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Discussion: Being gay - the hardest thing?
Member Since: 7/9/2010
Posts: 31,471
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Originally posted by Latch
It's ****ed up that on top of the outside hate,
we have so much negativity within the community as well
It's even evident here on ATRL
People say things like,
"Ew. Not here for these twinks."
when most of y'all here are "twinks"
and they feed into that old traditional gender role ******** about how a man is supposed to behave,
and they put down the gays that are more effeminate
even tho most of y'all here spend 16 hours a day or more calling each other sis
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Some gays don't want to believe that bisexuality exists,
or they assume that sexuality is this very black and white concept
Some of the White gals don't use gays of color and pass it off as a "preference"
It seems like all we do is tear each other down even more
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Wait. What kinda FLAWLESS post? I hate going here and seeing posts of calling others "thirsty bottoms" like it's a horrible thing.
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Member Since: 8/16/2011
Posts: 13,397
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Originally posted by Quiqui4eva
Wait. What kinda FLAWLESS post? I hate going here and seeing posts of calling others "thirsty bottoms" like it's a horrible thing.
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Being a thirsty bottom is and will never be cute
Who told you different?
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
Posts: 11,474
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Quote:
Originally posted by Latch
It's ****ed up that on top of the outside hate,
we have so much negativity within the community as well
It's even evident here on ATRL
People say things like,
"Ew. Not here for these twinks."
when most of y'all here are "twinks"
and they feed into that old traditional gender role ******** about how a man is supposed to behave,
and they put down the gays that are more effeminate
even tho most of y'all here spend 16 hours a day or more calling each other sis
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Some gays don't want to believe that bisexuality exists,
or they assume that sexuality is this very black and white concept
Some of the White gals don't use gays of color and pass it off as a "preference"
It seems like all we do is tear each other down even more
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Sis all that hot tea
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Member Since: 7/9/2010
Posts: 31,471
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Originally posted by ChrisRTW
Being a thirsty bottom is and will never be cute
Who told you different?
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Nobody is "thirsty". That's just how effeminate gays here are labeled.
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
Posts: 11,808
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Originally posted by BadMonster
Not you playing the victim card and calling racism when someone just isn't into black people.... I like people from all ethnicities, I'm just not attracted to them, I'm only attracted to caucasian males and once in a blue moon there's someone with an Asian or African appearance that I like, I can't help it, it doesn't have anything to do with racism... It's the same as saying you don't consider women as equals and you discriminate them just because you are not interested in them sexually/romantically.....
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Girl, no it is not
I understand you wanting to vocie your opinion,
but what you will noT do is come in here and be loud, wrong and insensetive
Let's not be all three
You don't just write off an entire ethnic group as "not your type" and think that it's nothing
It doesn't make you a racist,
but it has everything to do with racism
It goes back to society
You're only attracted to Caucasian males because you've been hardwired to believe that White people are the standard of beauty. It's part of a systematic White power structure that's been in place for YEARS
It's not "just a preference" and nobody is "playing the victim" or "pulling the race card"
Have you ever met someone that just didn't happen to find White people attractive?
I sure as **** haven't
and pls miss me with that
"Well, do yoo nawt view women as equalz!?!" bull
It's not the same and you know damn well it isn't
Ethnicity and gender are two completely different planes
You don't have sex with the color of somebody's skin
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Member Since: 2/15/2010
Posts: 26,154
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Quote:
Originally posted by Latch
Girl, no it is not
I understand you wanting to vocie your opinion,
but what you will noT do is come in here and be loud, wrong and insensetive
Let's not be all three
You don't just write off an entire ethnic group as "not your type" and think that it's nothing
It doesn't make you a racist,
but it has everything to do with racism
It goes back to society
You're only attracted to Caucasian males because you've been hardwired to believe that White people are the standard of beauty. It's part of a systematic White power structure that's been in place for YEARS
It's not "just a preference" and nobody is "playing the victim" or "pulling the race card"
Have you ever met someone that just didn't happen to find White people attractive?
I sure as **** haven't
and pls miss me with that
"Well, do yoo nawt view women as equalz!?!" bull
It's not the same and you know damn well it isn't
Ethnicity and gender are two completely different planes
You don't have sex with the color of somebody's skin
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Can you stop
talking like this?
It's really fricken annoying
Giving me
iMessage texting with a friend
teas
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Member Since: 8/4/2012
Posts: 37,267
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Originally posted by TRUTH COMMISSION
A black person would understand what a gay person goes through. Cause blacks aren't really accepted just like a gay person ain't. We can't do this cause we this, we that. Blacks/gays gotta worry about how people are gonna feel when there somewhere. It's facts.
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Originally posted by ForeverNow90
This tbh. No tea and no shade, but from what I know, most white gays don't use blacks in terms of intimacy, although we are socially accepted by whites, we will never fully be regarded as human beings because we are sexually unattractive.
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All of this, tbh. The amount of tea is just .....
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Member Since: 3/14/2013
Posts: 19,449
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Legend Latch spilling the tea. Uncensored. Uncut and Un-tucked. 
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Member Since: 8/29/2012
Posts: 2,488
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Quote:
Originally posted by Latch
Girl, no it is not
I understand you wanting to vocie your opinion,
but what you will noT do is come in here and be loud, wrong and insensetive
Let's not be all three
You don't just write off an entire ethnic group as "not your type" and think that it's nothing
It doesn't make you a racist,
but it has everything to do with racism
It goes back to society
You're only attracted to Caucasian males because you've been hardwired to believe that White people are the standard of beauty. It's part of a systematic White power structure that's been in place for YEARS
It's not "just a preference" and nobody is "playing the victim" or "pulling the race card"
Have you ever met someone that just didn't happen to find White people attractive?
I sure as **** haven't
and pls miss me with that
"Well, do yoo nawt view women as equalz!?!" bull
It's not the same and you know damn well it isn't
Ethnicity and gender are two completely different planes
You don't have sex with the color of somebody's skin
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Guilty
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Member Since: 12/1/2010
Posts: 23,572
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The racial tension in the gay community is real. And white males are the center of it all 
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Member Since: 8/16/2011
Posts: 13,397
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Originally posted by robboadam
Guilty
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Your "Do you like black guys" thread makes so much more sense now.
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Member Since: 9/4/2012
Posts: 12,421
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Originally posted by MattH94
Well,the hardest thing for me is finding a relationship.All guys here want is to sleep around.Any guy who I actually liked this past year always said,"Sorry,I'm not looking for anything!" and I get that same damn excuse every time!!I'm sick of putting myself out there to have it thrown back in my face........
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i worry about this a lot
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
Posts: 11,808
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Originally posted by Golden
Can you stop
talking like this?
It's really fricken annoying
Giving me
iMessage texting with a friend
teas
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This is a thread about the struggles that come along with being gay,
and you're worried about the way my posts are formatted?
Your pressed is showing.
Tuck it back in.
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
Posts: 11,808
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Quote:
Originally posted by robboadam
Guilty
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You're like a unicorn, tbh
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Member Since: 2/15/2010
Posts: 26,154
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Quote:
Originally posted by Latch
This is a thread about the struggles that come along with being gay,
and you're worried about the way my posts are formatted?
Your pressed it showing.
Tuck it back in.
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I agree with all that your posting so I'm not pressed at all honey.
It just makes reading sentences
that are formatted
like this
kind of
really annoying
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Member Since: 8/4/2012
Posts: 37,267
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Quote:
Originally posted by ForeverNow90
Legend Latch spilling the tea. Uncensored. Uncut and Un-tucked. |
Right? He is going in. I love it. 
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Member Since: 5/17/2010
Posts: 21,708
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A combination of having to deal with internalized homophobia from insecure gays and trying to find the cheapest lube.
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Member Since: 5/21/2012
Posts: 13,571
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Originally posted by primo.
A combination of having to deal with internalized homophobia from insecure gays and trying to find the cheapest lube.
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It's already cheap though
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Member Since: 11/1/2009
Posts: 8,661
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People bringing racism here? Just because a white man rejects you doesnt mean they're racist. Maybe they just prefer certain kind of features
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Member Since: 2/26/2012
Posts: 9,914
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Quote:
Originally posted by Cardinal_Luis
What's the hardest thing about being gay in your personal opinion? (obviously a thread for the gays)
For me, it is the stereotypes and stigmas that are in the gay world. I am 21, a top, and masculine yet overly sensitive, romantic, and respectful. I get ridiculous things like "how are you a top and sensitive!?" Or "romantic? Nobody got time fo daT!" It's like everybody just wants to penetrate and be penetrated, soulless and sh*t, ya know?
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You kinda described me too. 
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