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Discussion: Your Crush Thread 2.0
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Originally posted by Saint
You're so easy to drag though. It's fun But, how do you know if he isn't up for a relationship? This would not only help him become more sure about his sexuality but also to see how he really feels about you. And, again, you can't really complain about the experiment thing because this is no different than your experimentation. Just because you were going into it with the mindset that if you liked it, you'd try to be in a relationship with them, doesn't make you any better than he is because it's literally the same thing. The only difference is now you're in the place of the people you did this with. Plus your wording suggests that if he didn't make you feel like a toy or science experiment that you'd be for it which in turn shows that you like/liked him a biT
Mess, I told you that would happen! Poor homeless being strung along by you. And you said you were a good person
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He just, never mentions relationships and he seems like he wants to try it out... sexually first or something. idk. I guess your right, but, eh. It's still mentally conflicting. asdfghjkl, drag me though, I do like him, he's so kind and handsome. Urgh. **** him. And **** Homeless.
He saw me today and apologised and said that he still liked me and wanted to persue "something" with me. Whatver that means. Urgh, I don't know what to do. I just sat there in silence.
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Originally posted by SpinThatShhh
He just, never mentions relationships and he seems like he wants to try it out... sexually first or something. idk. I guess your right, but, eh. It's still mentally conflicting. asdfghjkl, drag me though, I do like him, he's so kind and handsome. Urgh. **** him. And **** Homeless.
He saw me today and apologised and said that he still liked me and wanted to persue "something" with me. Whatver that means. Urgh, I don't know what to do. I just sat there in silence.
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I'd say just give it a chance. You never know how things will turn out. Plus you never explicitly asked him if all he wanted was to experiment and not a relationship. Even if he didn't want a relationship, you can use him to replace your friends wit benefits thing with homeless.
Speaking of, I knew he'd still have feelings for you. This is why FWB never works, regardless of what people try to say. You need to end it with him for good. At least the sex. If you still want to be friends with him then tell him but you need to cut it off.
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Originally posted by BlazingLovatic
One of my friends came over last night (he's cute), and just as we were talking about sleeping arrangements for next week, he looks me straight in the eye and says "Did you know I'm bi?". A few minutes before, I suggested that we both squeeze into my single bed (I was feeling reckless ), and he said something like "Don't hold it against me if I can't help myself from feeling you up". He also really likes skinship (physical intimacy) - as do I - and we somehow always find ourselves tangled up together, sitting on one another, or me just jumping on his back and making him piggyback us to the next location. (He tries his best to carry me for like 2 minutes before dying )
Now I'm trying to figure out whether the timing of his announcement was coincidental, or if he was actually trying to incite something
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for ****s sake, now I have a problem. I've got an actual crush on this guy
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Originally posted by Saint
I'd say just give it a chance. You never know how things will turn out. Plus you never explicitly asked him if all he wanted was to experiment and not a relationship. Even if he didn't want a relationship, you can use him to replace your friends wit benefits thing with homeless.
Speaking of, I knew he'd still have feelings for you. This is why FWB never works, regardless of what people try to say. You need to end it with him for good. At least the sex. If you still want to be friends with him then tell him but you need to cut it off.
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Hm. Last paragraph in my last post was about co-worker, not Homeless. I don't want a relationshit with him, and he doesn't want one with me. **** ha.
Anyway, me and co-workee made up fully, and we started talking today. I asked him what he wanted to experience with a guy, and he said the obvious, but he said that he wanted his partner to be affectionate... In public. ajsdhjsakshdjs. Bye.
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This thread is such a mess. SpinThatShhh I feel like I haven't seen you around in ages. Is this where you lurk?
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Originally posted by SpinThatShhh
Hm. Last paragraph in my last post was about co-worker, not Homeless. I don't want a relationshit with him, and he doesn't want one with me. **** ha.
Anyway, me and co-workee made up fully, and we started talking today. I asked him what he wanted to experience with a guy, and he said the obvious, but he said that he wanted his partner to be affectionate... In public. ajsdhjsakshdjs. Bye.
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Oh mess. Well then disregard what I said about homeless.
Yass at him basically proving you wrong and saying he wants a relationship and not just a play thing to experiment with! I'm kinda rooting for him just so he can figure out who he is and you can have a kinda stable relationship for once You better get with him!!!
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Originally posted by BlazingLovatic
One of my friends came over last night (he's cute), and just as we were talking about sleeping arrangements for next week, he looks me straight in the eye and says "Did you know I'm bi?". A few minutes before, I suggested that we both squeeze into my single bed (I was feeling reckless ), and he said something like "Don't hold it against me if I can't help myself from feeling you up". He also really likes skinship (physical intimacy) - as do I - and we somehow always find ourselves tangled up together, sitting on one another, or me just jumping on his back and making him piggyback us to the next location. (He tries his best to carry me for like 2 minutes before dying )
Now I'm trying to figure out whether the timing of his announcement was coincidental, or if he was actually trying to incite something
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Originally posted by BlazingLovatic
for ****s sake, now I have a problem. I've got an actual crush on this guy
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Gurl if you don't get that D and stop playing
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So, I have this really cute kid in my Chem class at college and I'm literally crushing on him hard. He always looks at me during lecture and smiles at me and I just smile back trying to look calm about it when actuality I want him to leap across the lab station and play with my pipette. Like he's this really goofy ginger guy and he's a band geek but he's so hot I can't deal with it. Like his smile is so adorable, and you could get lost in his eyes with how beautiful they are. What do y'all think I should do?
I held the door open for him today and he touched my hand when he walked through and when we were walking out to the parking lot he said how much he appreciated it since he didn't know how he would be able to get his instrument ( ) out of the door (he plays the tuba ). I ended up being awkward and I said I'd help you carry your instrument anytime. So yep, that's my dilemma, all my high school crushes will not come to fruition because now the entire school thinks I'm straight so adorkable ginger is my main crush now.
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Originally posted by MiMiLamb
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Originally posted by BlazingLovatic
for ****s sake, now I have a problem. I've got an actual crush on this guy
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I don't have a crush/infatuation on him anymore
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I don't have a crush/infatuation on him anymore
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What happened?
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What happened?
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It just faded away real fast
I'd still be up for it if the situation presented itself though
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Poor Homeless
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Originally posted by LaNathan
So, I have this really cute kid in my Chem class at college and I'm literally crushing on him hard. He always looks at me during lecture and smiles at me and I just smile back trying to look calm about it when actuality I want him to leap across the lab station and play with my pipette. Like he's this really goofy ginger guy and he's a band geek but he's so hot I can't deal with it. Like his smile is so adorable, and you could get lost in his eyes with how beautiful they are. What do y'all think I should do?
I held the door open for him today and he touched my hand when he walked through and when we were walking out to the parking lot he said how much he appreciated it since he didn't know how he would be able to get his instrument ( ) out of the door (he plays the tuba ). I ended up being awkward and I said I'd help you carry your instrument anytime. So yep, that's my dilemma, all my high school crushes will not come to fruition because now the entire school thinks I'm straight so adorkable ginger is my main crush now.
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YO, in class right now and he looks ****ing fantastic. His cute little sweater is bringing out his eyes and he keeps smiling at me. What do I do sistrens?
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Crushing on straight guys is so mentally draining, I'm so sick of it.
Like I really feel like I've suffered actual emotional trauma because of this.
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ashdgdjsk;;
It's progressing. We talked today, and I asked him if he had any physical attraction to me (stupid question, i know, but I wanted to start a certain topic) and he said yes. He said that he finds me attractive, and feels protective over me even though we aren't dating or anything. He also said he likes to be dominant. Ahshdjsddusksk.
I asked him if he could help me with my lesson plan thingy tommorow, and he said yes. Ajsdhaksk.
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Poor Homeless
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Bye
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Alive by Sia is low key slaying me, makes me wish Adele released it.
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Originally posted by SpinThatShhh
ashdgdjsk;;
It's progressing. We talked today, and I asked him if he had any physical attraction to me (stupid question, i know, but I wanted to start a certain topic) and he said yes. He said that he finds me attractive, and feels protective over me even though we aren't dating or anything. He also said he likes to be dominant. Ahshdjsddusksk.
I asked him if he could help me with my lesson plan thingy tommorow, and he said yes. Ajsdhaksk.
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Poor your straight ass!
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Originally posted by SpinThatShhh
ashdgdjsk;;
It's progressing. We talked today, and I asked him if he had any physical attraction to me (stupid question, i know, but I wanted to start a certain topic) and he said yes. He said that he finds me attractive, and feels protective over me even though we aren't dating or anything. He also said he likes to be dominant. Ahshdjsddusksk.
I asked him if he could help me with my lesson plan thingy tommorow, and he said yes. Ajsdhaksk.
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Let him give you the good D so you can chill tf about all of this
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