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Originally posted by Penny.
so are u guys saying that if a gay man has sex with a girl that makes him bi?
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It depends
If it's a one off or even a "short" period of experimentation that he ends up getting no pleasure from and never wanting to repeat it, it doesn't change his orientation as a gay man. But if it's something he does on a regular basis and enjoys it, of course he's bi.
Again, maybe I'm being too narrow minded about it, but I don't get why we complicate our definitions and our terminology so much in fear of actually facing certain truths... But I guess there's no "right" or "wrong" in these things, so I'll just let everyone define (or not define) themselves as they please? I'll try at least