I was never bullied, but I really do feel terrible about people who are bullied. I had someone get bullied because of his voice right in front of me during lunch! I was in utter shock so I didn't do anything about it. Luckily, that was the last time I saw that kid get bullied.
I think bullying is a terrible thing. Some parents these days really need to learn how to discipline their children about treating others with respect. Other than that situation, I haven't really seen much bullying in my life (because there aren't many gays down in my area). But I'm glad that people in high school are more mature and they don't bully anyone.
I remember when I just started H.S and these set of ghetto gorls tossed a paper at me(because I was "quiet"). I got LOUD with them. That paper flew back over there so quick, they never messed with me again.
They bully the freshmen a lot. Especially on the first Friday of the school week where they called it "Freshmen Friday"
I hate bullying and when people take their lives because of it, it makes me VERY VERY angry.
I guess before I check out i'll ask for some quick advice.
There are these three kids that ALWAYS bully one of my friends. We aren't that close anymore so it's not like we talk about it BUT we used to be BEST friends, so I have a certain feeling towards him. I want him to be happy and blah blah. But what do you think I can say to these other three guys to make them stop? Make them feel bad about what they're doing?
And please don't anyone reply with 'tell admin". I can't. The admin really has it out for my friend. He's kinda weird and quirky and teachers in Highschool LOVE picking on kids like that. Oh, and might I add this is in Physical Education. This isn't his strong point. And the PE department especially HATES him.
But anyways, these kids are HUGE douches. They make fun of anyone from disabled kids to social outcasts. I really want to make them stop and so far nothing I have said has made them. Whenever I say something they stop for a bit because I am not one of their targets considering I am somewhat 'cool' but they'll be right back at it when I leave.
Anyways I'm late on time and need to go to Basketball tryouts. PLEASE! someone reply.
You should just approach them and ask them why they act that way. I remember these guys that use to pick on some of the slower learning high school students so I had to drag them because I knew kids like that and volunteered at places to help those types of children.
Sometimes you just have to act a fool to get results.
I was bullied throughout my elementry school years, from about 4th-6th grade, all throughout middle school, and my first year of high school. I was bullied kinda bad. I THOUGHT about takng my own life, but I never acted on those thoughts. I didnt began to accept who I was and defend myself until 10th grade....
I feel sorta weird that I was never bullied. Maybe cause I liked girls until I was in HS? When I came out my junior year, it was fine cause I went to a performing arts high school and being gay was a rite of passage.
I just want lots of friends who invite me to their parties
It's no so amazing being gay, popular and invited to every party.
Well it is, then you're standing there at midnight, like Robyn, dancing on your own, 'cause all the other horny teens have found a partner...the girls NOT doing Christina Millian justice, dipping it low, yet picking it up way too slow.
I'm not even going to go there. I'm just looking forward to my 18th, when I can go out properly and actually be appreciated for more than just being "Jonny, the life of the party" who gets deserted once everyone finds their **** for the night.
I was never bullied, but I really do feel terrible about people who are bullied. I had someone get bullied because of his voice right in front of me during lunch! I was in utter shock so I didn't do anything about it.
Thats something i can't do though and especially if its a friend.
My temper is short with people who act up on someone who they know won't do anything.
It just gets under my skin and makes me react.
9 times out of 10 people will bully kids who they know won't stand up for themselves. That's why it's important to build self confidence, especially during your HS years because the gerls will try it.
9 times out of 10 people will bully kids who they know won't stand up for themselves. That's why it's important to build self confidence, especially during your HS years because the gerls will try it.
Very true. But sometimes it's so difficult to try and build up that self-confidence because of what people have said to you before.
I was bullied all throughout high school because I never really built up the confidence to stand up for myself or seem like less of a target. I guess that stemmed from being bullied all throughout elementary and middle school, though.
I'm positive that this will sound weird, but I'm almost glad I was bullied so much. It was horrible at the time and I always wondered why it was I who had to suffer through all that, but now I look back and feel that it's the reason I'm the way I am today. I don't think I'd be as empathetic and worldly without that happening.
9 times out of 10 people will bully kids who they know won't stand up for themselves. That's why it's important to build self confidence, especially during your HS years because the gerls will try it.
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And I know that sometimes one can't help it, but when you show your weakness, its a WRAP for you and they don't stop until you literally hurt yourself....
It's no so amazing being gay, popular and invited to every party.
Well it is, then you're standing there at midnight, like Robyn, dancing on your own, 'cause all the other horny teens have found a partner...the girls NOT doing Christina Millian justice, dipping it low, yet picking it up way too slow.
I'm not even going to go there. I'm just looking forward to my 18th, when I can go out properly and actually be appreciated for more than just being "Jonny, the life of the party" who gets deserted once everyone finds their **** for the night.
No. I've never been bullied...So far.
There were occasions where peers talk out-loud about my style and my dancing abilities in High School. I didn't care much about it then because I was feeling my style and I just wanted to ace & exit dance class .
It's no so amazing being gay, popular and invited to every party.
Well it is, then you're standing there at midnight, like Robyn, dancing on your own, 'cause all the other horny teens have found a partner...the girls NOT doing Christina Millian justice, dipping it low, yet picking it up way too slow.
I'm not even going to go there. I'm just looking forward to my 18th, when I can go out properly and actually be appreciated for more than just being "Jonny, the life of the party" who gets deserted once everyone finds their **** for the night.
Wow, that seems bitter
lol. I know exactly how you feel. But IDK if I really fit in with a lot of (out) gay guys, either.
This thread reminds me of this one time in high school where this straight guy got bodied by this gay guy he kept picking at during lunch. There were like 800 students there to witness it too. It was very inspiring and amazing for the gays, but obviously very embarrassing for the straight guy on the football team.