"While all the time that I was loving you
You were busy loving yourself
I would stop breathing if you told me to
Now you're busy loving someone else"
Mary's scarf & shades with black lipstick look is iconic "Not Gon' Cry" was a single off the Waiting to Exhale soundtrack (technically one of the best R&B albums ever). The song was written by Babyface, and told the troubles of the character played by Angela Bassett in the movie. The song became a huge hit for Mary. It hit #2 on the Hot 100 (so close), and #1 on the Hot R&B/Hip-Hop Songs. The song is one of Mary's biggest selling singles, selling over 1.5 copies.
"Let's get it crunk, we gon' have fun
Up on in this dancery
We got ya open, now ya floatin'
So you gots to dance for me"
GO OFF MARY!!! 2001 was the year of Mary's TRIUMPH. After years of singing about pain, Mary was TIRED, and wanted people to DANCE. "Family Affair" became the biggest hit of her career. It was #1 on the Hot 100 for 6 weeks, and remains her only #1 single. It was also a top 10 hit in the U.K, and #2 in New Zealand (her third biggest market). Mary changed up her entire look and style for this video, and it was a great change for her.