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Discussion: People who say they wouldn't date specific races.. are they
Member Since: 6/7/2011
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Originally posted by skyler_
what the hell did you just post???
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If you don't like Asian people and are racist towards them but you don't let anyone but yourself know that and don't harm them or throw a fit when they are given equal rights to you, then what is wrong with that?
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Originally posted by KoreanDream
But honestly, who does it harm? I don't see the problem with someone being racist if they aren't harming anyone. Same with homophobia. If you're homophobic, I don't have a problem with it as long as you don't discriminate against homosexuals and aren't harming them.
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Tale as old as time
True as it can be
Barely even friends
Then somebody bends
Unexpectedly
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Originally posted by Hi.Def
Gerl, what?
There are several reasons people get fat. Only one side of it concerns food. Some have health problems that causes them to gain weight and there are other factors as well.
You discriminating against the big gerls.
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True...I forgot about other reasons
Well I don't prefer the fat look, but I'd never say I wouldn't ever consider...
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Originally posted by RatedG
It's okay if you prefer to date someone else because of their skin tone, or whatevs. But if you blatantly say that you don't date mexicans, that's completely and utterly racist since you don't know every single mexican person and can't make that generalization that you wouldn't date them for a specific feature that not all mexicans may have.
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Originally posted by RatedG
I do not prefer to date fat people. They seem like the type to not care about you, since they do not obviously care about themselves for getting fat. But I would never say "I don't date fat people" since I do not know every single fat person in the world to say something like that. I might one day find a fat person I like...
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Member Since: 6/4/2010
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Originally posted by La Musique
Guilt?
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Possibly.
I know someone told me they didn't date Mexicans because they have a habit of being hairy, but IDK. I personally haven't dated mexicans and haven't really seen them nude.
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Originally posted by KoreanDream
If you don't like Asian people and are racist towards them but you don't let anyone but yourself know that and don't harm them or throw a fit when they are given equal rights to you, then what is wrong with that?
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oh okay....
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Originally posted by RatedG
True...I forgot about other reasons
Well I don't prefer the fat look, but I'd never say I wouldn't ever consider...
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Are you a chubby chaser in the bedroom, but prefer nawt to be seen with them in the public eye?
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RatedG just posted the definition of racism which is aggressive behavior towards a certain race because of their race. If you don't treat them with aggressive behavior or really any different than other people, but secretly find them to be inferior, then what is wrong? I'm just saying that if it's your personal belief that you don't harm anyone with, I don't see a problem.
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Originally posted by featheralley
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I see coherency in those posts. I would still consider dating a fat person, since I do not know every single fat person in the world to say I wouldn't. What's wrong there
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Originally posted by Hi.Def
Are you a chubby chaser in the bedroom, but prefer nawt to be seen with them in the public eye?
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Bitch
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Of course it's preference, I don't imagine myself dating a very black dark guy, not because I dislike them, It's just very rare for me to find them attractive and as far as I know you need to be atracted to be someone to fall in love and date just like I can't imagine myself dating someone fat, I'm far from being racist. While at the same time I have preference for Asians, I just find them gorgeous most of the time, doesn't mean I think they're superior to everyone else. However, I would date any race, it's just that there are more chances for me to find certain races attractive while others not so much.
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I find some fat people attractive, like Kevin James there's just something that makes me think he's cute.
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But TBH, isn't the most important part of a person is their personality. So what's so much emphasis on race for? I'd rather date a race I don't usually prefer with a nice personality than a race I find much more attractive with a horrible personality
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Originally posted by RatedG
I see coherency in those posts. I would still consider dating a fat person, since I do not know every single fat person in the world to say I wouldn't. What's wrong there
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Because you just openly said that your general opinion about fat people is that they don't have the capacity to care for someone because they don't care for themselves. That is like saying that you probably would never date a Jew because you don't think they could take care of you financially because they are greedy with their money....it is the generalizing comments that come off as hateful, regardless of what group you target with it
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The only fat dude i found attractive was a husky dude in my art class. He had swag and i wanted his swaggoo and his personality shat. Appearance isn't everything but he was kinda cute in the face too i think thats what HOOKED me in and his personality kept me interested.
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Originally posted by Last Boy on Earth
Of course it's preference, I don't imagine myself dating a very black dark guy, not because I dislike them, It's just very rare for me to find them attractive and as far as I know you need to be atracted to be someone to fall in love and date, I'm far from being racist. While at the same time I have preference for Asians, I just find them gorgeous most of the time, doesn't mean I think they're superior to everyone else.
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I find asians and "very dark black men" (seriously Miguel ) both beautiful.
Basically you only see beauty in light skin.
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Originally posted by RedDlicious
Because you just openly said that your general opinion about fat people is that they don't have the capacity to care for someone because they don't care for themselves. That is like saying that you probably would never date a Jew because you don't think they could take care of you financially because they are greedy with their money....it is the generalizing comments that come off as hateful, regardless of what group you target with it
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But in the next post, I also apologized when saying "I forgot there were other reasons." But even though I made that general opinion, that still doesn't change the fact that I wouldn't ever date a person of that calibur
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Originally posted by Last Boy on Earth
Of course it's preference, I don't imagine myself dating a very black dark guy, not because I dislike them, It's just very rare for me to find them attractive and as far as I know you need to be atracted to be someone to fall in love and date just like I can't imagine myself dating someone fat, I'm far from being racist. While at the same time I have preference for Asians, I just find them gorgeous most of the time, doesn't mean I think they're superior to everyone else.
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Preach sis
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