Okay sorry for the long story but I like, just got my heart crushed the other day and I'm kinda still reeling from it
So a few months ago I became mutuals on Twitter with a friend of a friend, whom we'll call G. G seemed really cool and he was very chill. Then about a month ago he started RT-ing my selfies and commenting on them on IG (not too much but I got the vibe he was interested). So one night I specifically posted something I knew he'd respond to so we'd start talking; we chatted that night, and the next day he asked if I wanted to be his texting buddy. I was like "sure" ofc because he was hot and seemed genuinely nice.
That day (Day 1) G and I start texting, and we pretty much end up texting all day, the flirting starts to get heavy, and he asks if it'd be okay if talked on the phone or skyped sometimes. I was up for it and we talked that night, then skyped for about 4 hours
, and at that point both of us seemed really into one another. G was very flattering towards me, we were basically back and forth complimenting each other, we told one another about our past exes and some crushes etc. We even end up swapping nudes that night, and then camming (don't judge me).
The next day (Day 2) is more of the same, texting all day and we skyped for hours that night. At one point G complimented me, and it literally made me cry because it was like this paragraph of him telling me how special I was, and how I was the whole package etc. It was quite factually, the nicest thing a man had ever said to me. The following day (day 3) we texted most of the day, but couldn't skype because G was closing at work, and I was okay with it. I should preface this going forward by saying I live in Florida, and he lives in Texas. Day 2 he literally told me that if things went further he'd want either me to come visit or for him to come visit, I was smitten with him, my ex couldn't be bothered to drive an hour to see me but here G is offering to fly me to see him.
Day 4 is texting, and then I go camping that night, so no more skyping through the weekend, but we text a lot and end up gushing to one another about how we normally don't click so fast with a guy and it just seemed magical. Now, we enter Week 2. From when I get back from camping (Sunday) through Wednesday, G keeps telling me he'll skype me the next day, putting it off. I do my best to not be weird or clingy about it, and I brush it off, we aren't texting as much and I get a little nervous but still, I don't think much of it.
So Wednesday, we finally Skype and it's short because G has a headache from work, I'm okay with it. G tells me that he met this guy at work who was a meme (the dudes pic had been turned into a meme a few years back) and I'm like "oh cool". So from Thursday or Friday of Week 2 forward, he started texting back less, and not replying as much (meanwhile I'm multi-texting, and every morning I'm sending a good morning text though the only reason I do this is bc we talked about doing it the first few days we were so into one another).
The weekend of Week 2 rolls by, me and G barely talk even though I try texting and snapchatting him. Monday of Week 3, week text a little bit during the day, then I look on IG and see he's posted a MCM, and in the comments someone is like "OH you got a cute man!" and G was like "Yeah!" and I'm basically shellshocked, I go to the guys IG page and Twitter and see that it's the same dude he told me about last Wednesday, the dude who was a Meme
. I look at G's twitter and he posted a tweet like "I'm dating a guy who is a meme" and I'm basically baffled.
Not only am I surprised, but I was going through my screenshots and found that when I'd screenshotted a pic to use as G's contact pic on my phone, my screenshot before I'd screenshotted the twitter profile pic of a mutual of his that I'd noticed and though "oh that guys shirt is cool". The mutual whose pic I'd screenshotted before G's? Was the guy that G is now dating. So G had known this guy before we'd even been talking, he hadn't just met this Meme guy. I'm ****ing furious. I realize that all the time that G had told me "If you come visit me I want us to be dating" or "I want to be your first, do you think you could wait till we meet so I can be your first?" and all this other ****.... G had known and possibly been talking to this other guy.
I'm still devastated and hurt. I have a hard enough time trusting that guys are interested in me, and here G flat out tells me that he wants to date me and he's so into me and then he ****ing gets a boyfriend and doesn't tell me? and pretends they'd just met??? and I texted him "Omg you got a man?" and G was like "yeah I didn't think it would work out but it did" and then proceeds to send me screenshots of him and his BFs messages (about the BF being a meme) and it just ****ing blows my mind how insensitive to my feelings he is. G basically used me to stroke his own ego/emotions whatever while he was busy getting a boyfriend. How much of anything he said to me was true?? I've been crying off and on about this for like, two days and I have no clue what to do about it.
Sorry for the mountain of text, I just... I'm really hurt because I was so into this guy and thought he was too, but he ****ing used me.
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in the morning too so he was late at work and had to work extra hours. 
