Love is a real emotion even if it isn't for a man. We have it for people we care about what else would make us forgive the dumb and evil **** they sometimes say ?
If I ever fall in love I would hope my first reaction isn't to run away because that would make me a coward and not willing to take the risk of being hurt by love in the process. One thing I won't do is not experience something of the fear of possibly getting hurt in the future.
I don't use or claim that form of thinking. But you can and live your life that way.
What the **** is Posion.