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Discussion: Your Crush Thread 2.0
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Originally posted by BILLIONAIRE✘BOY
Anything new happen guys
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Well, I've been dating that pilot guy for about 2 weeks now and everything is going well. He keeps doing all these super nice things like picking me up from work and buying me food and I feel like we're about to become officially official
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Originally posted by Reinvention
I don't know I guess I thought things would be different, but they aren't.
He's a really shy guy, and he gets very jealous of my rather extroverted personality. We went to a gay bar last night and I saw two friends and I gave them hugs, and he got really annoyed and angry and made us leave literally 2mins after we arrived, and then we had a big fight about that.
And that's pretty much why we broke up in the first place, cause of me getting sick of all these little things.
I thought after all this time apart he'd have a damn good understanding of who I am. I don't get why he even wants to be with me when he has so many problems with me?
Wonder if I should quit before I get in too deep again.
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He is insecure as ****! Help him love himself or just runaway. It's a huge issue.
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I got a crush, then he got me mad so i harassed him. The end.
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Originally posted by BILLIONAIRE✘BOY
Omg this is so cute
I'm guessing he was just as cute in person ?
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Yes! He was super amazing and super sexy. I find nerds my weakness so I was weak when I met him haha. I really like him since we keep talking and he's just so dorky and cute! :Jonny:
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Ok y'all, I'm asking all you guys for assistance on helping me score a boyfriend, so don't let me down please.
So, as y'all know, I've been talking to this guy for a couple weeks, we've met twice, and he's truly amazing and I've honestly fallen for him HARD. He's this nerdy guy but he has these stunning eyes along with a deep husky voice that makes me weak in the knees. He's definitely not what I usually find attractive, and I think that makes me like him even more because I know it's obviously not based on brawn and other physical attributes. His intelligence, humor, acting/singing, etc just make him the hottest to me. He also said that if we got together like we both want, that he'd do long distance as we go to college (only 4 hours away from me)
We've been talking and he then revealed that his ex keeps texting him even though his ex told him not to talk to him and he doesn't know what to do. His ex broke up with him on New Years and he can't get rid of him. I told him to just drop him because he said it's holding him back from moving forward with me because he's constantly taking up his time, but he said he's not the type of person to do that and he genuinely cares for everyone and wants to help everyone. I tried telling him that he needed to help himself and just block him out of his life somehow, at least for a little while until we can get to going out and such.
I constantly flirt with him and he flirts back (like today he spent like 30 minutes asking for us to send shirtless pics to each other, which I ultimately agreed to), but then he says he's not ready to move onto a relationship. Along with that, he said that, and then asked me out on a bowling date next week, so I'm extremely confused as to what to do. He also invited me to come see him perform in a musical that he's the lead in and said that I'd be his plus one to the event and I'm just confused as to what we are. Then about 10 minutes ago, I told him that I genuinely care for him and want to help him anyway I can and he just replied awe and said he was going to bed. I asked if I was making it awkward and he said no, that I wasn't the thing making it awkward and that he genuinely cared for me as well. I'm just confused. I really like this guy and I honestly wanted to go to prom with him since he's like all I could ask for, but I don't know how to go about it.
Can I get some advice and help please? My prom is in 3 weeks, and I really am in a crunch time to get this settled as well as figured out how to pay for the prom ticket for my plus one.
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Member Since: 8/7/2015
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i bumped into this straight guy I had a massive crush on in high school last week after like avoiding and not wanting see his face after some **** that he put me through at the beginning of last year. Long story short, he was in a relationship with this girl from my grade during a specific time when he made out with me. I got blamed for their relationship going down in flames. Like, I don't know. My life turned into a Lana lyric and a Bold & the Beautiful episode in like 12 hours and I just couldn't deal, you know? Anyway, bumping into brought back those little (emphasis on the word) feelings that I had for him. He's a douchebag and an absolute twat but I'm also convinced that he's not as straight as he was when he was with his ex and I just want him inside of me and all I could think of on Friday was sucking his face and making out with him
Like, what should I do? I have a feeling that I'm going to end up bumping into him again this Thursday but I just get so angry.upset when I see him because of all of the **** that I had to go through with him saying all this **** to me after that breakup with Jess (his ex) aka the heaux who hid behind this whole Christian-helpless-damsel-in-distress act. Like, she was a hoe and we all knew that she loved getting the good D. I mean, who doesn't? But yeah, I don't know. Maybe he's changed now? He's gotten a bit thique and I'm living for it
Welp sistrens
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Member Since: 8/7/2015
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Originally posted by Notorious K.E.N
I got a crush, then he got me mad so i harassed him. The end.
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Do you feel bad tho?
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Member Since: 1/4/2014
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Originally posted by LaNathan
Ok y'all, I'm asking all you guys for assistance on helping me score a boyfriend, so don't let me down please.
So, as y'all know, I've been talking to this guy for a couple weeks, we've met twice, and he's truly amazing and I've honestly fallen for him HARD. He's this nerdy guy but he has these stunning eyes along with a deep husky voice that makes me weak in the knees. He's definitely not what I usually find attractive, and I think that makes me like him even more because I know it's obviously not based on brawn and other physical attributes. His intelligence, humor, acting/singing, etc just make him the hottest to me. He also said that if we got together like we both want, that he'd do long distance as we go to college (only 4 hours away from me)
We've been talking and he then revealed that his ex keeps texting him even though his ex told him not to talk to him and he doesn't know what to do. His ex broke up with him on New Years and he can't get rid of him. I told him to just drop him because he said it's holding him back from moving forward with me because he's constantly taking up his time, but he said he's not the type of person to do that and he genuinely cares for everyone and wants to help everyone. I tried telling him that he needed to help himself and just block him out of his life somehow, at least for a little while until we can get to going out and such.
I constantly flirt with him and he flirts back (like today he spent like 30 minutes asking for us to send shirtless pics to each other, which I ultimately agreed to), but then he says he's not ready to move onto a relationship. Along with that, he said that, and then asked me out on a bowling date next week, so I'm extremely confused as to what to do. He also invited me to come see him perform in a musical that he's the lead in and said that I'd be his plus one to the event and I'm just confused as to what we are. Then about 10 minutes ago, I told him that I genuinely care for him and want to help him anyway I can and he just replied awe and said he was going to bed. I asked if I was making it awkward and he said no, that I wasn't the thing making it awkward and that he genuinely cared for me as well. I'm just confused. I really like this guy and I honestly wanted to go to prom with him since he's like all I could ask for, but I don't know how to go about it.
Can I get some advice and help please? My prom is in 3 weeks, and I really am in a crunch time to get this settled as well as figured out how to pay for the prom ticket for my plus one.
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THE END OF AN ERA:
Long story short, he played me and said that he actually never wanted to go out on a date but just was planning on cancelling last minute. The way he went about it is so damn ******, I'm pissed. I went into work since I was supposed to go back to work on Saturday but I got it off since he asked me to be his date for his musical. Well, I texted him saying that I got it off and can for sure go. He texted me 5 minutes ago and said that he actually didn't want a relationship and just wanted to hook up with me. He then said that he REALLY likes me but he still loves his ex and I'm just kinda pissed at both the thought that he wanted to hook up and that he still loves a man who dumped him on New Years.
Then he said that it wouldn't make sense to do a long distance relationship. The funny thing HOWEVER is that HE was the one that mentioned a long distance relationship when we go to college since it was only 3 hours away. He said that he didn't "believe" in them and then I got pissed and sent him a screenshot of his text saying we should do a long distance when we get to college.
He then tried to give a sob story about how he saw his ex with someone today and he burst out in tears. I was like, that's ****ing pathetic dude. He dumped you on New Years making out with another guy and you're still upset over him? Like he said that he wants us to be really good friends and everything but he said he "doubts" he'll ever be over his ex.
I told him no and now I'm kinda in my house alone upset listening to power ballads. Of course, I have class at 6 and then a quiz at the end.
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Oh no sis
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Originally posted by DerpGa
Do you feel bad tho?
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Yes
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Member Since: 8/7/2015
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I think this guy who works next door to me in the store likes me. We've never really talked other than when he's selling me something at the till. I kind of like him too but I don't really know how to approach him and say something. mess
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I also have a little crush on this other guy who quite regularly goes into the store where Crush 1 (post above) works. He's light-skin and really sexy but I think he's straight
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Member Since: 3/15/2013
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Any new tea ???
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Member Since: 1/4/2014
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Originally posted by LaNathan
I told him no and now I'm kinda in my house alone upset listening to power ballads. Of course, I have class at 6 and then a quiz at the end.
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Ugh this is ALWAYS the way. Your biggest emotional traumas always strike when you're super busy and have sh*t to do.
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Member Since: 7/9/2010
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There's this dude at my uni who likes me A LOT but i'm not into him at all. IT'S SO FRUSTRATING. I hate myself because all I do is turn down every gay who shows interest, but I stay flocking to the str8's. Cheers to me for being single 5ever
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Member Since: 3/15/2013
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Originally posted by Quiqui4eva
There's this dude at my uni who likes me A LOT but i'm not into him at all. IT'S SO FRUSTRATING. I hate myself because all I do is turn down every gay who shows interest, but I stay flocking to the str8's. Cheers to me for being single 5ever
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I'm exactly the same way
And I don't even have super high standards like wtf
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Member Since: 3/15/2013
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Originally posted by LaNathan
THE END OF AN ERA:
Long story short, he played me and said that he actually never wanted to go out on a date but just was planning on cancelling last minute. The way he went about it is so damn ******, I'm pissed. I went into work since I was supposed to go back to work on Saturday but I got it off since he asked me to be his date for his musical. Well, I texted him saying that I got it off and can for sure go. He texted me 5 minutes ago and said that he actually didn't want a relationship and just wanted to hook up with me. He then said that he REALLY likes me but he still loves his ex and I'm just kinda pissed at both the thought that he wanted to hook up and that he still loves a man who dumped him on New Years.
Then he said that it wouldn't make sense to do a long distance relationship. The funny thing HOWEVER is that HE was the one that mentioned a long distance relationship when we go to college since it was only 3 hours away. He said that he didn't "believe" in them and then I got pissed and sent him a screenshot of his text saying we should do a long distance when we get to college.
He then tried to give a sob story about how he saw his ex with someone today and he burst out in tears. I was like, that's ****ing pathetic dude. He dumped you on New Years making out with another guy and you're still upset over him? Like he said that he wants us to be really good friends and everything but he said he "doubts" he'll ever be over his ex.
I told him no and now I'm kinda in my house alone upset listening to power ballads. Of course, I have class at 6 and then a quiz at the end.
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Omg what?!?! What a dick
See I can't deal with **** like this, how do people just randomly do a 180 like that
I hate guys
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Guys, I'll lose my virginity in about ONE month. Any tips ?
Tbh I'm scared. I'll obviously be the bottom, and this guy is huge... When I mean huge, I mean HUGE ! But I'm so happy, he's the most beautiful man I've ever seen, no exaggeration, and he's so nice. It'll be a magical moment, I can't wait.
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
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Originally posted by LaNathan
THE END OF AN ERA:
Long story short, he played me and said that he actually never wanted to go out on a date but just was planning on cancelling last minute. The way he went about it is so damn ******, I'm pissed. I went into work since I was supposed to go back to work on Saturday but I got it off since he asked me to be his date for his musical. Well, I texted him saying that I got it off and can for sure go. He texted me 5 minutes ago and said that he actually didn't want a relationship and just wanted to hook up with me. He then said that he REALLY likes me but he still loves his ex and I'm just kinda pissed at both the thought that he wanted to hook up and that he still loves a man who dumped him on New Years.
Then he said that it wouldn't make sense to do a long distance relationship. The funny thing HOWEVER is that HE was the one that mentioned a long distance relationship when we go to college since it was only 3 hours away. He said that he didn't "believe" in them and then I got pissed and sent him a screenshot of his text saying we should do a long distance when we get to college.
He then tried to give a sob story about how he saw his ex with someone today and he burst out in tears. I was like, that's ****ing pathetic dude. He dumped you on New Years making out with another guy and you're still upset over him? Like he said that he wants us to be really good friends and everything but he said he "doubts" he'll ever be over his ex.
I told him no and now I'm kinda in my house alone upset listening to power ballads. Of course, I have class at 6 and then a quiz at the end.
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This sounds EXACTLY like the guy I was dating about a month ago. You're doing the right thing saying no, and it will make you feel more powerful and will give you closure. But what a dick, I hate when people that get their hearts broken go out and try to break someone else's heart
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Member Since: 3/15/2013
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Originally posted by Choppy "上帝與你常在"
Guys, I'll lose my virginity in about ONE month. Any tips ?
Tbh I'm scared. I'll obviously be the bottom, and this guy is huge... When I mean huge, I mean HUGE ! But I'm so happy, he's the most beautiful man I've ever seen, no exaggeration, and he's so nice. It'll be a magical moment, I can't wait.
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Oh boy, prepare to cry
Jk but we cant really go in depth about this on here but what I will say is just go slow and be careful!
You can really hurt yourself if you take things too fast
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