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Discussion: Your Crush Thread 2.0
Member Since: 8/7/2015
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Originally posted by CakeLikeRihanna
I have a crush on this guy from my class. I've met him 2 years ago and had a crush on him since day one. I started hanging out with him and we are now best friends. I never felt this way for another person, and I honestly think I'm in love with him. He's the only person that can always make me smile. He can be really rude to other people in school, but he's always nice to me. Even if he says something rude to me, he quickly apologizes. I chat with him everyday on Facebook, sometimes we can chat till like 4am. Sometimes he even sends me heart and kiss emojis. We are always together in school. But the only problem is that I don't know if he's gay, straight or bisexual. I don't want to make the first move on him because I'm scared it will ruin our friendship if he's straight. I've heard from some people that he's bisexual but I need more proof. He's really confusing as a person, he has some gay stereotypes (walks fast, shaves his legs, likes to wear sunglasses, wears only tight pants) and some straight stereotypes (likes sport, goes to gym often, hangs out with a lot of guys). I live in Croatia, a VERY homophobic country, but he's not one of the homophobes, he actually hates homophobes and defends gay people when we talk about them in class.
So what do you guys think, should I make a move on him? Should I come out to him or ask him if he's gay/bisexual? I would really appreciate your suggestions because I really want to be with him
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Just try to bring some gay or sexuality related subject and see what will happen
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Member Since: 8/7/2015
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Originally posted by BILLIONAIRE✘BOY
Literally just found out my crush from middle school/highschool is in jail
Like what even, he was so cute
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Tragic
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Member Since: 3/15/2013
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Originally posted by DerpGa
Tragic
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Apparently he was selling drugs, he's such a mess
I remember talking on the phone wit him like everyday back in 8th grade
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
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OK new crush now. So I started talking to this guy on Tinder two days ago, and I haven't really been looking for anything and just have tinder and use it every week or so when I get bored. But he was super cute, and he's a pilot which I think is super sexy. We started talking and kinda hit it off, so I went over to hang out with him (which was my first date in 2 months since I've been focusing on myself lately) last night and he was SO cute . We kinda just sat and talked and watched a movie but then we kissed after a few hours and he told me he didn't want me to leave so I stayed over there last night. We didn't even do anything except cuddle all night. It was amazing. This is like the first real crush I've had since I started dating my ex last May so I'm really excited. He likes me just as much as I like him and it seems like he wants to date me
When he dropped me off this morning he gave me his sweater and said now he would have to come back and see me again to get it back
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Member Since: 3/15/2013
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Originally posted by Jackson
OK new crush now. So I started talking to this guy on Tinder two days ago, and I haven't really been looking for anything and just have tinder and use it every week or so when I get bored. But he was super cute, and he's a pilot which I think is super sexy. We started talking and kinda hit it off, so I went over to hang out with him (which was my first date in 2 months since I've been focusing on myself lately) last night and he was SO cute . We kinda just sat and talked and watched a movie but then we kissed after a few hours and he told me he didn't want me to leave so I stayed over there last night. We didn't even do anything except cuddle all night. It was amazing. This is like the first real crush I've had since I started dating my ex last May so I'm really excited. He likes me just as much as I like him and it seems like he wants to date me
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Omg so happy for you
What movie was it and did you guys and plan for a second date ?
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Member Since: 1/5/2014
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Originally posted by BILLIONAIRE✘BOY
Sounds like me and my best friend, people always refer to us as a couple its so annoying
Honestly what I would do is tell him that you had a family member come out to you and ask him what he thinks about it. Youve said he's not a homophobe which is good but try and get him to talk a bit more about it. I wouldnt come out and just ask though.
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Some people from class also like to tease us and refer to us as a couple
but i don't mind it
We really talk a lot but we never talk about serious stuff like this so I think it would be weird and that he would think I'm hitting on him. But something other came up to my mind, our school is organizing a trip to Budapest next month and I will be in the hotel room with him, do you think it's a good idea to make a move on him then? We will also probably be high so if something goes wrong I can tell him that it was just because of weed
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Originally posted by Schhh
Say something like "You're so hot, if you( or I) were gay I'd totally do you" and wait for his reaction.
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I don't have enough confidence to say that to him, and he would probably think I'm joking because we make stupid jokes all the time
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Originally posted by DerpGa
Just try to bring some gay or sexuality related subject and see what will happen
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But I don't know how to bring that subject up so it doesn't seem weird
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
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Originally posted by BILLIONAIRE✘BOY
Literally just found out my crush from middle school/highschool is in jail
Like what even, he was so cute
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Member Since: 7/15/2012
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Originally posted by Jackson
OK new crush now. So I started talking to this guy on Tinder two days ago, and I haven't really been looking for anything and just have tinder and use it every week or so when I get bored. But he was super cute, and he's a pilot which I think is super sexy. We started talking and kinda hit it off, so I went over to hang out with him (which was my first date in 2 months since I've been focusing on myself lately) last night and he was SO cute . We kinda just sat and talked and watched a movie but then we kissed after a few hours and he told me he didn't want me to leave so I stayed over there last night. We didn't even do anything except cuddle all night. It was amazing. This is like the first real crush I've had since I started dating my ex last May so I'm really excited. He likes me just as much as I like him and it seems like he wants to date me
When he dropped me off this morning he gave me his sweater and said now he would have to come back and see me again to get it back
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Get writing
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
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Originally posted by BILLIONAIRE✘BOY
Omg so happy for you
What movie was it and did you guys and plan for a second date ?
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It was James Bond because I told him I liked action movies ddd. He's been texting me all day and he wants to take me on a real date now. He's such a gentleman though, he would apologize every time he looked at his phone last night and kept saying all these super nice things to me
The only downfall is he's going back home to Boston for the summer so if we did start dating we would have to do long distance for two or so months
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Originally posted by keshaspearsxo
Get writing
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Already been coming up with concepts
We could be the next PH power couple
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Member Since: 3/15/2013
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Originally posted by CakeLikeRihanna
Some people from class also like to tease us and refer to us as a couple
but i don't mind it
We really talk a lot but we never talk about serious stuff like this so I think it would be weird and that he would think I'm hitting on him. But something other came up to my mind, our school is organizing a trip to Budapest next month and I will be in the hotel room with him, do you think it's a good idea to make a move on him then? We will also probably be high so if something goes wrong I can tell him that it was just because of weed
I don't have enough confidence to say that to him, and he would probably think I'm joking because we make stupid jokes all the time
But I don't know how to bring that subject up so it doesn't seem weird
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Either high or like slightly drunk, it works like a charm I've done it so many times. Just don't force anything
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Member Since: 3/15/2013
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Originally posted by Jackson
It was James Bond because I told him I liked action movies ddd. He's been texting me all day and he wants to take me on a real date now. He's such a gentleman though, he would apologize every time he looked at his phone last night and kept saying all these super nice things to me
The only downfall is he's going back home to Boston for the summer so if we did start dating we would have to do long distance for two or so months
Already been coming up with concepts
We could be the next PH power couple
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Ugh that ****ing blows, I still think you should go for it though. I just don't know how the whole long distance relationship thing would go but if its only two months then it shouldn't be that bad.
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
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Originally posted by BILLIONAIRE✘BOY
Ugh that ****ing blows, I still think you should go for it though. I just don't know how the whole long distance relationship thing would go but if its only two months then it shouldn't be that bad.
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I agree. We'll see if it gets to that point, but if it does I'd be fine with that. I've done long distance with someone for 5 months before so 2 is no problem and would probably be good for me
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Member Since: 3/15/2013
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Ugh, I'm about to force myself to go find some guys.
I need to do better than lusting for the pizza guy
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Member Since: 6/22/2012
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Originally posted by Schhh
Ugh there's this guy who looks like Ian Somerhalder in my class and he stopped attending the class and now I don't even get to see him anymore.
Say something like "You're so hot, if you( or I) were gay I'd totally do you" and wait for his reaction.
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Definitely DONT do this
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Member Since: 3/15/2013
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Yeah, if you say that things will get really awkward lol
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Member Since: 7/9/2010
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Originally posted by Schhh
Last year I had a big crush on this Dylan O'Brien look-alike ( ) from my college. He's a year younger than me so I'd only see him occasionally on hallways and bus stop but I'm over him now, besides I'm 70% sure his straight.
I know at least 6-7 gay guys from college but none of them attract me.
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Literally story of my life
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Member Since: 3/15/2013
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
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adjsklj im dying
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Member Since: 3/15/2013
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Originally posted by Jackson
adjsklj im dying
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Ong, this is so cute
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ATRL Senior Member
Member Since: 3/22/2012
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His nickname is Peter Pan, and he's adorable as hell. He's in student government with me, he's so passionate and honest, he's the nicest guy on earth, and every time we talk and every time I look in his eyes, I just feel like it's right.
That's my crush. And I have no clue how to ask him to hang out more often without the context of our student government involvement. I don't know how to just say "hey, let's just hang out sometime, maybe this weekend" because every time I try to, I freeze.
What a mess, how have I come to like this boy so much I'm posting on ATRL about it? When did I get this far gone with it?
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