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Discussion: Your Crush Thread 2.0
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
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Seeing someone cute eyeing you and look away when you look at them is torture but it's even worse when you don't say anything thinking you might see them again but you never do 
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Member Since: 3/15/2013
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Seeing my bestfriend tomorrow 
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Member Since: 3/3/2014
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i like a quarterback at my school now 
we just went to a sushi buffet together today and ugh.
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Member Since: 3/15/2013
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I can't even have normal crushes anymore.
My gym is full of guys that are 100% my type. It's frustrating. And I am shallow and my standards are way too high.
When I crush on some guy I don't even know anymore if I wanna be with them or I just wanna be... them  And I am not ugly or anything, I look fine as hell. So just imagine the guys that come there  I hate it. And some of them sometimes start talking to me or they wanna use the same thing I'm using and I try to keep it cool, but I always get a bit awkward. Sometimes I see them staring at me, but i don't even know if it's not, becuase I was staring at them first or what
I have like 10 crushes from my gym.
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Member Since: 8/7/2015
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Originally posted by Saint
Seeing someone cute eyeing you and look away when you look at them is torture but it's even worse when you don't say anything thinking you might see them again but you never do |
ahh tell me about it
i literally hate it when it happens to me
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Member Since: 8/7/2015
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Originally posted by Mariano
I can't even have normal crushes anymore.
My gym is full of guys that are 100% my type. It's frustrating. And I am shallow and my standards are way too high.
When I crush on some guy I don't even know anymore if I wanna be with them or I just wanna be... them And I am not ugly or anything, I look fine as hell. So just imagine the guys that come there I hate it. And some of them sometimes start talking to me or they wanna use the same thing I'm using and I try to keep it cool, but I always get a bit awkward. Sometimes I see them staring at me, but i don't even know if it's not, becuase I was staring at them first or what
I have like 10 crushes from my gym. |
i stopped going to the gym cuz i swear i can't handle the amount of hot sweaty guys there
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Member Since: 3/3/2014
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ugh, i'm at his house finishing this project with him. he's literally so annoying but i swear he's so cute at the same time ;-;
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Member Since: 1/4/2014
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I dated this guy for 4 months and then we broke up cause of a stupid fight and I was MISERABLE about it for 5 months, and now I finally got him back but now I'm second-guessing. I'm a fu*king mess!
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Member Since: 3/3/2014
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Originally posted by Reinvention
I dated this guy for 4 months and then we broke up cause of a stupid fight and I was MISERABLE about it for 5 months, and now I finally got him back but now I'm second-guessing. I'm a fu*king mess! |
what are you second guessing???
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Member Since: 1/4/2014
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Originally posted by marajxgrant
what are you second guessing???
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I don't know I guess I thought things would be different, but they aren't.
He's a really shy guy, and he gets very jealous of my rather extroverted personality. We went to a gay bar last night and I saw two friends and I gave them hugs, and he got really annoyed and angry and made us leave literally 2mins after we arrived, and then we had a big fight about that.
And that's pretty much why we broke up in the first place, cause of me getting sick of all these little things.
I thought after all this time apart he'd have a damn good understanding of who I am. I don't get why he even wants to be with me when he has so many problems with me? 
Wonder if I should quit before I get in too deep again.
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Member Since: 3/3/2014
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Originally posted by Reinvention
I don't know I guess I thought things would be different, but they aren't.
He's a really shy guy, and he gets very jealous of my rather extroverted personality. We went to a gay bar last night and I saw two friends and I gave them hugs, and he got really annoyed and angry and made us leave literally 2mins after we arrived, and then we had a big fight about that.
And that's pretty much why we broke up in the first place, cause of me getting sick of all these little things.
I thought after all this time apart he'd have a damn good understanding of who I am. I don't get why he even wants to be with me when he has so many problems with me?
Wonder if I should quit before I get in too deep again. |
now have you talked to the boy about this? i get the feeling your communication with each other isn't ideal.
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Member Since: 9/1/2013
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Originally posted by Retro
His nickname is Peter Pan, and he's adorable as hell. He's in student government with me, he's so passionate and honest, he's the nicest guy on earth, and every time we talk and every time I look in his eyes, I just feel like it's right.
That's my crush. And I have no clue how to ask him to hang out more often without the context of our student government involvement. I don't know how to just say "hey, let's just hang out sometime, maybe this weekend" because every time I try to, I freeze.
What a mess, how have I come to like this boy so much I'm posting on ATRL about it? When did I get this far gone with it? |
little did retro know, this crush of his actually was peter pan pretending to be a normal human, and would soon take him on the adventure of a lifetime...
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Member Since: 1/4/2014
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Soooooooo, after the whole incident earlier this year, I finally went back onto Tinder 3 days ago and I met this really great guy. We're just gonna call him Christopher for the time being. We matched on Tinder and Chris messaged me and we talked for a couple hours and it was really great. We actually had organic conversations that weren't try hard and cringy. Chris is kinda like my nerdy fantasy; he's incredibly hot, uses tons of corny puns (which makes me weak in the knees), he's a really good actor/singer, super nerdy (works as a cashier/geek squad member at Best Buy) and really is super caring and adorable. We already have plans to go on a bowling date together when I get back from LA so that's very exciting!
He's also a guy who is looking for a relationship and wants to try long distance as he goes to college which I like a lot. It would work as well, since my college is only 3 hours from him (if it gets that far). He told me I should come visit him before I leave while he works, but I don't know if I should or not.... I really want to see him before I go but I want your thoughts? He works for 5 more hours and I really would want to come towards the end and possibly hang out for like 20 minutes or something before I leave on my flight tonight at 9:30.
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I found my church crush daddy on Facebook. Alas, he has barely any public pix except of his kids and his wife. Boo. I doubt he'd accept a friend request considering I've never talked to him.
I feel like my fave Bey could relate to me. Not because anyone's out of her reach, but because I'm sure people everywhere have wanted to be with her despite her being married and a mother.
ETA: Oh apparently he gives private art lessons.
He's the teacher, I can learn
I better watch my fingers, boy, I might get burned
Cuz he's cold as fire baby, hot as ice
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Member Since: 1/4/2014
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Originally posted by marajxgrant
now have you talked to the boy about this? i get the feeling your communication with each other isn't ideal.
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Yeah, it's not. Problem is he's Japanese and I can speak some Japanese, but largely the relationship is dependent on his English which is really really good, but not perfect so sometimes things get lost in translation. Like when I text him I have to be really clear in what I'm saying, and I think I am sometimes too vague. Like it's so cringey to write the exact way I'm feeling, cause he won't pick up on "..." and the likes so easily.
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Member Since: 9/1/2013
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Originally posted by LaNathan
Chris is kinda like my nerdy fantasy; he's incredibly hot, uses tons of corny puns (which makes me weak in the knees), he's a really good actor/singer, super nerdy (works as a cashier/geek squad member at Best Buy) and really is super caring and adorable. |
literally sans
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Member Since: 3/15/2013
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Originally posted by LaNathan
Soooooooo, after the whole incident earlier this year, I finally went back onto Tinder 3 days ago and I met this really great guy. We're just gonna call him Christopher for the time being. We matched on Tinder and Chris messaged me and we talked for a couple hours and it was really great. We actually had organic conversations that weren't try hard and cringy. Chris is kinda like my nerdy fantasy; he's incredibly hot, uses tons of corny puns (which makes me weak in the knees), he's a really good actor/singer, super nerdy (works as a cashier/geek squad member at Best Buy) and really is super caring and adorable. We already have plans to go on a bowling date together when I get back from LA so that's very exciting!
He's also a guy who is looking for a relationship and wants to try long distance as he goes to college which I like a lot. It would work as well, since my college is only 3 hours from him (if it gets that far). He told me I should come visit him before I leave while he works, but I don't know if I should or not.... I really want to see him before I go but I want your thoughts? He works for 5 more hours and I really would want to come towards the end and possibly hang out for like 20 minutes or something before I leave on my flight tonight at 9:30.
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Oh ****, I think you should do it. He sounds like he's really good for you and it seems like you really like him. Just make you be safe about it though.
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Originally posted by BILLIONAIRE✘BOY
Oh ****, I think you should do it. He sounds like he's really good for you and it seems like you really like him. Just make you be safe about it though.
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I did it! He saw me walk in and then I just walked around for a couple minutes to play around, grabbed a water and walked up to his counter. I then asked "Hey bro, could you check me out?". He nervously was like "uh sure thing sir" and then he asked me if I was having a good day and I replied with "it's better now" and he blushed haha. Then he grabbed my hand to give me my receipt and said "Mines going a lot better now as well" and I basically skipped out of the store walking on air  .
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Member Since: 3/15/2013
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Originally posted by LaNathan
I did it! He saw me walk in and then I just walked around for a couple minutes to play around, grabbed a water and walked up to his counter. I then asked "Hey bro, could you check me out?". He nervously was like "uh sure thing sir" and then he asked me if I was having a good day and I replied with "it's better now" and he blushed haha. Then he grabbed my hand to give me my receipt and said "Mines going a lot better now as well" and I basically skipped out of the store walking on air . |
Omg this is so cute
I'm guessing he was just as cute in person ?
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Member Since: 3/15/2013
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Anything new happen guys
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