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Discussion: Your Crush Thread 2.0
Member Since: 4/22/2012
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I've talked about my crush in here already but it was in that Embarassing Crush Stories thread or something, and I think no one cared lol.
Anyway, it started last year, I discovered this guy from college lives in the same city as I, I've seen him for a while now but we never talked and I never cared about him (although I found him cute). That day we caught the same bus and he started staring at me non-stop, and when I replied the stare he literally checked me from head to toe. I found that soooo strange, but tried not to care, but he kept on looking. I, then, searched for him on Facebook to know his name, if he had a girlfriend, etc, and he didn't, so I completely FELL for the guy, damn! I fall in love too easily.
The weeks after that I started to pay attention to see if he looked at me again when we occasionally met (it was kinda rare) and he did! I wanted to start some conversation with him but it was hard because as I said, we don't see each other much and we have completely different groups of friends (he's two semesters ahead of me in college). I had, then, the brilliant ideia of adding him on Facebook and trying to start something there. He didn't accept me tho LOL, I didn't understand anything. I considered the fact that he is christian and maybe, just maybe, is a closeted gay, or maybe he just never cared. I just know I felt really bad after that and everytime I see him I get super pissed. I also noticed that after a while he never looked at me again, I don't know if I was just seeing what I wanted to see before, or if he's really trying to avoid looking at me. I honestly don't know anything.
I'm kinda over it now though, I think he graduated already this year, if not, he will really soon, so I will finally get to forget about him. Such a disappointment tbh, a shame because he's beautiful and seems to be cool. We would make a cute couple.
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Member Since: 3/20/2011
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Originally posted by Raster
Is it totally wrong to have feelings for a family member?  I'm kinda desperate |
Is it your daddy sis.
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Member Since: 3/15/2013
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Originally posted by Raster
Is it totally wrong to have feelings for a family member? I'm kinda desperate |
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Member Since: 2/4/2014
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Originally posted by 4Real
I've talked about my crush in here already but it was in that Embarassing Crush Stories thread or something, and I think no one cared lol.
Anyway, it started last year, I discovered this guy from college lives in the same city as I, I've seen him for a while now but we never talked and I never cared about him (although I found him cute). That day we caught the same bus and he started staring at me non-stop, and when I replied the stare he literally checked me from head to toe. I found that soooo strange, but tried not to care, but he kept on looking. I, then, searched for him on Facebook to know his name, if he had a girlfriend, etc, and he didn't, so I completely FELL for the guy, damn! I fall in love too easily.
The weeks after that I started to pay attention to see if he looked at me again when we occasionally met (it was kinda rare) and he did! I wanted to start some conversation with him but it was hard because as I said, we don't see each other much and we have completely different groups of friends (he's two semesters ahead of me in college). I had, then, the brilliant ideia of adding him on Facebook and trying to start something there. He didn't accept me tho LOL, I didn't understand anything. I considered the fact that he is christian and maybe, just maybe, is a closeted gay, or maybe he just never cared. I just know I felt really bad after that and everytime I see him I get super pissed. I also noticed that after a while he never looked at me again, I don't know if I was just seeing what I wanted to see before, or if he's really trying to avoid looking at me. I honestly don't know anything.
I'm kinda over it now though, I think he graduated already this year, if not, he will really soon, so I will finally get to forget about him. Such a disappointment tbh, a shame because he's beautiful and seems to be cool. We would make a cute couple.
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OMG, this story is so similar to what I'm going through right now omg... 
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
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Member Since: 1/2/2014
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Why are most people in this thread banned? I wanna share my story. 
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Member Since: 9/16/2011
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Originally posted by Hitori
Why are most people in this thread banned? I wanna share my story. |
share it sis it's just a coincidence 
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Member Since: 9/16/2011
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I have crush but he has a boyfriend.  They've only ever been in a long distance relationship and it's been 3 years. The bf's visiting and I hung out with them for a good 6 hours the other day. </3
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Member Since: 3/15/2013
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Originally posted by 4Real
I've talked about my crush in here already but it was in that Embarassing Crush Stories thread or something, and I think no one cared lol.
Anyway, it started last year, I discovered this guy from college lives in the same city as I, I've seen him for a while now but we never talked and I never cared about him (although I found him cute). That day we caught the same bus and he started staring at me non-stop, and when I replied the stare he literally checked me from head to toe. I found that soooo strange, but tried not to care, but he kept on looking. I, then, searched for him on Facebook to know his name, if he had a girlfriend, etc, and he didn't, so I completely FELL for the guy, damn! I fall in love too easily.
The weeks after that I started to pay attention to see if he looked at me again when we occasionally met (it was kinda rare) and he did! I wanted to start some conversation with him but it was hard because as I said, we don't see each other much and we have completely different groups of friends (he's two semesters ahead of me in college). I had, then, the brilliant ideia of adding him on Facebook and trying to start something there. He didn't accept me tho LOL, I didn't understand anything. I considered the fact that he is christian and maybe, just maybe, is a closeted gay, or maybe he just never cared. I just know I felt really bad after that and everytime I see him I get super pissed. I also noticed that after a while he never looked at me again, I don't know if I was just seeing what I wanted to see before, or if he's really trying to avoid looking at me. I honestly don't know anything.
I'm kinda over it now though, I think he graduated already this year, if not, he will really soon, so I will finally get to forget about him. Such a disappointment tbh, a shame because he's beautiful and seems to be cool. We would make a cute couple.
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Yeah I've had this happen to me before and it doesn't feel good. Luckily you never had any real feelings for him though 
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Member Since: 4/22/2012
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Originally posted by #ADOU
OMG, this story is so similar to what I'm going through right now omg... |
I'm so sorry for us 
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Originally posted by BILLIONAIRE✘BOY
Yeah I've had this happen to me before and it doesn't feel good. Luckily you never had any real feelings for him though |
I kinda had/have though, I put my expectations too high. When I don't see him for weeks I feel better but when I do...
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Member Since: 7/9/2010
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Originally posted by 4Real
I've talked about my crush in here already but it was in that Embarassing Crush Stories thread or something, and I think no one cared lol.
Anyway, it started last year, I discovered this guy from college lives in the same city as I, I've seen him for a while now but we never talked and I never cared about him (although I found him cute). That day we caught the same bus and he started staring at me non-stop, and when I replied the stare he literally checked me from head to toe. I found that soooo strange, but tried not to care, but he kept on looking. I, then, searched for him on Facebook to know his name, if he had a girlfriend, etc, and he didn't, so I completely FELL for the guy, damn! I fall in love too easily.
The weeks after that I started to pay attention to see if he looked at me again when we occasionally met (it was kinda rare) and he did! I wanted to start some conversation with him but it was hard because as I said, we don't see each other much and we have completely different groups of friends (he's two semesters ahead of me in college). I had, then, the brilliant ideia of adding him on Facebook and trying to start something there. He didn't accept me tho LOL, I didn't understand anything. I considered the fact that he is christian and maybe, just maybe, is a closeted gay, or maybe he just never cared. I just know I felt really bad after that and everytime I see him I get super pissed. I also noticed that after a while he never looked at me again, I don't know if I was just seeing what I wanted to see before, or if he's really trying to avoid looking at me. I honestly don't know anything.
I'm kinda over it now though, I think he graduated already this year, if not, he will really soon, so I will finally get to forget about him. Such a disappointment tbh, a shame because he's beautiful and seems to be cool. We would make a cute couple.
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if this ever happened to me I would be CRUSHED. 
the one reason I hate having a crush
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Member Since: 4/22/2012
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Originally posted by Quiqui4eva
if this ever happened to me I would be CRUSHED.
the one reason I hate having a crush |
It was my worst crush to date sis, my crushes used to at least accept me on Facebook. I was SO pissed, like, that wh0re can't even accept me on fckn Facebook? Pff
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Member Since: 3/15/2013
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Originally posted by 4Real
It was my worst crush to date sis, my crushes used to at least accept me on Facebook. I was SO pissed, like, that wh0re can't even accept me on fckn Facebook? Pff
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Yeah this was a bit petty 
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Member Since: 3/14/2013
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Originally posted by 4Real
It was my worst crush to date sis, my crushes used to at least accept me on Facebook. I was SO pissed, like, that wh0re can't even accept me on fckn Facebook? Pff
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He's not obligated to add you.
But drag it anyway.
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Member Since: 3/15/2013
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Wait I forgot you said yall never talked 
That explains why he didnt add you lol
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
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Finding gay people in my local area is so few and far between and i'm fed up of using social media/ dating apps to meet up with people. Plus my local gay club is so far away that I cannot be asked to go regularly.
Whenever I do end up crushing on someone they end up just falling flat when I meet them in real life. Rarely in a physical/appearance sense but in more of a mental/emotional way. I haven't even been intimate with anyone in nearly a year, at my age my sex drive should be through the roof.
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Member Since: 5/27/2016
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Not really a crush story but I was purussing on a gay dating app and one of the guys had under his "turn ons" sections
" Fluffy hair"
" Hair that doesn't define the laws of gravity"
Like 
Girl just saw you're not into black men and keep it moving instead of beating around the bush. Gay men are so picky
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
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This thread.
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I need some advice to get my crush! So I meet him at the club 3 or 4 weeks ago we danced and kissed, his the first guy I ever get butterflies around. So after that night I added him on FB and was really shy to talk him, well after 2 or 3 weeks! we talk on FB a bit now  and I finally got him on snapchat! I really really like him i can't stop thinking about him, I've slept with this cute Emo who I also like but I still have strong feelings for this other guy! I kinda hinted Him bout a party happening in October and he seems interested in going well he works full time and he only get weekends off! He is always busy but everytime I hint him to hang he says when I'm free I'll let you knkw but o dunno I feel like he still doesn't know how I feel bout him, I just want to get to know him, go on a date and kiss those lips again,  I need advice how can I ask this guy out
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
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^Don't push yourself upon him. If he likes you he will get back to you like he said, if not it wasn't meant to be. The more persistent you are, the more distant he will become.
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