[Jameson Teqkilla]

Originally posted by Goosey

Again, stop assuming everyone's gay. Yes.

No one assumed everyone was gay. Someone asked a question aimed at gay men. Stop being so sensitive.

[Buddy]

I definitely only want a monogamous relationship. I'm very traditional when it comes to what I want in life. A monogamous relationship, hopefully marriage, and kids.

[Reza]

of course I aint no swinger.

[Aphrodite]

If you truly love somebody, how could you be fine with knowing that person is sharing themselves with someone else the way you 2 do privately?

I'll never understand.
When I find someone I truly love I wouldn't even think of being with someone else or the thought of him being with someone else, unless I'd be thinking he was cheating.

[DavidSMateus]

What's the problem with the OP asking gays what they thing about monogamy?! He is one so he want's to know feedback from the same as him. Get a grip some of you

[Mezik]

Originally posted by Ice Cream Skies

Yes, I believe in monogamy.

A monogamous relationship is the only relationship I'll accept. I won't settle for anything less. Yeah, I may be gay, but I also want to get married one day to ONE guy & have ONE family with him. Maybe I'm selfish.

Then again, I don't really understand the allure of "open relationships", anyway. How are they any different from a friends-with-benefits situation, except adding all of the emotional baggage that a relationship can bring?

To me and "Open Relationship" is the same as being unfaithful.

If you can't stay faithful to one person then don't be in a relationship, just stay single and have your hook ups when you want to.

[Jameson Teqkilla]

Originally posted by Aphrodite

If you truly love somebody, how could you be fine with knowing that person is sharing themselves with someone else the way you 2 do privately?

I'll never understand.
When I find someone I truly love I wouldn't even think of being with someone else or the thought of him being with someone else, unless I'd be thinking he was cheating.

I don't have sex with casual acquaintances the same way I have sex with my boyfriends.

[Jameson Teqkilla]

Originally posted by Mezik

To me and "Open Relationship" is the same as being unfaithful.

If you can't stay faithful to one person then don't be in a relationship, just stay single and have your hook ups when you want to.

How is it being unfaithful if you've both consented to it and are being honest with each other? You're not making sense.

Why should other people's relationships be governed by your rules? Mind your own business.

[Idontcareaboutyou]

Originally posted by Aphrodite

If you truly love somebody, how could you be fine with knowing that person is sharing themselves with someone else the way you 2 do privately?

Because you can have sex for other reasons than love and passion. Fun, enjoyment for one night etc.

[Mezik]

Originally posted by J. YONCÉ

I don't have sex with casual acquaintances the same way I have sex with my boyfriends.

But how could you allow yourself to have sex with others when you "love" your boyfriend. Just doesn't make sense to me.

[clbylara]

Originally posted by J. YONCÉ

I don't have sex with casual acquaintances the same way I have sex with my boyfriends.

Have you ever been in love? You sound like Samantha Jones. Eek

[Reza]

Originally posted by J. YONCÉ

I don't have sex with casual acquaintances the same way I have sex with my boyfriends.

sex is sex. theres only one way to do it.

[Jameson Teqkilla]

Originally posted by Mezik

But how could you allow yourself to have sex with others when you "love" your boyfriend. Just doesn't make sense to me.

Because I have sex with people I don't love all the time.

My relationships are defined by far more than sex. Emotional connection >>>> sex.

[Jameson Teqkilla]

Originally posted by Reza

sex is sex. theres only one way to do it.

I'm sorry you feel that way.

[Vato]

Monogamy is the ONLY way to go tbh. Why even be in a relationship if you want to sleep around?

[Jameson Teqkilla]

Originally posted by Vato

Monogamy is the ONLY way to go tbh. Why even be in a relationship if you want to sleep around?

Because relationships are about more than sex?

[Mezik]

Originally posted by J. YONCÉ

Because I have sex with people I don't love all the time.

My relationships are defined by far more than sex. Emotional connection >>>> sex.

I'm sorry but to me if my boyfriend wants to bounce dick to dick than I'd kick him to curb faster than Usain Bolt runs.

[Jameson Teqkilla]

Originally posted by Mezik

I'm sorry but to me if my boyfriend wants to bounce dick to dick than I'd kick him to curb faster than Usain Bolt runs.

Cool, then don't have an open relationship. I'm not saying you have to have one.

[clbylara]

Originally posted by J. YONCÉ

I'm sorry you feel that way.

You give gays a bad name! You're the reason our community is seen as disgusting! Your filthy way of thinking isn't worth my time!

[UnusualBoy]

Originally posted by Aphrodite

If you truly love somebody, how could you be fine with knowing that person is sharing themselves with someone else the way you 2 do privately?

I'll never understand.
When I find someone I truly love I wouldn't even think of being with someone else or the thought of him being with someone else, unless I'd be thinking he was cheating.

IKR? That sounds more like a free than a relationship. I for myself couldn't be in an open relationship because I'm an emotional person and I get attached so easy that would hurt me to see the guy I love delivering the goods to somebody else.