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Discussion: Have you ever been in love?
Member Since: 5/15/2010
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Yeah! but never with a girl, I wanna try even it will be hard...
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You can say you love someone and just mean that you care about them.
It doesn't have to be romantic.
There's a big difference between "I love you" and "I am in love with you."
But yeah, I've not been in love.
I'm still young though.
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Originally posted by inspiration4
YES!! ...........3.5 Year relationship
Love is by far the most powerful emotion on earth, and I truly believe romantic love is the strongest bond two people can possibly share with one another. But love is far more than an emotion. It's a state of mind, a lifestyle, a joint existence with another, and unfortunately, a massive risk.
How it feels? Well, thats hard but....
............ It feels like a surreal "high" that can only arise from an illogically intense relationship with another human being. It's a rather inexplicable feeling of feeling that there's ONE person on this earth that you truly connect with. One person who you you can laugh cry, and constantly spend time with while never tiring of them. Somebody who you can 100% let your guard down with, exposing secrets and desires you never even said aloud or admitted to yourself. A person who completes you so perfectly that any and everything you do together is an "event"... Going to the gas station on a friday night, walking the mall, going grocery shopping. EVERY moment is a meaningful experience....
................. Love is strong enough to transcend verbal language. A feeling so intense that you can drive together on the highway for hours on end with extended periods of no communication and still feel a connection stronger than any physical one can ever provide. It's an obsession and and infacuation.
Love has the power to breath life into a dead body, but also has the power to burn down the very foundation of a person.
Love changes your life indefinately, whether the relationship lasts or fails. You learn A LOT about yourself within the context of the relationship, and i'm convinced you learn a hell of a lot more when it ends.... often more than you ever wanted to know. One thing is for sure, and that's that for better or worse, you will never be the same person again.
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This!!
It is so beautiful.
I hope I can ever find love like this.
Congrats on your strong relationship and thanks for posting this.
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Member Since: 9/13/2009
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Originally posted by Eddie
i thought i was in love with someone, I came to realize that it was more of an obsession and lust
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IKR. I thought it was my first love but eventually I came to realize he means nothing more than mere obsession and lust. I get to know many people, but I don't think it'd be easy for me to fall for someone. I'm somewhat cold in the inside although I'm very warm outside.
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Member Since: 8/11/2007
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yes heaps of times, but ive never had anybody that has loved me, by a guy i love
so i gave up on love, i dont believe it, and it makes me sick seeing mean, horriable ppl having love, and not the sweet cute ones being lonely.
being in love is awful feeling, except if he loves you back.
but right now i'm in love with my Eric Millegan
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boys are only in love with boys in these days
i love gays a lot but everyone is these days, and the girls are just not getting anything.
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Member Since: 1/7/2009
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Yes. But it's hard when someone you love doesn't love you back.
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Yes, and Ive been in a relationship for almost 5 years now. Im still madly in love fr him and we compliment each other perfectly.
I dont believe in eternal love though. I think the spark fades away and then there's only complicity and understanding left. But 'love' as 'love' I dont think it lasts for ever
this is my baby btw
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Unfortunately, yes. And it changed me completely
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Originally posted by inspiration4
YES!! ...........3.5 Year relationship
Love is by far the most powerful emotion on earth, and I truly believe romantic love is the strongest bond two people can possibly share with one another. But love is far more than an emotion. It's a state of mind, a lifestyle, a joint existence with another, and unfortunately, a massive risk.
How it feels? Well, thats hard but....
............ It feels like a surreal "high" that can only arise from an illogically intense relationship with another human being. It's a rather inexplicable feeling of feeling that there's ONE person on this earth that you truly connect with. One person who you you can laugh cry, and constantly spend time with while never tiring of them. Somebody who you can 100% let your guard down with, exposing secrets and desires you never even said aloud or admitted to yourself. A person who completes you so perfectly that any and everything you do together is an "event"... Going to the gas station on a friday night, walking the mall, going grocery shopping. EVERY moment is a meaningful experience....
................. Love is strong enough to transcend verbal language. A feeling so intense that you can drive together on the highway for hours on end with extended periods of no communication and still feel a connection stronger than any physical one can ever provide. It's an obsession and and infacuation.
Love has the power to breath life into a dead body, but also has the power to burn down the very foundation of a person.
Love changes your life indefinately, whether the relationship lasts or fails. You learn A LOT about yourself within the context of the relationship, and i'm convinced you learn a hell of a lot more when it ends.... often more than you ever wanted to know. One thing is for sure, and that's that for better or worse, you will never be the same person again.
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WOW.
That's what i was looking for.
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Member Since: 9/25/2001
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Only with one person. But sometimes I think it was more so infatuation than love....yet again I do love him...I dunno.
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Quote:
Originally posted by inspiration4
YES!! ...........3.5 Year relationship
Love is by far the most powerful emotion on earth, and I truly believe romantic love is the strongest bond two people can possibly share with one another. But love is far more than an emotion. It's a state of mind, a lifestyle, a joint existence with another, and unfortunately, a massive risk.
How it feels? Well, thats hard but....
............ It feels like a surreal "high" that can only arise from an illogically intense relationship with another human being. It's a rather inexplicable feeling of feeling that there's ONE person on this earth that you truly connect with. One person who you you can laugh cry, and constantly spend time with while never tiring of them. Somebody who you can 100% let your guard down with, exposing secrets and desires you never even said aloud or admitted to yourself. A person who completes you so perfectly that any and everything you do together is an "event"... Going to the gas station on a friday night, walking the mall, going grocery shopping. EVERY moment is a meaningful experience....
................. Love is strong enough to transcend verbal language. A feeling so intense that you can drive together on the highway for hours on end with extended periods of no communication and still feel a connection stronger than any physical one can ever provide. It's an obsession and and infacuation.
Love has the power to breath life into a dead body, but also has the power to burn down the very foundation of a person.
Love changes your life indefinately, whether the relationship lasts or fails. You learn A LOT about yourself within the context of the relationship, and i'm convinced you learn a hell of a lot more when it ends.... often more than you ever wanted to know. One thing is for sure, and that's that for better or worse, you will never be the same person again.
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Wow, you are truly in love
and yes I've been in love. Unfortunately it didn't end up well
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Member Since: 10/4/2009
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loved sumbody but never been in love with sumbody
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Member Since: 6/12/2008
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I am....and its a great feeling
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Originally posted by amandatheafter
Unfortunately, yes. And it changed me completely
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This.
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Member Since: 6/7/2009
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Nope. I don't think it just takes one day to love somebody like most teenagers think it does.
It takes time and I'm sure we'll find it sooner or later.
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Member Since: 6/7/2009
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Originally posted by discostickk23
nope never. i really hate when couples say "i love you" after going out for 2 weeks. Its completely unreal. I really think it takes a while to truly love someone.
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Originally posted by HotNCold
Nope, I truly don't understand what it is at my age, which is why I find it hilarious when 6th graders are like "OMG i likee <3333 uu!!!"
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Exactly.
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Originally posted by inspiration4
YES!! ...........3.5 Year relationship
Love is by far the most powerful emotion on earth, and I truly believe romantic love is the strongest bond two people can possibly share with one another. But love is far more than an emotion. It's a state of mind, a lifestyle, a joint existence with another, and unfortunately, a massive risk.
How it feels? Well, thats hard but....
............ It feels like a surreal "high" that can only arise from an illogically intense relationship with another human being. It's a rather inexplicable feeling of feeling that there's ONE person on this earth that you truly connect with. One person who you you can laugh cry, and constantly spend time with while never tiring of them. Somebody who you can 100% let your guard down with, exposing secrets and desires you never even said aloud or admitted to yourself. A person who completes you so perfectly that any and everything you do together is an "event"... Going to the gas station on a friday night, walking the mall, going grocery shopping. EVERY moment is a meaningful experience....
................. Love is strong enough to transcend verbal language. A feeling so intense that you can drive together on the highway for hours on end with extended periods of no communication and still feel a connection stronger than any physical one can ever provide. It's an obsession and and infacuation.
Love has the power to breath life into a dead body, but also has the power to burn down the very foundation of a person.
Love changes your life indefinately, whether the relationship lasts or fails. You learn A LOT about yourself within the context of the relationship, and i'm convinced you learn a hell of a lot more when it ends.... often more than you ever wanted to know. One thing is for sure, and that's that for better or worse, you will never be the same person again.
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Oh wow. That's sweet.
Congratulations on your relationship.
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Member Since: 2/22/2008
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I think i'm in loved. I'm not sure that's why i was asking u guys how did it felt and what are some of the signs you know?
I can't stop thinking about that person, i'm always talking to that person, i feel sad when i'm not. It feels right, we have so many things in common. I love that person with my entire heart i do. I was just afraid to admit it cuz i don't want to be played but now i know the feeling is reciprocate.
I know you probably gonna read this so i want you to know that you have become my priority, you are my everything now. Ugh, i just love you too much it's scary.
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