I wish people would realize that humanity as a whole has always and will always be judgmental. It sucks, but it is a part of life.
Often times we have to learn to deal with it or learn to ignore it. I have learned this as a biracial male who has had multiple individuals (not just the black side of my family) tell me I can't act a certain way because it is "too black" or "too white" as well as being "too feminine" (especially since my sexual orientation is straight) or "too masculine" in my thinking and mannerisms.
But wait now... why are blacks agreeing to this?
Yes, just give the racists more material to drag you with, so you can turn around and cry when they call you the most judgmental race.