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Discussion: Your Crush Thread 2.0
Member Since: 1/1/2014
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Originally posted by Wotamin
I had a crush on someone until not a long ago because I realized he wants me.......but only for sex
I won't lie and say that I still think about him sometimes
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This happened to me last year. Mess.
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Member Since: 8/7/2015
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I only have crushes on straight guys (& girls) but never gay ones
It's like I set myself up to fail
Why must straight guys be so hot
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
Posts: 7,779
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One of the guys I wrote about here....The one who sat besides me in class and talked to me? I saw him yesterday at a party. He was wearing a super tight Michael Kors shirt that was super shiny and was with an ugly guy. How in the world did I NOT MAKE A MOVE OR ANYTHING? I didn't know if he was gay or what, but they were almost kissing lol wtf?
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Update!
He randomly said on Facebook said that he is no longer Christian, then proceeded to post a picture where he tagged all his family and randomly me ( ) with the caption "My religion is you" (Gaga reference?). But, apart from that we never talked all summer.
I got bored the other day, so I call my ex (homeless) and we had some...fun. But, after we were done I sorta missed him and it. Then, today out the the blue, crush FB'd me and said "Missed you this summer, bro. See you tomorrow" and posted him mobile details.
Mess.
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Member Since: 9/1/2013
Posts: 5,014
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Quote:
Originally posted by SpinThatShhh
Update!
He randomly said on Facebook said that he is no longer Christian, then proceeded to post a picture where he tagged all his family and randomly me ( ) with the caption "My religion is you" (Gaga reference?).
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Banned
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Originally posted by YUNGKALIMXEL
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He still claims he's hetero despite this.
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ATRL Contributor
Member Since: 8/19/2013
Posts: 18,655
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Quote:
Originally posted by SpinThatShhh
Update!
He randomly said on Facebook said that he is no longer Christian, then proceeded to post a picture where he tagged all his family and randomly me ( ) with the caption "My religion is you" (Gaga reference?). But, apart from that we never talked all summer.
I got bored the other day, so I call my ex (homeless) and we had some...fun. But, after we were done I sorta missed him and it. Then, today out the the blue, crush FB'd me and said "Missed you this summer, bro. See you tomorrow" and posted him mobile details.
Mess.
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Still messy af, I see.
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Member Since: 8/7/2015
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Banned
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Originally posted by Saint
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Bitch, HE is messy. I've been sittin' right here, real patient, all day, all night, i've been waiting standby.
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
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I hate myself for missing one of my coworkers. He's back this weekend and I wanted the time off to get over him..
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ATRL Contributor
Member Since: 8/19/2013
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Quote:
Originally posted by SpinThatShhh
Bitch, HE is messy. I've been sittin' right here, real patient, all day, all night, i've been waiting standby.
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I got bored the other day, so I call my ex (homeless) and we had some...fun.
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But you're not a mess...mhmm I see you boo!
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Member Since: 9/9/2012
Posts: 59,872
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Omg, it's this cute boy in a class whew. He's tatted up, the idk what's going on look, could give a **** less about the class. Usual story of 'I started to catch him always staring directly at me for a bit', at first I was like 'Um wtf why are you staring at me' but then I started to notice he was cute, welp. He's so shy, he doesn't talk to anyone in the class really, but I ALWAYS see him with a girl outside of class. Idk if they date, because I don't see them kiss or anything never before once even at lunch. They're just always talking. He seems 101% straight if you look at him (tattoos, no gay vibes, chill, etc) but hmm he's always staring and it seems he has a girl best-friend and has no guy friends at all yet (which is understandable though because it's his first year here) so hEY . He'll probably end up the 350th one that got away though.
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Member Since: 1/18/2012
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I've liked this guy (who's in the closet) for almost a year now. Everybody always assumes he's gay but he won't admit. His best friends have told me they think he's gay and even his sister was in doubt. He shows some signs like his lingo, the way he talks, how he moves, the people he surrounds himself with. We always joke around, he stares at me, he follows me around at parties but he plays hard to get sometimes (I think). He responds late, and acts like he doesn't care (about ANYTHING). His don't-care/don't-know attitude annoys me. He has bragged about the girls he's kissed, but still we joke about that he should seduce this bartender who's into him and works in a club just so he can get free drinks. Once when we were drunk we held hands the entire night and fell asleep side by side.
His friends notice I like him (when I denied they said they were just kidding) but I think he's too stupid to see even though I flirt with him all the time. I cling to his arm, do lots of things for him etc. He calls me my nickname, has paid for my expensive drinks and shared his cigs with me (bc he felt guilty I called off work for the party we went to together) and he calls me his best friend haha.
Sometimes I wish he cared more about anything at all,or that he would be less shy or that he'd finally come out of the closet (he's almost turning 19, not that late but still). If I made a move on him and I'd get rejected, my friendship with both him and his sister would be ruined, so now I will patiently wait until the day I either am drunk enough to show my feelings, or he comes out as gay, or I will get over him and he will get a girlfriend lol.
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Quote:
Originally posted by Saint
But you're not a mess...mhmm I see you boo!
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Most people do this. Friends with Benefits is a thing, they even made a movie.
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Quote:
Originally posted by SpinThatShhh
Most people do this. Friends with Benefits is a thing, they even made a movie.
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The justification. Poor homeless
Im still kinda shocked y'all are still messing around after all this time
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Quote:
Originally posted by Saint
The justification. Poor homeless
Im still kinda shocked y'all are still messing around after all this time
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I mean, this was the first time in MONTHS. And, he loved it dont feel sorry for him, "poor homeless".
Anyway, I met co-worker at work on Monday. It went well, he was really nice. On Wednesday we went to see a movie after he invited me (Straight Outta Compton). It was nice but sooooo long, so I went to the toilet and he followed me and just waited outside.
After the movie was over, I asked him why he was being super friendly and he was talking about how he didn't have any friends (which is a lie, I always seem him out of work with his squad). After some deliberating he said that he was confused because he "knows" he is straight but has feelings for me (and has previously had feelings for someone else).
That's it. He hasn't talked to me the past 2 days.
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ATRL Contributor
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Quote:
Originally posted by SpinThatShhh
I mean, this was the first time in MONTHS. And, he loved it dont feel sorry for him, "poor homeless".
Anyway, I met co-worker at work on Monday. It went well, he was really nice. On Wednesday we went to see a movie after he invited me (Straight Outta Compton). It was nice but sooooo long, so I went to the toilet and he followed me and just waited outside.
After the movie was over, I asked him why he was being super friendly and he was talking about how he didn't have any friends (which is a lie, I always seem him out of work with his squad). After some deliberating he said that he was confused because he "knows" he is straight but has feelings for me (and has previously had feelings for someone else).
That's it. He hasn't talked to me the past 2 days.
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Banned
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Originally posted by Saint
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asdfghjkl, you better drag me.
I mean, I sorta want to see where this goes. He is like, a stereotypical straight, but not. It's super weird. Like, maybe i'm just stupid, but when he said that he's only had feelings for me and another I sorta believed it. I don't really think he is really interested in me in that way, I just think he likes my personality or something (?).
Nn; mess. The biggest mess is homeless trying to give me a booty call last night. Not today Satan.
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ATRL Contributor
Member Since: 8/19/2013
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Quote:
Originally posted by SpinThatShhh
asdfghjkl, you better drag me.
I mean, I sorta want to see where this goes. He is like, a stereotypical straight, but not. It's super weird. Like, maybe i'm just stupid, but when he said that he's only had feelings for me and another I sorta believed it. I don't really think he is really interested in me in that way, I just think he likes my personality or something (?).
Nn; mess. The biggest mess is homeless trying to give me a booty call last night. Not today Satan.
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Mess. Maybe you should just keep going with it. Either he's being genuine or he's a really good liar cause guys say **** like that to make you feel special just so they can get **** out of you but I digress.
I doubt he likes your personality though, cause you have a ****** personality hun. Sorry not sorry. But on the plus side I guess that means you must be really good looking....or maybe he's blind, who knows.
Kii at you acting like you didn't want homeless. I told you over a year ago that you wouldn't be able to get over/get rid of him easily and look what's happening. I'm such a good psychic
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Member Since: 9/8/2012
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My ultimate real life crush turned out to be straight! Much disappointment and waste of time.
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