I believe in Indian culture, marriage is so huge and central, so I can understand her pressure. She is 100% right about gay men and marrying women. R.I.P.
'If someone in the society is like him please don’t marry to a girl to save yourself, you people by doing so not playing only with someone emotions also with a girl and her family’s life,' she wrote.
Well-written. She was a wise woman. Shame she took her own life over that though
She only figured this out after FIVE years of being married and not having sex?
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'After 6 month of marriage I searched for the reason why [he was] unable to make relations with me,' she wrote.
'I found a fake gmail account on his laptop in which he was chatting with his gay friends and gay ****s, gay pics, connection with gay communities and these messages were before of our marriage.'
There are Bi men out there that truly want to be with women. If they cannot fully commit to her then they should not be with her. But if so then it should be. Your past should not prevent the future.
He did admit it a month ago and she wanted to stay married, but the "relationship" wasn't working. He was sleeping with men in secret and taking his frustration out on her. Apparently his parents wanted them to get divorced, but she and her family wanted to make it work. Indians aren't a big fan of divorce!
This. The divorce is a huge stigma for a woman from India. Just look at how they treat widows in some parts of the country when they are cast out by the family
Towards the end of her note, she pleaded with other gay men not to marry women.
'If someone in the society is like him please don’t marry to a girl to save yourself, you people by doing so not playing only with someone emotions also with a girl and her family’s life,' she wrote.
This couldn't be more accurate. He is very selfish.