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Tournament: ♦ ATRL Charm School: Semester 2 ♦ // THE WINNER IS...
ATRL Senior Member
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Originally posted by theoyella jukebox
What's the point of writing up an apology and not sending it?  |
A lot of people do it just to make themselves feel better and get rid of the guilt. It's like when people are told to write letters to someone and just say everything that has been on their mind (good or bad things) and not send it. It's therapeutic so you don't have all this emotional baggage and not have to confront them out of awkwardness or hatred.
Edit: but actually being able to say those stuff to the person is even better sometimes. It gives a better chance of releasing all guilt or tension that may be left over from the never sent letter.
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ATRL Contributor
Member Since: 8/31/2012
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Originally posted by borntodie
But you can still send it to the person! Just save a copy in your sent folder and then make a screen shot.
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I sent my apology, I forgot to save a copy to the sent folder.  I hope he responds soon. 
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ATRL Contributor
Member Since: 8/31/2012
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Originally posted by Matty
A lot of people do it just to make themselves feel better and get rid of the guilt. It's like when people are told to write letters to someone and just say everything that has been on their mind (good or bad things) and not send it. It's therapeutic so you don't have all this emotional baggage and not have to confront them out of awkwardness or hatred.
Edit: but actually being able to say those stuff to the person is even better sometimes. It gives a better chance of releasing all guilt or tension that may be left over from the never sent letter.
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I guess. I'm the type of person to either make things right fully or pay you dust, so I don't think I'd be writing any apology and not sending it or bringing it up to the person. But that's just me.
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Member Since: 8/4/2012
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Sent.
Matty thought I wasn't goin to send it.
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ATRL Senior Member
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Originally posted by ririfan21
Sent.
Matty thought I wasn't goin to send it.
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I never said you weren't going to send it in, I was just asking why you wanted to be in the competition if you were questioning the task at hand.
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Member Since: 8/16/2012
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Can't wait to see your apologies guys!
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Member Since: 11/1/2010
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This is my first time back on a computer in a few days so I wasn't able to reply to Robbie's message before he got banned.
Robbie, if you're reading this, your apology was very sweet. It was not needed but still very appreciated. You're quite young (despite usually acting much older) so don't feel bad about anything. There are zero hard feelings and your message was very kind.
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Banned
Member Since: 3/3/2012
Posts: 13,073
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Not Trouble getting banned 
I hope boyonce + Ammer got the screenshot.
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Member Since: 4/21/2011
Posts: 10,659
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Can't believe Trouble went and got himself banned. So far his apology entry was VERY strong, and I could have seen him going very, very far in this...
Only Killer Queen needs to submit, then I'll post all the entires and judging will begin!!! 
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Member Since: 3/22/2012
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Member Since: 4/21/2011
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Messaged Killer Queen, but still nothing...
I'll give it a few more hours and hopefully they submit, but if not, I'm going to post the entries anyway since I want to keep this moving!
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Member Since: 3/3/2012
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I think you should post the entries and give him negative points.
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Member Since: 3/27/2012
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Originally posted by boyonce
Messaged Killer Queen, but still nothing...
I'll give it a few more hours and hopefully they submit, but if not, I'm going to post the entries anyway since I want to keep this moving!
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Don't count on him replying
He lives in Australia, so time zones might be a factor.
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ATRL Contributor
Member Since: 8/31/2012
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Originally posted by DripDrip
Don't count on him replying
He lives in Australia, so time zones might be a factor. |
Anna lives in a different timezone than most of us and she slayed ANTM.
Move on without ha.
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Member Since: 4/21/2011
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1st Class: ANCIENT HISTORY
The Entries:
theoyella jukebox:
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Originally posted by theoyella jukebox
I sent this as a PM entitled "Drip I'm so sorry."
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Originally posted by DripDrip
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Originally posted by theoyella jukebox
Okay. So the challenge in Charm School right now is to apologize to someone for any wrongdoing or anything that might have been left unsaid, so I thought I would take this opportunity to get some things off my chest, things I should have said a long time ago...but just didn't know if I should bring it up.
At first, I didn't like you at all that much. 
I thought you were vulgar, and a bit too flaming. I didn't feel completely uncomfortable around you but I didn't feel completely comfortable either. The fact that I saw you as the epitome of the gay stereotype made me feel ... slightly awkward around you. But there were other things, too. You were just so lively and entertaining, and I envied you because everyone always laughed at your jokes and you seem to have such an effect on whoever you meet or interact with, wherever you go.
I realized sometime during the middle of Cycle 9, that despite how much I felt uneasy around you at times, there was something about you that I really liked, too. I just didn't know what it was. In retrospect, I think the fact that I was (and probably still am) insecure about who I am, my sexuality, and the fact that I'm still in the closet, made me jealous of you. The fact that you are who you are: lively, energetic, never boring, and so open, made me dislike myself that much more because I feel so boring and dull sometimes, and you have such a strong, unforgettable personality. And you aren't afraid to be showy or flashy, or flamboyant...I wish I could be like that sometimes. Free and unfraid, like the drag queens you cherish so much. I also realized that I was subconsciously judging you, and that's wrong.
So I'm sorry. I'm so sorry, if I've ever made you feel awkward for how awkward I was around you. And I also want to thank you because because knowing you has helped me be more open (personality-wise and sexuality-wise), on ATRL ... and IRL too. Thank you for being the friend that you are now, I really can't imagine not knowing you.  |
Omg Theo 
That was one of the sweetest things I have ever been told in my entire life! I had no idea you felt that way about me. That took a lot of courage to tell someone how you felt about them, and it felt so sincere and generous!
Its okay, you never made me feel awkward, I actually had no idea, and I kind of feel bad for noticing how you felt or anything. Or that you were scared or uneasy about your own sexuality 
I'm always hear if you need to talk or need help with figuring it out or are just confused, I'm so happy to have met you and have made a friendship with you! You are your own special person!
Thank you for that, it really made my day |
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NICKIMINAJ:
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TheSeenScene:
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Igrt:
http://atrl.net/forums/blog.php?b=12882
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ririfan21:
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Su-Barbie-A:
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Originally posted by Su-Barbie-A
♦ History Assigment ♦
Even though I haven't fighted with many users (as far as I'm aware), I decided to apologize to this particular user I mentioned in my application.
I sent him a PM with the following:
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I don't know if you remember me and even though it is pretty late now, I just wanted to apologize for the way I treated you when you said that you stopped stanning for Gaga because of Born This Way and all that stuff. It might be silly but I feel bad for lashing out the way I did, it really makes me think that people do have a reason to dislike Little Monsters and besides this is ATRL, not a Lady Gaga forum, everyone is free to like/dislike any artist they want.
So once again, I'm sorry for acting so rude towards you and I hope we can start a new page.
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I hope I can stop shading P!nk and her stans from now on.
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CrazyCat:
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Originally posted by CrazyCat
Dear, Addicted.
Hello, first of all I'd like to ask you, do you still remember this confession?
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Addicted is a **** he should get the f*ck out next round, no one is here for ha. I'mma need you judges to void his check as soon as possible. His ass need to be kicked outta here. He is a flop and so is his entry, why is he still here tho. What is this mess, he needed to get the f*ck out in the first round. Honestly why did someone picked him for a team, he should have packed his freshly unpacked bags in the first round. If he wins i will report this thread. Now get rid of ha, thank you.
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Apology ❤
Obviously you do, I am very sorry for writing this. I was messed up. I felt sad when you got rid of me and threw me out of "I Love Money". I was thinking at the time, why? I made one small mistake and you got rid of me, while rihannafan has disappointed judges two rounds in a row. I was very nervous and I started writing that confession, I still don't know why? I know, I was mad, but I think I went a little too far. I didn't think that I could hurt you and you don't understand how hard it is now to apologize for such a thing. So sorry, I know you might hate me or even ignore my apology, but understand you kicked me out of the 1st serious game I was in. I'm still sad, but I have to apologize to you for doing this. The things I said are lies. Your entries always impressed me, you are doing a fantastic job in that game and you are one of the leaders. A lot people seem to like you, I still don't know anything about you, so I can't say much, but you seem to be a great person. If you win, I won't report the thread, I will be happy for you, because you seem to put a lot of work and time in your entries for this game (I Love Money). I'm very, very, very sorry. Hope you find a spot in your heart to forgive me, I very much do. :/
Forgive ❤
I know you might not forgive me, but I'm willing to send you this apology. This whole situation was a mess and my confession was an awful idea. So if you can, please forgive me. I can apologize to you a hundred times, if you want, if that would make you feel better. I did a bad thing and I'm willing to take responsibility for it. If you read all of this, thank you, if you skipped.. well you missed my apology and will never know how I feel. So if you can, please forgive me. I will try, as hard as I can, to get to know you and start a new friendship between us.
Addicted's reply ❤
With love - CrazyCat. ❤ ❤ ❤ ❤ |
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AdamAL4:
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Nasiir15:
http://atrl.net/forums/showthread.ph...46624#15146624
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!Blue!:
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Originally posted by !Blue!
Hi Spyro 
I know we wanted to ignore eachother , but I just wanted to say that I am sorry for my behavior. I was quite rude to you and I have offended you without any reasons. To say that you are a pitifull child and that you only live to spread hate or that i spoke bad about you behind your back and calling P!nk D!ke just to annoy you was not right and I hope that you can forgive me. Maybe we can be friends on here as long as you don't overdo it with your posts: D and maybe I will write something in the German thread. Well you offered it to me and i think it's a way to get to know you better . With that said i would truly appreciate it if you would respond to me and that you agree with me aswell, so that we can stop this unnecessary feud  . |
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JadGhamloush96:
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Originally posted by JadGhamloush96
The apology that I wanna say is to a member here called jinzo. Even though he literally lives in SYG but I may have crossed the line when we were having a stan war (P!nk versus Cher Lloyd).
I went in on Chair using everything I can and then moved on to drag jinzo himself. Calling him shitzo and whatnot (  ) I don't really like offending people and didn't really apologize properly. I got a warning point for that anyway so I paid the price.
I think that was the one point were I completely lost it on an ATRL member and to him I say I'm sorry I offended you and didn't really want to cross the line. I should've controlled myself and simply pressed the exit button but I didn't had to defend my fave from a P!nk hater by using personal attacks. I'm a mess. |
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realized Marooner didn't submit yet either. When he and Killer Queen get their entires in, I'll edit them in.
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Is Trouble getting replaced?
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The formatting. 
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Member Since: 4/21/2011
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Originally posted by DripDrip
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Nope. Ammer and I talked about it, but decided no.
I may post his entry later for y'all to see. It was really strong, and I likely would have ranked it among the top this week.
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