It's a bit tacky and annoying, shows what kind of vapid person you're dealing with, but you can't really dictate anyone who and what they're attracted to. People handle rejection differently. Some move on, some like to nag about it.
I think it's gross and ignore any guy with that in their profile.
Here's the thing, if you don't like certain ethnicities just ignore the messages. I know those who do outright say "no chocolate rice spice" claim that they are trying to save time for both the other party and themselves. But it's gross and hurtful to anybody who has to read it. Not just to the men of color but to any person who is disgusted by racism and disrespectful remarks
It's a bit tacky and annoying, shows what kind of vapid person you're dealing with, but you can't really dictate anyone who and what they're attracted to. People handle rejection differently. Some move on, some like to nag about it.
Yup. I'd rather have guys be upfront with their preferences so I know which superficial queens to avoid.
It is racist but to be fair my friends who aren't particularly attracted to white guys say similar things like bland, stale crackers, day old corn bread, granola...
It is racist but to be fair my friends who aren't particularly attracted to white guys say similar things like bland, stale crackers, day old corn bread, granola...
I'm not gay but I'm sure it must be infuriating to have your enemas ready and starving yourself all day just to see the guy being into "no rice, no spice, no chocolate". I would be angry too.
You know I don't agree with you in the political threads but this is how I feel too
Generally I too tend to agree. The problem is that suddenly when white gays get older they all of the sudden start magically being interested in waaay younger minorities....when in their prime gay years they couldn't be bothered. I'd rather know about it so I can avoid. I know black people who treat people who don't measure up to their level of blackness like crap when in relationships so... its a two way street.
Its honestly disgusting and racist. People try to hide behind the idea it is a "preference" but dismissing a whole entire race is in fact quite racist .