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Discussion: Your Crush Thread 2.0
Member Since: 8/19/2013
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Originally posted by SpinThatShhh
Yas, you know the tea. These bum bitches can't say ****.
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No, we don't want no scrubs.
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Originally posted by Saint
You were never straight, stop it!
I'm leaving soon because I don't really have the time, well scratch that, I shouldn't be spending much time on here with everything that's going on with school and stuff....but then again I've been saying I'm leaving for a biT now and I haven't yet Plus everyone I usually talk to on here doesn't get on much or I have other means of talking to them like texting so there kinda is no point. I'm too nice to drag or shade
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I am straight. I'm just being young.
I tried to leave, but I ended up just coming back more.
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Originally posted by Pikachu
a true mess
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Bitch, I see NO lies in my post.
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He said sorry for being awkward today, and then, ignored me for the rest of the day. Lmao.
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
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This belongs in here
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Originally posted by its_britney_bitch
I'm basically invisible to my crush
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No I'm not I just want him to acknowledge my existence
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I'm way too shy and quiet so it would def seem suspect
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Shbfkjdnwkksbsn he did today It's not much but still
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Originally posted by SpinThatShhh
I am straight. I'm just being young.
I tried to leave, but I ended up just coming back more.
He said sorry for being awkward today, and then, ignored me for the rest of the day. Lmao.
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Sure Jan. You keep telling yourself that
This new guy is really wishy washy. He's still trying to figure himself and his feelings out so I wouldn't expect much from him. That's kinda annoying though to have him act like that towards you. Maybe you should reassure him that his feelings towards you, whatever they are, aren't going to affect your friendship.That might help the situation a bit.
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Today at the gym I saw the cutest guy and he was kind of hot
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Member Since: 3/2/2014
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Originally posted by Saint
Sure Jan. You keep telling yourself that
This new guy is really wishy washy. He's still trying to figure himself and his feelings out so I wouldn't expect much from him. That's kinda annoying though to have him act like that towards you. Maybe you should reassure him that his feelings towards you, whatever they are, aren't going to affect your friendship.That might help the situation a bit.
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or we can wait for Spin and Homeless their eventual wedding
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Member Since: 8/7/2015
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I'm really heartbroken and devastated because so far I have no classes with my crush at all I had one but my blocks changed I pray that I have atleast one class with him tomorrow
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Originally posted by Saint
Sure Jan. You keep telling yourself that
This new guy is really wishy washy. He's still trying to figure himself and his feelings out so I wouldn't expect much from him. That's kinda annoying though to have him act like that towards you. Maybe you should reassure him that his feelings towards you, whatever they are, aren't going to affect your friendship.That might help the situation a bit.
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ddd; at you basically predicting the future.
He came up to me today and said that he wants to try "the gay thing" (his words), and was like prodding me. I just assured him that we will still be friends eitherway, I just don't know about all this at the moment. I like him, I just don't want to be an "experiment".
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Originally posted by Pikachu
or we can wait for Spin and Homeless their eventual wedding
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As if that poor ass ghey could afford a wedding. Child PLEASE.
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Originally posted by 1989
I'm really heartbroken and devastated because so far I have no classes with my crush at all I had one but my blocks changed I pray that I have atleast one class with him tomorrow
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Urgh. That sucks.
Just try to say hello to him whenever you see him in the hall/ whatever.
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Originally posted by SpinThatShhh
ddd; at you basically predicting the future.
He came up to me today and said that he wants to try "the gay thing" (his words), and was like prodding me. I just assured him that we will still be friends eitherway, I just don't know about all this at the moment. I like him, I just don't want to be an "experiment".
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My power!
But mess. Don't think of it as an experiment or him experimenting because a lot of gay/bi people's first relationship or experience, whether they want to believe it or not was in fact an experiment to see if they truly do like guys or whatever so I say go for it. You never know what may happen. The fact that he told you you're one of the only guys he's felt this way about and then now telling you he wants you, no one else but YOU to be the first guy he's with in some capacity seems to be a big deal.
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Originally posted by Saint
My power!
But mess. Don't think of it as an experiment or him experimenting because a lot of gay/bi people's first relationship or experience, whether they want to believe it or not was in fact an experiment to see if they truly do like guys or whatever so I say go for it. You never know what may happen. The fact that he told you you're one of the only guys he's felt this way about and then now telling you he wants you, no one else but YOU to be the first guy he's with in some capacity seems to be a big deal.
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Should have probably read this before seeing him today...
I was with him and lunch and he was cute/ funny. He was sorta weird though (talking about flying monkeys and when he bought his milk he started talking about how he lacked toes or something). I was talking to him today out of work, and I started telling him about how I felt like this was an expreiment and he started to get angry/ agressive (kinda hot) and started to cry and ****. He then told me to **** off and went off.
I phoned him, but he just said that he was sorry, but wanted to be left alone. asdfghjkl. What the ****?
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My crush is straight i think? When I was walking back to my dorm room he came out of this girl room I think they date? Idk. I'm so over it at this point I just want a damn boyfriend.
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Originally posted by SpinThatShhh
Should have probably read this before seeing him today...
I was with him and lunch and he was cute/ funny. He was sorta weird though (talking about flying monkeys and when he bought his milk he started talking about how he lacked toes or something). I was talking to him today out of work, and I started telling him about how I felt like this was an expreiment and he started to get angry/ agressive (kinda hot) and started to cry and ****. He then told me to **** off and went off.
I phoned him, but he just said that he was sorry, but wanted to be left alone. asdfghjkl. What the ****?
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Not you making it worse
You really should have read my post first Maybe he'll give you a chance once he calms down some more but there's also a kinda good chance that he might just distance himself from you and then cut the cord for good. It could go either way at this point
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Originally posted by Saint
Not you making it worse
You really should have read my post first Maybe he'll give you a chance once he calms down some more but there's also a kinda good chance that he might just distance himself from you and then cut the cord for good. It could go either way at this point
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He phoned me like 5 mins ago and was talking about how he needs to experiment with someone, because he simply doesn't know. I kept on trying to talk, but he just... kept telling me to shut up . He also implied that I was a ***** "i bet you experimented with people, probably multiple" then he started laughing...
Why does he assume that I want him. I still want him to apologise to me though.
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Originally posted by SpinThatShhh
He phoned me like 5 mins ago and was talking about how he needs to experiment with someone, because he simply doesn't know. I kept on trying to talk, but he just... kept telling me to shut up . He also implied that I was a ***** "i bet you experimented with people, probably multiple" then he started laughing...
Why does he assume that I want him. I still want him to apologise to me though.
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Not him reading your ass for filth!!!
But really tho, where's the lie? You can't hate him for saying he wants to experiment when you're literally no different because you've done the same, with both genders. And he assumes you want him because you kinda do. You wouldn't have spent so much time on him trying to figure out if he was a hunTy or not if you just wanted to be friends or find him at least a little attractive, so let's not.
What do you want him to apologize for tho?
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Originally posted by Saint
Not him reading your ass for filth!!!
But really tho, where's the lie? You can't hate him for saying he wants to experiment when you're literally no different because you've done the same, with both genders. And he assumes you want him because you kinda do. You wouldn't have spent so much time on him trying to figure out if he was a hunTy or not if you just wanted to be friends or find him at least a little attractive, so let's not.
What do you want him to apologize for tho?
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He is trash. Why do all the people I pursue always DRAG me? **** them. But, when I was experimenting I had the intentions of a relationship, he seems to be more of a "let me try the gay thing, and if it works maybe". Like, I feel like a "try me" taster thing you get at supermarkets. And, I don't want him. I'm just curious about him, cause he's cute and used to be really nice. I want him to apologise for treating me like a toy.
Oh, and side note, Homeless thinks that I want to continue a relationship or something. Poor him.
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Originally posted by SpinThatShhh
He is trash. Why do all the people I pursue always DRAG me? **** them. But, when I was experimenting I had the intentions of a relationship, he seems to be more of a "let me try the gay thing, and if it works maybe". Like, I feel like a "try me" taster thing you get at supermarkets. And, I don't want him. I'm just curious about him, cause he's cute and used to be really nice. I want him to apologise for treating me like a toy.
Oh, and side note, Homeless thinks that I want to continue a relationship or something. Poor him.
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You're so easy to drag though. It's fun But, how do you know if he isn't up for a relationship? This would not only help him become more sure about his sexuality but also to see how he really feels about you. And, again, you can't really complain about the experiment thing because this is no different than your experimentation. Just because you were going into it with the mindset that if you liked it, you'd try to be in a relationship with them, doesn't make you any better than he is because it's literally the same thing. The only difference is now you're in the place of the people you did this with. Plus your wording suggests that if he didn't make you feel like a toy or science experiment that you'd be for it which in turn shows that you like/liked him a biT
Mess, I told you that would happen! Poor homeless being strung along by you. And you said you were a good person
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One of my friends came over last night (he's cute), and just as we were talking about sleeping arrangements for next week, he looks me straight in the eye and says "Did you know I'm bi?". A few minutes before, I suggested that we both squeeze into my single bed (I was feeling reckless ), and he said something like "Don't hold it against me if I can't help myself from feeling you up". He also really likes skinship (physical intimacy) - as do I - and we somehow always find ourselves tangled up together, sitting on one another, or me just jumping on his back and making him piggyback us to the next location. (He tries his best to carry me for like 2 minutes before dying )
Now I'm trying to figure out whether the timing of his announcement was coincidental, or if he was actually trying to incite something
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Member Since: 8/17/2013
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I bitchhh I wish I posted in here during all my Grindr and Tinder explorations.
Anyway,
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College is so weird. There is some good eye candy who you see and think are just really cute. It stays that way until you actually go up to them and have a conversation with them. That's how it is with me at the moment. A good 2-3 piece of eye candy that may or may not turn into a crush. Back in high school I only had 1-2 major crushes. Classes and friends distract me from really paying attention to guys. I'm just really awkward in general so
Sidenote: Would this be the place for flings that I've had
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Member Since: 3/8/2014
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Hi guys, I need some advice
So the last summer (January in my country), this guy added me on fb (before he followed me on ig) and that kinda creeped me out tbh and he started talking to me, and I ignored him and answer him like 5 hours later (I'm not that bad ). The thing is that we talked like that for like 3 weeks idk and it was kinda sweet but I wasn't interested, and then we stopped talking.
When I realized that he stopped talking to me, I started to miss him and I told my friend that knows him that I said hi. That day we talked again but nothing happened.
Now a month ago probably, he talked to me bc he saw me on the bus, and we talked again and told me that I should go to his home and I told him that I couldn't because I was studying for a test (which was true besides my mom was pregnant so I couldn't left her alone) and I believe that bothered him a bit Then I finished the conversation saying that he should have told me before or something so maybe next time.
And nooooooow I'm finishing the semester (in September ) and I'm thinking of talking to him so maybe we go out or something but idk, I feel like he is going to ignore me and I don't want to be rejected
So should I talk to him or no?
I'm a mess I know, but be nice
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