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Discussion: How do you know if a guy is gay?
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you kinda just know... it's the "gaydar"
this one guy in high school was super popular, athletic, had a bunch of girlfriends and even a reputation for cheating on his girlfriends with the trashy ****s of the school... however, I just knew it in my gut that he had a thing for dudes.
2 years later I come home from college for a break and find out he was ****ing around with the biggest flamer at our school. Everyone else was surprised but I just started asking around for his number/where he worked etc
itz hardt out heere
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
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Also, this ain't always the case, but some gays who are in the closet try to make EVERYTHING about how they get women. I've noticed this with some of the more popular and seemingly womanizing men at my high school as they came out in college. 
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Member Since: 8/31/2012
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Originally posted by Giliap
you kinda just know... it's the "gaydar"
this one guy in high school was super popular, athletic, had a bunch of girlfriends and even a reputation for cheating on his girlfriends with the trashy ****s of the school... however, I just knew it in my gut that he had a thing for dudes.
2 years later I come home from college for a break and find out he was ****ing around with the biggest flamer at our school. Everyone else was surprised but I just started asking around for his number/where he worked etc
itz hardt out heere
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i'm sorry but 
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Member Since: 8/17/2013
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Quote:
Originally posted by Giliap
you kinda just know... it's the "gaydar"
this one guy in high school was super popular, athletic, had a bunch of girlfriends and even a reputation for cheating on his girlfriends with the trashy ****s of the school... however, I just knew it in my gut that he had a thing for dudes.
2 years later I come home from college for a break and find out he was ****ing around with the biggest flamer at our school. Everyone else was surprised but I just started asking around for his number/where he worked etc
itz hardt out heere
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omg 
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Member Since: 1/5/2014
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Quote:
Originally posted by Giliap
you kinda just know... it's the "gaydar"
this one guy in high school was super popular, athletic, had a bunch of girlfriends and even a reputation for cheating on his girlfriends with the trashy ****s of the school... however, I just knew it in my gut that he had a thing for dudes.
2 years later I come home from college for a break and find out he was ****ing around with the biggest flamer at our school. Everyone else was surprised but I just started asking around for his number/where he worked etc
itz hardt out heere
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What kinda 90210 teas?  #Impact
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Member Since: 9/4/2011
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If they tell you after you ask. The guessing game never works lol
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Quote:
Originally posted by Giliap
you kinda just know... it's the "gaydar"
this one guy in high school was super popular, athletic, had a bunch of girlfriends and even a reputation for cheating on his girlfriends with the trashy ****s of the school... however, I just knew it in my gut that he had a thing for dudes.
2 years later I come home from college for a break and find out he was ****ing around with the biggest flamer at our school. Everyone else was surprised but I just started asking around for his number/where he worked etc
itz hardt out heere
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
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Quote:
Originally posted by Giliap
you kinda just know... it's the "gaydar"
this one guy in high school was super popular, athletic, had a bunch of girlfriends and even a reputation for cheating on his girlfriends with the trashy ****s of the school... however, I just knew it in my gut that he had a thing for dudes.
2 years later I come home from college for a break and find out he was ****ing around with the biggest flamer at our school. Everyone else was surprised but I just started asking around for his number/where he worked etc
itz hardt out heere
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 go get that vitamin D
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Member Since: 8/18/2013
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Quote:
Originally posted by Giliap
you kinda just know... it's the "gaydar"
this one guy in high school was super popular, athletic, had a bunch of girlfriends and even a reputation for cheating on his girlfriends with the trashy ****s of the school... however, I just knew it in my gut that he had a thing for dudes.
2 years later I come home from college for a break and find out he was ****ing around with the biggest flamer at our school. Everyone else was surprised but I just started asking around for his number/where he worked etc
itz hardt out heere
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A sis gotta do what a sis gotta do
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
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Originally posted by Venus Temple
Yeah, **** the stereotypes! I use ATRL and stan for Gaga and I'm straight 
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Lemme Stan for you!!
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Originally posted by Yzma
You better tell 'em! 
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Originally posted by vuelve88
Give it time. 
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Kii 
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
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Facial expressions, eyes, and vocal inflections always give it away. Also, watch how he interacts with girls. If you still can't tell, just start having conversations with him and it will become obvious. 
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
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It's in the way he carries himself, and in the way he'll keep eye contact with you a split second longer than he should.
This assuming the stereotypes don't apply, cause seriously, most of them are based in truth
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Just find out who their fave is, and say something shady about them. My friend used it on me, example: "Oh you like Rihanna? I liked her to in that episode of WWE she was in."
I was fuming let me tell you.
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You don't, until you ask. 
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Member Since: 8/29/2012
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Sometimes I just get the feeling. The approach when they talk to you, the friends they have, the facebook comments, pictures.
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Member Since: 5/29/2012
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Originally posted by Britboyuk
I'm straight and I Stan for Gaga and use Atrl, **** the stereotypes 
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yet you just used :g aycat: 
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Member Since: 10/10/2009
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Quote:
Originally posted by Giliap
you kinda just know... it's the "gaydar"
this one guy in high school was super popular, athletic, had a bunch of girlfriends and even a reputation for cheating on his girlfriends with the trashy ****s of the school... however, I just knew it in my gut that he had a thing for dudes.
2 years later I come home from college for a break and find out he was ****ing around with the biggest flamer at our school. Everyone else was surprised but I just started asking around for his number/where he worked etc
itz hardt out heere
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Quote:
Originally posted by Giliap
you kinda just know... it's the "gaydar"
this one guy in high school was super popular, athletic, had a bunch of girlfriends and even a reputation for cheating on his girlfriends with the trashy ****s of the school... however, I just knew it in my gut that he had a thing for dudes.
2 years later I come home from college for a break and find out he was ****ing around with the biggest flamer at our school. Everyone else was surprised but I just started asking around for his number/where he worked etc
itz hardt out heere
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Yes tell it. I know two guys like this at my school
I'm counting down the days they come out and serve that D.
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