Ive said it before Ill say it again maybe its just me, my boyfriend and i have been together for two a half years, and are perfectly happy and we met on Grindr! It CAN work.
Seriously though, she needs to get the **** over herself. First of all, everyone gets a lot of messages. Guys on grindr are bored. A lot of them try their luck with anyone more attractive/younger than them. A lot of them try their luck with everyone just to try and get some. And that bit about "child rape" and "child molestation"? Hunty...you're the one who illegally downloaded grindr when you're underage.