[shinjiikari]

Originally posted by Sazare

like i would gladly walk down the street holding my boyfriends hand because i am proud of who i am i just dont see the need to shove it down everyones throats. Plus im attracted to guys like john goodman by default I understand that people have the need to express themselves whatever iget it its just going to make it harder for me to take you seriously because although you may have a better personality than everyone in the entire world those actions are what im going to perceive first .

[DevonDreams]

Originally posted by NewRihannaStan

That's ******** because if they really wanted a girl then they would go and have one . At the end of the day the guy still has a penis so what does it matter if he acts like a girl

THis. Like wtf. not trying use the gender rules but....

[NewRihannaStan]

Originally posted by Butterfly.

If i wanted to date someone girly ill just date a girl, im dating a MAN for a reason.

Yes for his penis .. If you wanted a vagina then you would date a female . So what does it matter if he has fem qualities .. He still has a penis whitch is what you like

[mypaintoyou]

Originally posted by Butterfly.

If i wanted to date someone girly ill just date a girl, im dating a MAN for a reason.

OMG GIRL same here

[Maiko]

The sad responses in this thread. Nobody is talking about your preference for masculine men.

There is literally hate and disdain for fem guys among gay men and its sad.

[Kkamjong]

Originally posted by NewRihannaStan

Yes for his penis .. If you wanted a vagina then you would date a female . So what does it matter if he has fem qualities .. He still has a penis whitch is what you like

Yes. Because people only date other people for their penises. Personality, behavior, and overall aura have nothing to do with it. Just his PENIS!!

[Drais.]

Originally posted by NewRihannaStan

Yes for his penis .. If you wanted a vagina then you would date a female . So what does it matter if he has fem qualities .. He still has a penis whitch is what you like

If a man has characteristics and traits that are strikingly similar to a woman then obviously some gay men wouldn't be attracted to that.

[inspiration4]

Originally posted by NewRihannaStan

That's ******** because if they really wanted a girl then they would go and have one . At the end of the day the guy still has a penis so what does it matter if he acts like a girl

So you're essentially saying that as long as someone has the genitals of the sex you're attracted to, you should, in theory, be attracted to them???

So you think straight guys should fawn over butch lesbians?

Straight girls should obsess over the most effeminate gays?

Oh wow...

[Butterfly.]

Originally posted by NewRihannaStan

Yes for his penis .. If you wanted a vagina then you would date a female . So what does it matter if he has fem qualities .. He still has a penis whitch is what you like

Men are supposed to be men

Im not attracted to fems, if im dating a guy i want a guy

[kyleaustin]

the voice and what words come out of their mouth

[jayyyxtee]

Originally posted by Butterfly.

Men are supposed to be men

Im not attracted to fems, if im dating a guy i want a guy

so are fem men not men because they talk a certain way? You do realize how ignorant you sound right? I mean I get what you're saying but come on its 2014

[Callisto.]

Because they're not "straight acting" enough for them.

[bijonse]

misogyny and a hatred for feminine qualities in men when men are supposed to be "masculine". lol masculinity is a social construct it's not a physical trait.

stop with that "I want a MAN" mess because a "feminine" (social construct that could mean the very opposite in another culture) man is still a man. it's just further proving my point

[NewRihannaStan]

Originally posted by Drais.

If a man has characteristics and traits that are strikingly similar to a woman then obviously some gay men wouldn't be attracted to that.

I'm not disputing that..

[Circinus]

Originally posted by inspiration4

To play devil's advocate:

Being gay and being feminine are not the same thing, at all.

So if a non-fem were to hate a fem, it certainly wouldn't be self-hatred. Hatred? Yes. Discrimination,etc? Yes. Self-hatred? No.

No matter how hard some of you try, you're not going to make being gay synonymous with being feminine.

I agree that gay is not synonymous with being feminine, but it does make people question your masculinity. And it makes a lot of guys feel like they aren't real men. C'mon now. We all know those gays who try so hard to "pass". The guy who sounds like Barry White on the phone but a purse falls out of his mouth when you meet him in person. The guy who claims to be "straight acting" but stans for pop girls and knows nothing about sports. When it comes to gays like this, they often hate feminine gays because those feminine gays reinforce their own insecurities; that they aren't "real men" like straight dudes. Just my observations from my limited exposure to the gay community. I could be completely off base.

[Peep]

So hypocritical, yet they want the D and the ass and to have them ride them like powerbottoms.

[42Osuxx]

They take their femininity to a whole different level. There is no reason a gay guy should be acting 100x more girly than us actual females do. I understand fems like a lot of feminine things , but the behavior does not have to be over the top to the point where most just look as ridiculous as a clown at a childs birthday party.
If most were able to find a balance then I would be way less annoyed by it, and have more fem friends.

[Rigalo]

Originally posted by Butterfly.

Men are supposed to be men

Im not attracted to fems, if im dating a guy i want a guy

And some guys don't mind girly gays

[jayyyxtee]

Originally posted by bijonse

misogyny and a hatred for feminine qualities in men when men are supposed to be "masculine". lol masculinity is a social construct it's not a physical trait.

stop with that "I want a MAN" mess because a "feminine" (social construct that could mean the very opposite in another culture) man is still a man. it's just further proving my point

I agree.
You might not like their personality or mannerisms but that doesn't make them less of a man.

[Kkamjong]

Originally posted by Peep

So hypocritical, yet they want the D and the ass and to have them ride them like powerbottoms.