I had a crush on one straight guy, and that's about it. It had nothing to do with the fact that he was straight, but everything to do with him being an appealing, likeable person. I didn't bother to pursue him though, nor did I believe I could be the one to "turn him." It just happens sometimes, I suppose
I can totally understand being initially attracted to them, but when you let yourself get to the point of "falling in love" with them, that's what I don't understand. I'm a queer lady and sure I find straight girls cute at times, but once I learn they're straight I let that fantasy go and I stop thinking about them and move on. I wouldn't let myself keep pining over them and keep dreaming of turning them when I knew that would only cause me pain
idk, it sucks though, especially when the straight guy is someone you're close to so you can't detach the feelings of romantic love from the feelings of love for your best friend
Because our options are very limited and we have no way of knowing who is one of us and who isn't simply on face value (for most at least, sometimes it's more obvious than others).
Because our options are very limited and we have no way of knowing who is one of us and who isn't simply on face value (for most at least, sometimes it's more obvious than others).
yeah, but I was talking about when you realize he's not gay, why keep on dreaming with him? I find that a waste of time and a dangerous situation (when they find out you're gay and have a bad reaction)
Only happened to me once with my childhood best friend but it wasn't based on sexual attraction. It was more like platonic love that turned into a one-sided romance.
But I find mainstream masculinity a turn-off so any neanderthal straights and 'straight actors' can stay far the **** away from me. Cute shy nerds only, please.