he's a religious semi-homophobic person which instead of making me lose my feelings, made me mad, and sad.
For about 2-3 weeks, I kept running into this guy everywhere I went. I even almost rented the house next to his without knowing he lived there.
Over the summer, when I was back at home from uni, we weirdly kept in touch via fb, exchanging messages once a couple of days and we sorta got to know each other. Now I'm back from uni, and we're sort of friends, but it's still weird because we keep running into each other at weird places. Just yesterday I ended up right behind him in the grocery store queue.
As I said, we're sort of friends now, but there's a weird awkwardness to it. It's like we ignore eachother's text messages for ages before we reply. But then he's coming to see me perform tomorrow so it's not like he hates me.
Between May and September, I went through a great deal of depression because of him. I felt like I was a piece of sh*t for putting myself in this situation.
Once I got back to London for uni, I found myself involved in a lot of activities like drama and volunteering etc, which has helped me gain back my happiness and confidence. I am my old incredibly happy self again, yet still minorly obsessing over him when I have the time. It's freaking weird. Mostly because I know it's toxic but I can't stay away because I'm genuinely in love + we live and study literally in the same neighbourhood so running into him is just too much of a regular occurence.
There's a picture of my crushes ass in the sport section of my school's website
I SCREECHED
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Here's a quick summary of my very complex situation. Note that the crush is literally sitting opposite me atm.
So about 6 months ago I met this guy whom I immediately had a weird thing towards. He's cute, sorta weird, smart and nice. I discovered through fb later on that he's a religious semi-homophobic person which instead of making me lose my feelings, made me mad, and sad.
For about 2-3 weeks, I kept running into this guy everywhere I went. I even almost rented the house next to his without knowing he lived there.
Over the summer, when I was back at home from uni, we weirdly kept in touch via fb, exchanging messages once a couple of days and we sorta got to know each other. Now I'm back from uni, and we're sort of friends, but it's still weird because we keep running into each other at weird places. Just yesterday I ended up right behind him in the grocery store queue.
As I said, we're sort of friends now, but there's a weird awkwardness to it. It's like we ignore eachother's text messages for ages before we reply. But then he's coming to see me perform tomorrow so it's not like he hates me.
Between May and September, I went through a great deal of depression because of him. I felt like I was a piece of sh*t for putting myself in this situation.
Once I got back to London for uni, I found myself involved in a lot of activities like drama and volunteering etc, which has helped me gain back my happiness and confidence. I am my old incredibly happy self again, yet still minorly obsessing over him when I have the time. It's freaking weird.
What do y'all think?
It's really good that you're involving yourself in all these activites, and I'm so happy to hear that you feel a lot better for it.
However, to be blunt, I suggest just not talking to this guy anymore or not actively trying to talk to him. There is no use obsessing over somebody who might not be gay and on top of that, might be homophobic. NEVER EVER LET A BOY BRING YOU DOWN. You are beautiful and your happiness should never be defined by another person.
It's really good that you're involving yourself in all these activites, and I'm so happy to hear that you feel a lot better for it.
However, to be blunt, I suggest just not talking to this guy anymore or not actively trying to talk to him. There is no use obsessing over somebody who might not be gay and on top of that, might be homophobic. NEVER EVER LET A BOY BRING YOU DOWN. You are beautiful and your happiness should never be defined by another person.
You're right I've come to terms with all that - it took a while but I now see how everything you say applies to me perfectly. I can honestly say drama saved my life though.
Thanks I'll reply to your story when I have time in a bit
) but she told me she was seeing somebody (???????? when was she going to tell me ???????) and she basically said that she knew that I liked her and that she had thought about it and that maybe eventually something might happen.
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